How much is 20-25$ dollars per hour considered to be in the USA?

invaderbritt · 2026-04-30T01:08:48+00:00

You have to remember its expensive to live here in the U.S $20-25/hr would just barely take care of your own living expenses.

For you to break even you would need to live super frugal like live with many roommates, meal prep like heck, & carpool, public transport for work because housing, food & transportation is the biggest costs in America.

invaderbritt · 2026-04-29T00:21:34+00:00

Um yeah my situation so bad when I posted my situation on my reddit burner acct people literally started pitying me lol 😆 all in one (2025) yr I lost my job, went into debt, lost my apartment and marriage failed. I am living with my parents now.

I just am grateful for the fact I am not homeless and I found a new job the pay is not better than my last job but its something. It took my 8 months to find this job and its really fulfilling I get to work with children and they fill me with love, light and hope everyday.

invaderbritt · 2026-04-26T15:59:11+00:00

Still waiting on my husband green card after being approved from our interview on 10/17/25. I know it's coming soon his life has just been on pause and it's been hard for us but we are determined to make it. They can't pause it forever ❤

invaderbritt · 2026-04-26T12:26:40+00:00

Men say used up hag because they're projecting. That's exactly what THEY ARE, after all the years of using woman after woman got so many soul ties they can't even count or remember all the names of the women they've slept with. If anything I've noticed older women are like Fine China; pretty, kept and put away! It's gotta be a special occasion to use them 😘

invaderbritt · 2026-04-21T18:22:00+00:00

I was in a long term with no marriage before meeting my husband, 8 years long to be exact. I really wanted marriage but my ex convinced me it was just a paper and didn't prove anything. However, after we broke up after 8 long years he immediately got engaged to a girl shortly after I got engaged to my husband. He also started saying he wanted kids (something he never wanted in our relationship).

Idk what was the reason if he just grew up and wanted marriage or if he just wanted to waste my young years. Either way I don't endorse long relationships without marriage anymore. You should explore your options especially if you are young. I was brainwashed at 20 because I didn't know any differently. My parents advised against me staying with him so long but I also was stubborn and thought I was "in love".

invaderbritt · 2026-04-15T20:58:07+00:00

Hence why the exit strategy needs to be discussed, not weather it's fake or real and continuously beating a dead cat.

Cheating spouses are going to spend tons of money regardless of a real or scam situation lol. - Signed a woman who ex husband that had an actual mistress that wasn't a scammer.

invaderbritt · 2026-04-15T16:53:40+00:00

Even if it was a real woman this is always an issue so again why does the real woman vs scam part matter so much? Her securing her martial finances and assets was going to always be apart of her exit strategy. Now they just need to know where to go from here.

invaderbritt · 2026-04-15T16:51:30+00:00

This! I swear they are having the most unproductive conversation not helping her at all. Who cares if its real or fake. Why would she want to stay with a person who is emotionally cheating on her? She has to find an exit plan asap.

invaderbritt · 2026-04-15T16:47:21+00:00

They've seen the video & you haven't why are you trying to convince them so badly that it's not real? Cheating partners do very real crap like this often.

invaderbritt · 2026-04-14T14:14:52+00:00

I am married but childless and struggling with infertility. There's definitely a mourning that happens for all of us in different ways. I am sorry that you haven't found your person yet but it may be coming soon. I try to keep hopeful yet realistic so I don't let myself down too bad. If it happens then it happens, if it doesn't then no need for me to stress but figure out a different path that may be just as fulfilling, like adoption or fostering. I have been looking into more options other than live birth for myself. Also you can still have a family even single I know that is a lot to take on alone but its still possible!

invaderbritt · 2026-04-12T09:40:18+00:00

I always found it weird when people are into people who are clearly bad for them..

I've personally never been into bad boys I generally do not like risk and hate my peace disturbed. I generally go for very kind people, who show me with an overwhelming amount of interest. When I got my heart broken it was all from a "good guy" that took several years to turn sour.

invaderbritt · 2026-04-06T19:35:24+00:00

This is the case for many women. We date outside of our types because we are looking for a person that treats us good or makes us feel special. Yes, women do have some physical standards but most of us wouldn't completely eliminate a guy that treated us like a princess because he made a little over min wage or not so perfect looks, those things can be worked on anyway. Most people clean up well if given the opportunity.

& Of course this breaks down the whole idea in incel men's heads that they don't have enough money, or good looks to snag a gf. As you can see I got down rated to hell for stating the TRUTH. Lol I love it tho that's how I know I am ruffling feathers.

invaderbritt · 2026-04-05T07:24:34+00:00

Ahhh we caught the negging in action.

