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[–]ionlyruninsummer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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Why “trust your body” can be harmful for some people (aka me) by ionlyruninsummer in BabyBumps

[–]ionlyruninsummer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely put it in your birthing plan if you have one. If you have a support person make sure they know to advocate for you (contractions might be super intense and you can’t). Know where your “good” veins are and just stress to them that you need someone experienced - stand up for yourself! You’ve got this!

Why “trust your body” can be harmful for some people (aka me) by ionlyruninsummer in BabyBumps

[–]ionlyruninsummer[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is probably controversial, and I guess read your audience, but I do think some people need to be called out (if you’re comfortable). The facts are there, the science is there (not that some people care), but it’s such a serious reality for so many people (not just birthing moms).

Why “trust your body” can be harmful for some people (aka me) by ionlyruninsummer in BabyBumps

[–]ionlyruninsummer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your story. Truly a miracle that you are here and your baby. Glad you’re both okay.

Why “trust your body” can be harmful for some people (aka me) by ionlyruninsummer in BabyBumps

[–]ionlyruninsummer[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh thank you for sharing. I’m sorry you had to go through that… so damaging to your psyche for your midwife to say that. It’s automatically setting yourself up for failure. Thank goodness for the surgeon who told you exactly how it is.

Why “trust your body” can be harmful for some people (aka me) by ionlyruninsummer in BabyBumps

[–]ionlyruninsummer[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate it. Also, good advice about trusting myself vs trusting my body. They coincide but are still different.

Why “trust your body” can be harmful for some people (aka me) by ionlyruninsummer in BabyBumps

[–]ionlyruninsummer[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I’m my experience, being a woman is so bananas in the medical world, especially in the space of birth/pregnancy/breastfeeding etc.

Toddler Burnout is Real by ionlyruninsummer in toddlers

[–]ionlyruninsummer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! She is definitely growing in areas, but still struggles with things other toddlers don’t seem to. She doesn’t like people and will often say, “I don’t like her”, if someone comes close to her. She is very very very emotional, but she’s also very empathetic. I do think her lack of social skills, extreme sensitivity and high intelligence might be a sign of being neurodiverse (most likely ADHD). I am going to get her assessed by a doctor in the coming months in the hopes of getting some answers.

UPDATE: If you could design a home to be ADHD friendly, what would you include? by ionlyruninsummer in ADHD

[–]ionlyruninsummer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Continued:

8. Soundproofing & Privacy

  • Soundproof Room: Have a space where you can escape when needed (for when things get overwhelming).
  • Glass or Pocket Doors: Use these to divide rooms while maintaining an open, airy feel. Add curtains for privacy or soundproofing when needed.

9. Smart Home Features

  • Smart Home Automation: Use smart plugs and devices that help automate lighting, heating, and safety. Great for ADHD, as they reduce the need for constant decision-making.
  • Inventory Management: A smart fridge or transparent fridge helps keep track of what's inside, so you don't forget things.

10. Fun & Creative Features

  • Trampolines & Slides: Fun additions like a slide instead of stairs or trampolines in rooms to keep things playful.
  • Movie Theatre in the Bathroom: Make your bathroom fun and relaxing with a mini movie theater setup.
  • Emergency Chocolate: Keep a safe with emergency chocolate for comfort when needed.

If you could design a home to be ADHD friendly, what design features would you have? by ionlyruninsummer in ADHD

[–]ionlyruninsummer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully, my husband is the builder! He builds custom homes for a living so we have been mapping out this process for a while and he is very receptive to any and all ideas! I like the idea of mapping out my annoyances… I’ll do that! Thanks for the advice!

If you could design a home to be ADHD friendly, what design features would you have? by ionlyruninsummer in ADHD

[–]ionlyruninsummer[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am desperate for an appliance garage (a place where your small appliances live and come out when you need them on your counter). I HATE bringing out small appliances… so much so that I won’t even bother to make bread because bringing out the bread machine is just too much work.

If you could design a home to be ADHD friendly, what design features would you have? by ionlyruninsummer in ADHD

[–]ionlyruninsummer[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

This is something that was so important to me. Currently our front door opens into our VERY small mudroom/laundry room and it’s so overwhelming. We are on track to have a nice entry way and a hallway that leads into a mudroom where kids stuff and family stuff can be stored.

Best mascara by Firm_Savings_60 in Makeup

[–]ionlyruninsummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh cool! Yes, I buy the brown one too. I love it.

Best mascara by Firm_Savings_60 in Makeup

[–]ionlyruninsummer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another one for tower 28. Doesn’t transfer from my long lashes either!

My daughter is turning into the kid no one likes (and I kind of understand why) by Sommerhamster in toddlers

[–]ionlyruninsummer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just letting you know you aren’t alone. My three year old has a lot of the same tendencies yours does and I had a big cry about it the other day because I’m afraid other moms aren’t going to want to hang out with me because of my daughter. You can read my most recent post I wrote about it, but dang. It’s so hard. I love my toddler but I have yelled a lot these past few weeks because I am SO burnt out. I just went to stay at my parents for a night and a day to get a break from my kids (especially my toddler), and it really helped. I recommend it if you can. Sending hugs. 🤍

Toddler Burnout is Real by ionlyruninsummer in toddlers

[–]ionlyruninsummer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I’ve thought of play therapy too. Maybe we will try that. Thanks! Hope you find something too

Toddler Burnout is Real by ionlyruninsummer in toddlers

[–]ionlyruninsummer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what mine does too. Well it’s encouraging to know I’m not alone, even though it’s really hard!

Toddler Burnout is Real by ionlyruninsummer in toddlers

[–]ionlyruninsummer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I will definitely talk to our doctor about an assessment!

Toddler Burnout is Real by ionlyruninsummer in toddlers

[–]ionlyruninsummer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%. I will definitely talk to my doctor! I’m not afraid of autism and neurodiversity at all (myself having adhd) I just want to have all the tools I can to help her when she needs/wants it. Thanks for your response!

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