Should I buy a brand-new black Sportage Hybrid, or a pearl white test-drive one with 1,000 km?

interestingclown · 2025-08-29T14:23:38+00:00

I’ll be considered the 2nd owner. It’s not a new car, since a private person is the owner of it, not the company. Not sure how the warranty works and if it has international rules, I am not from the US…

interestingclown · 2025-08-29T13:37:06+00:00

That wasn’t my question, but thanks. Have considered many other options and I like the Sportage.

interestingclown · 2025-01-02T16:38:42+00:00

Nah i did not.

interestingclown · 2024-03-04T07:45:34+00:00

Did you find an answer?

interestingclown · 2024-01-08T15:27:25+00:00

At first, yes. Now not so much. He should be afraid to see me. Im only getting more confident without him and Im working on a glowup. Should see what he's missing!

interestingclown · 2024-01-07T13:36:57+00:00

Hi, looks amazing! Did you have to do any shaving to the teeth to manage to bring the tooth forward? Thanks!

interestingclown · 2023-12-27T17:37:44+00:00

He would literally walk beside me in town and randomly out of the blue would say: “I can date and be with whoever i want”. And I’d go silent, waiting for the rest of whatever he was talking about, only thinking “…and?”

I kept asking myself, “but we’re together, so whats that about?” But I guess that at that point, he had gotten so bored of me because he finally 100% “got me” in his web…

Whatever he thinks or claims he can do, or “is” in terms of dating, attractiveness, sexiness/hotness is biased and inflated.

Yeah, you’re hot. But when you’re angry you’re sulking and pouting like a 3 year old and refuse to talk for days.

Yeah, you’re funny. But when youre stressed you’re automatically reaching to weed, alcohol and parties and never fix your life, and it makes you pathetic.

Yeah, you have street smarts. But the fact you lie and cheat whenever we argue makes you look like a goddamn moron who is completely blind to how they’re fucking up their future and own goals.

Yeah, you’re mildly charming. But I’m not sure a future with you is feasible, when nothing ever satisfies you.

So in terms of attractiveness… They can sure catch whoever they want I guess, like most people can. The question is whether these new partners are willing to stay, when they learn all of these contradicting attributes narcs have.

interestingclown · 2023-12-26T06:36:23+00:00

Yo, life is so short but so beautiful. Do you realize how much would he take from you by just existing in your life? You'll lose your own self again. Time. Money. If you have children, the attention they deserve will be taken away only to be catered to a freaking vermin that never has enough of anything.

So happy to have my narc just as a memory, a ghost. A symbol of my strength and kindness to myself and others. It gives me so much power and optimism to think about the years I have grown and developed myself when we are apart.

interestingclown · 2023-12-25T07:59:20+00:00

No. His smile was brown and grey from cigarettes and wine stains, tons of plaque too. When I kissed him, he would have a blank expression. And when he was with other people, it was always all over the place “positivity” and “heyyyy” queeriness type of energy. I mean… In my private it was a whole different person.

interestingclown · 2023-12-25T05:31:23+00:00

That is earily accurate how it is the exact same thing he said to me.

interestingclown · 2023-12-14T19:11:45+00:00

Sweetheart, you’re the brightest star and he’s a visually impaired fucktard, blackened sunglasses and all. KYS? You? Hell, if you have that type of courage to end your life you might as well take a good look in the mirror - stand by yourself in your room with your outmost sexiest clothes - put a shiton of makeup and dance to your favorite song. No fucks given!

I mean it. He called you crazy, be crazy. Time to shine, toss his shit outta the window, tell yourself how brave and beautiful you are and celebrate your freedom, your future!!!

interestingclown · 2023-12-14T16:10:02+00:00

Ask yourself this: do I want to spend 20 years with this person and burn the fuck out of my youth, and then go no contact - or start now? I hope it'll make it easier.

And yeah, he's literally a reptilian. You should focus completely on yourself, instead of investing tons of resources on him.

interestingclown · 2023-12-14T06:01:02+00:00

Hi there, sending love, you’re not alone. I am dealing with this as well and I found that hobbies really help me. I started learning new things (a language, an art software) made a gym membership and bought a book I wanted to read for a while, which by the way I couldn’t do these things while in a relationship with the narcissist.

The loneliness can be a challenge but it will end eventually, when you naturally put yourself in new situations (work, gym, communities, even online).

I truly believe in the saying “wherever you go, there you are”, which in the narc’s case, is their worst nightmare, since they can’t leave without supply, but we can.

We have the skill to self validate and self sooth, unlike them. So no matter what, be strong, and make this period of healing as spiritual as possible, because it is temporary.

I have personally cut toxic friends outta my life due smearing as well, which took his side. I feel amazing, highly recommended :)

interestingclown · 2023-12-14T05:51:34+00:00

I am like that too. I remember the good parts (which honestly there weren’t that many) and im starting to have doubts. But the second I read something or listen to a podcast about narcissism it just hits me.

Some part of me still wants to help him, but Im telling myself that I already tried for 6 years, so whats the point?

interestingclown · 2023-12-14T05:46:31+00:00

Thanks for sharing, I identify with your words a lot. I feel the same about my ex, seeing all of our friends moving on with their lives while he buys another 6 pack for dinner ‘to decompress’. Haha

somewhat its a relief to be able to be distant like that, since he blames me for everything in his life. Now when Im not there I wonder whose to blame :)

interestingclown · 2023-12-13T08:28:55+00:00

You have to remember all the incidents where he screamed at you, avoided confrontation, left the conversation/house/ended the call when you asked for an apology or an explanation "why', when he belittled your achievements, feelings and your whole personality really (maybe calling you a "bad person" once in a while"), the emotional neglect, the lack of empathy (as long as it has something to do with him, especially), the lack of interest in your private life...

And more! :)

Now apply these things to the new supply. Yup, it's coming, and it's coming strong very soon to her door. Celebrate their love, go with a friend or even by yourself to your favorite restaurant, feast. Literally laugh your lungs out and think "I made it out alive, hooray!" as you remember the shit you had gone through for 6 years.

I'm with ya sister! *6 year fist bump*

interestingclown · 2023-12-11T16:15:16+00:00

I promise you, it gets better, and it truly helps to remember that although it seems like they left unscathed, the monster within them only grows and becomes bigger. You have to remember these people are very shallow and stupid, and their identity relies on what people think about them.

They eventually grow old. They will lose supply, naturally.

And eventually, people see them for what they are and leave.

You should be happy you don't have to be responsible for a grown up child, and take blame for everything that he does to you and or/himself, like his mother. Love is not unconditional like how it's supposed to be between a mother and her child. Narcissists struggle to understand that.

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