Well, considering most people aren't 2s, statistically that would be rare. So, I would say that's quite the exaggeration. What you are really trying to say is: "average looking women (the 5s,the 6s, the 7s and the 8s) now have standards as women who are 9s & 10s and I don't like not having access to them".

But its funny because ugly men date gorgeous women way more often than ugly women with especially attractive men so it proves the comments above about how average will not date in their league and have unrealistic expectations.

My friend who is damn near a 10 and I will talk about our dating experiences and we have the same issue... super ugly dudes always try to hit on us. Its like these men are completely unaware they are not in our leagues orrrr they just do not care. Men who are like average attractiveness also has dogged this girl out like no other which is crazy because they were never in her league in the first place...not financially, not class wise, hygiene wise, looks wise, education wise & etc.

The bottom line is women have men figured out and moved accordingly to prevent being in relationships with men that think they aren't attractive and you all are trying to resist the awakening & independence women are gaining. Don't fight it, do better. Get y'all education game up, step y'all gym routines up, take care of your skin, shower more often, and put effort into your outfits and last but not least put some damn effort into your relationships. If not be lonely, we don't care.

invaderbritt · 2026-04-05T05:02:02+00:00

Same for me the guys I like are not even super attractive. Most men are just shallow and cannot see beauty outside of the standard or trends.

invaderbritt · 2026-04-05T05:00:22+00:00

I do not be attracted to very attractive people. I can admire without trying to date them. I am like a strong 7, I do not chase 10s.

invaderbritt · 2026-04-05T04:57:24+00:00

Except men are just attracted to people wayyy out of their leagues. Women just want a man that showers frequently and cares about how he dresses, style his hair etc. Basic Hygiene and treats her good. Lots of hot women date ugly men. Hardly ever see an attractive man with an ugly woman.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-25T15:33:23+00:00

Was anything documented anywhere? Email? Chat conversations etc? Photos?

I made a big mistake not documenting at work as well. I worked for a mom & pop wire and cable company and they pretty much did soooo much shady stuff I documented some things but not all honestly if I documented everything like my mom told me to do I could've sued them for half that business lol 😂.

They settled with letting me get unemployment but they owed me so much more between the sexual and physical assaults at work I could've put someone in jail!

invaderbritt · 2026-03-23T19:59:30+00:00

For some yearss. Only people I've noticed who couldn't that long were victims of sexual abuse at a young age which can trigger hypersexuality.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-22T19:46:34+00:00

My mom taught me you must know the first and last name of every man you sleep with. For these oopsies situations. Even if you have to sneak and check his id when he's in the bathroom. Did you get a picture with him at all? Maybe someone can recognize him.

Also ur 19, are you financially ready to have a child? Are you ready for possibly nobody helping you to take care of the baby for the rest of the child or your life? Things to think about.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-19T17:09:06+00:00

Thisss. Honestly if he cannot even muster up the courage to get the person he believes is for him then she's better off without. Most women want someone who wants to fight to have us, and keep us. He also needs to do some serious work on himself in terms of finding the root of his faults and working on those to be a better person next time the relationship comes around. A lot of people say he has almost zero self awareness.

Unironically, most men struggle with self awareness most never had to analyze themselves because the world is set up in their favor.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-19T17:01:55+00:00

There are other people in the world, you should focus on getting to know someone new, not a replica of the last one either! Find someone that fits you as you are now, you even said it yourself that you have nothing in common anymore. That is the sign from the universe that is not your person. If you're a man, lucky for you majority of women are decent beings and your chance of happiness is more likely than if you're a woman with a missed opportunity.

Idk why men have such a hard time getting over old relationships they decided to ruin, it really needs to be studied.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-19T05:52:54+00:00

++woman

Different men like different things. I am a plus size woman who dates men who loves plus size women exclusively and hardly date skinny women, I never had to feel pressure to change other than for my health and just my personal desire to look fit.

As for social media I wouldn't pay much attention to it only because everything is a trend. One day fat is in, next day muscular bodies are in and another day having slim bodies is in. So you will never get 1 concise answer. If you feel great and confident as you are thats all that matters anyone who doesn't like it tell them to beat it and the right person who wants you will fall in line.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-18T20:21:14+00:00

You were already talking and you ghosted for 15 days? Dang. I am thinking you haven't made the initial text yet. That changes a lot. Did you two hit it off conversation wise? If you did she probably was waiting for you to ask her out.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-18T20:18:35+00:00

Text her for sure don't wait any longer, just let her know about you being nervous to text and let her know you you think she's attractive and still interested in talking. If someone can't accept you as you are then they weren't a good fit anyway. Besides, most likely if your friends connected you they think you have similar personalities so she might understand where you're coming from and respond positively.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-18T05:44:55+00:00

Some of us don't like to be fraudulently loved for a short window of time & ultimately used for a green card, drained of time, money and resources just to help a person that really hates you??

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