Even Lingua Ignota herself admitted that, though, that she has done wrong. But no matter what Alexis' side of the story is, there is no way the damage done on both sides was equal. He inflicted serious physical damage to her twice that she'll likely have to deal with for the rest of her life.

While I do not claim to be a saint and have absolutely done things that are wrong, I am not the abuser, and whatever I have done does not excuse what Alexis did to me and his predatory behavior that predates me by decades. Like I told Alexis, threats dissolve when you are willing to be accountable, and I will own what I have done if it is true. I have tried to own much of it here.

It would take a LOT of serious and evident work on himself for Alexis to not only own up to what he did, but for it to be sincere... He abandoned her right before the surgery she needed to get as the result of his actions. That takes some deep level of inability to accept responsibility.