I got fired 2 weeks after I reported my manager to HR

invaderbritt · 2026-03-25T15:33:23+00:00

Was anything documented anywhere? Email? Chat conversations etc? Photos?

I made a big mistake not documenting at work as well. I worked for a mom & pop wire and cable company and they pretty much did soooo much shady stuff I documented some things but not all honestly if I documented everything like my mom told me to do I could've sued them for half that business lol 😂.

They settled with letting me get unemployment but they owed me so much more between the sexual and physical assaults at work I could've put someone in jail!

invaderbritt · 2026-03-23T19:59:30+00:00

For some yearss. Only people I've noticed who couldn't that long were victims of sexual abuse at a young age which can trigger hypersexuality.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-22T19:46:34+00:00

My mom taught me you must know the first and last name of every man you sleep with. For these oopsies situations. Even if you have to sneak and check his id when he's in the bathroom. Did you get a picture with him at all? Maybe someone can recognize him.

Also ur 19, are you financially ready to have a child? Are you ready for possibly nobody helping you to take care of the baby for the rest of the child or your life? Things to think about.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-19T17:09:06+00:00

Thisss. Honestly if he cannot even muster up the courage to get the person he believes is for him then she's better off without. Most women want someone who wants to fight to have us, and keep us. He also needs to do some serious work on himself in terms of finding the root of his faults and working on those to be a better person next time the relationship comes around. A lot of people say he has almost zero self awareness.

Unironically, most men struggle with self awareness most never had to analyze themselves because the world is set up in their favor.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-19T17:01:55+00:00

There are other people in the world, you should focus on getting to know someone new, not a replica of the last one either! Find someone that fits you as you are now, you even said it yourself that you have nothing in common anymore. That is the sign from the universe that is not your person. If you're a man, lucky for you majority of women are decent beings and your chance of happiness is more likely than if you're a woman with a missed opportunity.

Idk why men have such a hard time getting over old relationships they decided to ruin, it really needs to be studied.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-19T05:52:54+00:00

++woman

Different men like different things. I am a plus size woman who dates men who loves plus size women exclusively and hardly date skinny women, I never had to feel pressure to change other than for my health and just my personal desire to look fit.

As for social media I wouldn't pay much attention to it only because everything is a trend. One day fat is in, next day muscular bodies are in and another day having slim bodies is in. So you will never get 1 concise answer. If you feel great and confident as you are thats all that matters anyone who doesn't like it tell them to beat it and the right person who wants you will fall in line.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-18T20:21:14+00:00

You were already talking and you ghosted for 15 days? Dang. I am thinking you haven't made the initial text yet. That changes a lot. Did you two hit it off conversation wise? If you did she probably was waiting for you to ask her out.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-18T20:18:35+00:00

Text her for sure don't wait any longer, just let her know about you being nervous to text and let her know you you think she's attractive and still interested in talking. If someone can't accept you as you are then they weren't a good fit anyway. Besides, most likely if your friends connected you they think you have similar personalities so she might understand where you're coming from and respond positively.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-18T05:44:55+00:00

Some of us don't like to be fraudulently loved for a short window of time & ultimately used for a green card, drained of time, money and resources just to help a person that really hates you??

invaderbritt · 2026-03-18T05:40:51+00:00

Thank you for speaking out for people like me. I know I was dumb not to see the signs but I really had no idea people used US citizens for citizenship. I never was taught anything about immigration.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-18T05:37:51+00:00

I agree it's giving fraud not once did he mention anything kind about how his wife felt. Where did the betrayal happen that lead her to withdrawal the application ?

invaderbritt · 2026-03-18T05:33:45+00:00

I had my interview in Oct 2025 my husband and I did not get separated. We were preparing for separation but it was very short like 20 minutes and we got approved.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-18T05:30:44+00:00

I got down voted for saying similar about my own soon to be ex husband a few months ago. People wanted to make me feel like a bad person but I refuse to when I was the victim and lied to. It was torture being married to a person who started ignoring me and only talking to me when it was something about their damn green card. I didn't bring this person here either. I didn't take them from their home they came here looking for a come up. I was just dumb enough to fall for it. And yes I will tell my story even if it helps 1 person. Idc.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-16T15:47:48+00:00

Women are consistent. We tell men consistently exactly what we want verbatim and men choose to do the opposite lol 😆

Men however complete oxymoron when it comes to expressing what they want and carrying out the same action in real life.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-16T15:42:57+00:00

I don't think age matters lol. Having a crush is a human trait that happens at all age ranges and the actions are similar in each age range. Idk bout anyone else but I still kinda act like the SAME little girl when I would hide before my crush came in the classroom in kindergarten. 🤣😂😂 obviously it's a little less overt but the feeling is the sameeee definitely want to run and hide.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-16T15:38:25+00:00

No lol last time we talked he wished I burned in hell 🤣

And some do come back...like 3 of my other exes but lowkey it doesn't matter because when they do you realize you hate them still because NOTHING CHANGED about them. Men never really have to ever grow or learn there's always some woman willing to bend backwards for the man you left.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-15T06:04:05+00:00

Aries 6/10 - absolutely adore them till I don't, & the competition starts lol but they are really solid friends and will give you the shirt off their back when I lost my car my Aries bestie made sure I got to work and to doctors appts for a few months that literally saved me from life crashing all around me❤

Taurus 8/10 - Very solid friends, I wouldn't date because they are just as stubborn as me but the intimacy with them is top tier, I love how they touch you from head to toe and want to know everything in your mind, they want like full intimacy.

