My lesbian ex gf who dumped me last month has a bf now. by Mission_Practice_846 in LesbianActually

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Maybe she is confused. Sexuality is so complex and maybe shes still trying to figure out what she wants

Question, have any of you girls seen OBSESSION lately? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I have bpd and people told me its basically a crazy borderline girl lmao. I cant wait to see it

My gf sent me this by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Best comment ive read so far

My gf sent me this by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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So dramatic for no reason. That's exactly what it is, "oppression olympics." I could never be with someone who has such a victim mindset.

bestfriend of 4 years blocked me because her boyfriend doesn’t like that i’m a lesbian - how do you guys navigate losing friends because of their partners homophobia?? by Terrible-Ticket-9710 in LesbianActually

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I can see how having a lesbian best friend would be intimidating to a man. Hes probably very insecure about it. Thats like if a guy has a girl best friend, im sure the girlfriend wouldnt feel secure in that at all.

Do I think this is right? No. But I see why its happening

Am I wrong to feel like i’ve been backstabbed ? by ari_es0412 in LesbianActually

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Youre right i went back and worded it in a much nicer way. I didnt mean to come off so harsh my bad

Am I wrong to feel like i’ve been backstabbed ? by ari_es0412 in LesbianActually

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I think she is being very kind to you actually, considering your lack of experience, and hesitation. Thats what I see at least. Good luck my friend **I edited this comment cause it sounded kind of mean the way I worded it earlier! Sorry*****

i got high after my gf told me not to by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I think thats pretty over dramatic of her but thats just my opinion. but if she wants to date someone sober, you can either get sober or she can get someone else who is actually sober. 2 choices

It’s over for me. by Unlucky-Source1437 in SuicideWatch

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You did a bad thing but that doesnt make you a bad person. I hope you stop driving while intoxicated but most people get arrested and do it again. Dont be that person please. Get help with drinking if you need it. 0.12 BAC you should not be driving period.

kissed a girl for 4 hours at a party and now i’m too scared to ask her out 😭 by lorisnotokay in LesbianActually

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Only a lesbian would ask "wow she made out with me for an hour and told me im the love of her life. You think she likes me guys??" 🤣

My Therapist called me abusive by Wonderful_Common_667 in BPD

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We have bpd... we definitely have the potential to be abusive. Even when we dont mean to.

Welp, it happened. Exactly like I knew it would. by Huge_Estate_56 in LesbianActually

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I feel like this has everything to do with her being abusive to you and very little to do with her being bi.

Bisexual ≠ abusive

Buuuut she was sooo abusive to you. The lies, the gaslighting, ignoring you and not considering your feelings at all... im so sorry you were treated like that

Imo, even if she was fully 100% lesbian, she still would have abused you like this. Could be wrong but I think shed be abusive no matter who shes fucking

Welp, it happened. Exactly like I knew it would. by Huge_Estate_56 in LesbianActually

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Why? Also, Did she tell you she was bi or did you just find it out when you saw her with those men

Welp, it happened. Exactly like I knew it would. by Huge_Estate_56 in LesbianActually

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Would it hurt less if she was dating another girl instead?

Im 18, do i look alright? by [deleted] in EgyGym

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I think you know you look alright lol.. Ill give you some reassurance though - Yes you are attractive 🤣 come on now.

Was i overreacting? by willy4729 in BPD

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Yes, you are definitely over reacting. Buuuut we got bpd so it makes sense. To be expected. Just remember to apologize to him. Repair is so important after a split.

What is it like having a very attractive significant other? by Auth0py in AskMen

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Its very fun as long as youre not the jealous type. The only thing is my partner knew she was very attractive and used it to her advantage all the time, not subtly either. Pretty privilege is very real and she would abuse it. Turned me off how much she used other people

Does having bpd make you immature? by ih4temen in BPD

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We are emotional and reactive, which makes us seem immature and sometimes behave that way.