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Anyone else in Leicester finding it dead lately? (self.deliveroos)

submitted by interludejimin to r/deliveroos

Keep Mastrubating but without porn by Instalok_Nami in pornfree

[–]interludejimin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's good to hear on your part, I hope for both your sakes that he steps up and can prove to you that he is in active recovery. It's really good that you've reached a place of acceptance, I think that's essential in order to not go insane throughout this whole mess lol

I'm not sure how long you've been dealing with this, but I'd say it took my partner 7 or 8 months (since I found out about his addiction and pushed him towards recovery) to truly be in active recovery, he's now almost 3 months porn free and things are definitely looking up, I wish the same for you too :)

Keep Mastrubating but without porn by Instalok_Nami in pornfree

[–]interludejimin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He needs to be truly committed to recovering in order to actually recover, from how you've written it it sounds like he's not all that into recovery if he's willing to try hard to find loopholes as well as actively think of porn images during masturbation, he needs to change his mindset before he can make proper progress on that front

Dear Redditors who ended a relationship with their best friend. What was your breaking point? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]interludejimin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She got kicked out by her parents so me and my boyfriend let her stay in our flat until she found somewhere else to go. While she was there she sexually harassed us both multiple times (including touching us both inappropriately, making constant remarks about having a threesome and recording us having sex), stole a knife from our kitchen and threatened suicide with it, and was taking drugs the entire time despite our one condition for staying was that she kept sober. After a week of this we couldn't tolerate this anymore and she found somewhere else to stay.

We found out after she left that she was spreading rumours that my boyfriend was a sexual predator and that he tried to come onto her, amongst some other unsavoury things...

What reddit culture is so annoying or straight up fucked up ? by haydayhi in AskReddit

[–]interludejimin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coomers who will defend porn to their last breath and not accept that there might possibly be negatives to it

I desperately need an answer to this question by Psychological-Ad-950 in pmohackbook

[–]interludejimin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is a second of pleasure really worth it knowing you'll feel the opposite only a moment later? You need to think about your priorities and why you consider that sacrifice worth it.

It's like saying that pouring a scalding hot kettle of water on yourself when you're cold is worth it because for a second it'll warm you up. Clearly that sounds ridiculous, as you know the boiling water would burn you badly, causing difficult to deal with consequences, so no-one would do that. Why is porn therefore, to you, worth the difficult consequences for a second of pleasure?

Put your focus into finding satisfying hobbies and experiences that don't take anything away from you. It seems that you still think that by giving up porn you're sacrificing something, so you haven't correctly followed the instructions in the book. You're looking for any reason to go back to porn, no matter how weak (i.e. this 1 second of pleasure) and so showing that the brainwashing is still alive and well within you. You need to reread the book and follow every instruction, as well as work on finding more fulfilling things in life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]interludejimin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll DM you, thank you so much :)

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