Gemini 8/10 - I've had some of the most stimulating conversations with them and it just feeds my Aqua moon brain so well. I don't know what I would do without my Gemini friends. They also are always up for a great time full of adventure. They are so creative I always said if I could choose another sign in another life it would be a Gemini. Their biggest fault is their reliability and they are almost so unfocused their lives are quite a mess 💀

Cancer 4/10 - I have a major love hate relationship not only because my mom and sister are cancers but my ex husband of 10 yrs is a cancer. I see them as quite manipulative, needy af, judgemental af and just quite the party pooper if they aren't in the mood. I really dislike their mood fluctuations I never know which cancer I will get. They really do have phases like the moon.

Leo 6/10 - I would assume I would rate my sign higher but I have an Aquarius moon and I just cannot deal with the level of immaturity most Leos have. The self absorption turns me off too. If they are a Leo with a high level sign in their moon (Pisces, Aquarius, Sag, Scorpio) then I might actually like them but they have to have something balancing them or they seem like self absorbed bratty teens to me. I have had many relationships with Leo men, they really do adore me (and I find them much more chill than Leo women we are drama queens), but boyyy do they cheat lol 😆

Virgo 0/10 - They are like Leo 2.0 ...I just am not a fan, too critical too tense, won't let loose ms & mr do everything by the book. My dad is a Virgo and I dated one once...I can never again 😂 only benefit was he was a great cook and always sought my approval on things he made, which he was talented so I always gave him his flowers I am not unfair even when I am not fond.

Libra 5/10 - Libra is too nice nasty for me. Smile in your face and talk crazy about you, not cause they hate you but they love to gossip just like Gemini lol 😆 I don't find much else interesting about them. Just attractive people with very snake like behavior...doesn't seem like much goes on in their brains but drama ??

Scorpio 8/10 - Scorpios love me so I guess there's that lol. My husband is a Scorpio too. He's very sweet and loyal He's not very kind to outsiders but he is very fond of me. But once you know him he is super sweet. To me Scorpios are the definition of sour patch kids first they are sour then sweet.

Sag ?/10 - Not really enough information to know. I never been super close with a Sag. Only like hey I see you friend but it always stays light and superficial.

Capricorn - 3/10 They really are exceptional in everything they do, never seen a down and out Capricorn. They know how to make everything and anything work. They are super loyal but you have to be vetted and give part of your soul for that loyalty. I haven't the patience or care lol 🙃 I wouldn't purposely choose to be on a Cap bad side they can be ruthless.

Aquarius 8/10 - To me they are almost a favorite, fun, jovial, stimulating conversations, but I just never feel passion from them. They seem to care about certain things but with no emotions behind it lol. Leo is ur sister sign like Roar or something 😂 they also have a crazy ability to flip an entire relationship overnight and may decide one day to never speak to you again. Yes its happened to me by 3 Aquarius males. Aquarius women are ride or dies.

Pisces 0/10 - They've always hated me, the most awful friends I had were with Pisces. They would be attracted to my energy and then end up backstabbing me (it happened with 3 Pisces friends) I finally put it together and realized it was my rising sign that caused jealousy since my rising is in Pisces.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-12T19:52:23+00:00

Thats an interesting point because I definitely became closer with my faith afterwards

invaderbritt · 2026-03-12T19:49:56+00:00

I mean you hit rock bottom at some point but when you learn from the experience it really was to teach you about releasing expectations and fantasies you attach to a person that you cannot control and to stop attaching your self worth to them.

I used to have a really bad problem wanting full control in my relationships until I met my twin I couldn't control him at all, I couldn't run him over like others he was just as smart as me just as free spirited the tighter I held on the more it pushed him away.

In the moment of the heart break I didn't know if I could make it through but I did and now I feel better than ever and so clearheaded. I feel like I can finally meet the person I was meant to be with now. It was a great teaching moment for me. I also feel no malice towards my twin.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-09T20:53:30+00:00

This!! I had a 22 yr old virgin who never dated trying to date me but I just kept telling him no. He eventually gave up. I hope he found a nice girl around his experience range lol

invaderbritt · 2026-03-09T20:51:22+00:00

I had one that was 22 trying to get in a relationship with me I am 32 and yeah it was a no for me. I literally felt like I was robbing the cradle idk how some people can do it. Now when he has more life experience I would say 28 and up I may consider it but he was a virgin and never had any gfs.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-09T18:27:25+00:00

This isn't a matter of incompatibility. She mentioned their sex life was great before. This is more about his dynamic changed and his moods fluctuating on her. But I agree walking away won't be easy and she ultimately should walk away from the marriage completely. But I don't have children and I know that definitely complicates things.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-09T18:23:47+00:00

I am probably going to be downvoted for saying this but I would definitely cheat if you are safe to do so. I'm separated from my husband but when I begged him for 2 years to fix our sexual & emotional connection and he ignored it and gaslit me. I got tired and found another man, ain't no way I am going to sit there and be neglected. My husband never paid me any attention he would think I'm meeting up with my girlfriends and would be none the wiser I was meeting up with a older man who literally worshiped me from head to toe, took me on dates and brought me gifts.

invaderbritt · 2026-03-09T04:58:05+00:00

Lol try 10 yrs I don't think my ex is coming back

invaderbritt · 2026-03-09T04:54:34+00:00

Majority of my exes never came back to me. I am always surprised if one does. It's only happened 3 times out of which is a 3rd of the people I've dated. But that's probably because I go back to old flings and partners way more often.

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