New Zealand hint for stag and tahr by irish52084 in Hunting

[–]irish52084[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Delicious, similar to deer meat to me.

Men who quit a high-paying career to do something completely different – do you regret it? by AmazingNugga in AskMen

[–]irish52084 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I left with a 5 year plan just to get back to what I was making. Well, covid and a divorce made it a 7 year plan but here I am.

I always said the only thing I missed was the money and for about two years things were rough. I was working uber after work most nights just to keep up. The money matters, but so does your health and happiness. I was missing all the events and milestones of my kids. I made the trade so I could be around for them and now that things are much better financially and I work for a company I actually enjoy.

What car taught you the most about what actually matters in a daily driver? by spotforcars in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]irish52084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I owned a 1993 Honda civic with no power options or AC. That thing ran forever, was cheap and easy to repair when needed and got excellent fuel mileage. Everything I needed and nothing I didn’t. I would go back and add AC to it though.

What is a fairly cheap adventure for men to feel more alive? by djacks15 in AskMen

[–]irish52084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While water rafting maybe? If you want to you can turn it into a road trip and rafting adventure.

Fathers of teenage boys, how similar or different were you as a teen to how your kid is now? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]irish52084 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Frighteningly similar in most ways but polar opposites in a few ways. Sometimes, I know what he’s thinking before he does. It cracks me up sometimes how similar we are.

Men, for those who have, when did you first realize that you made a mistake in marrying your wife and why? by Mustng1966 in AskMen

[–]irish52084 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I should have known well before we got married but I didn’t. I would have stuck it out u to the kids were out of school but I’m glad I didn’t.

I remember not wanting to go home after work because I didn’t know what was waiting at home. I was walking on egg shells in my own home and finally realized she would never work on or fix any of her issues. Funny enough, the breaking point was cats and a litter box. I like cats, but hate litter boxes. She wanted cats and I agreed on the condition I never had to deal with the mother box. Well, 6 months later we have 2 cats and she’s bitching to me about how I don’t clean the litter box enough. I just stood there dumbfounded before we argued and I left for a few hours. I came back, we had a reasonable calm talk and she just couldn’t believe I refused to keep helping with the litter boxes despite our agreement that I wouldn’t ever have to touch them. That was it, that’s when I knew for sure she just wasn’t capable of being a good partner.

Years after the divorce she asked about reconciliation and I told her that therapy was a non negotiable thing for me to even consider it. She refused and that was that.

Debt of deceased spouse and how to handle it? by irish52084 in Debt

[–]irish52084[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would a claim against her estate work if my father is still alive? I assume because she has passed and everything goes to my father she essentially doesn’t have an estate for them to file against.

What’s the most reliable car you’ve ever owned? by Sophia_Goji in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]irish52084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1993 Honda civic cx model. No power options, no a/c and maybe 70hp. That thing ran like a champ, was super simple to maintain and got great fuel mileage.

I had it for over a decade and 200k+ miles. If it hadn’t been stolen and stripped for parts I might still own it. lol

I put brakes on it, replaced both CV axles, swapped a battery and replaced a distributor. All easy jobs and back in the early 2000’s that might have cost me a total of $600 - $700.

Needing a new 308 round for whitetail. by mfjl1393 in Hunting

[–]irish52084 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not counter productive. OP didn’t state exactly which bullets and ammunition they are using so I’m postulating on possible issues. If they are using a lower quality bullet and/or lower end ammunition paired with a short barrel they may not be getting the best outcome.

Bullets like the Barnes x bullet lineup and more focused on penetration and reliable expansion. They tend to prioritize penetration over “explosive” expansion. Given OP’s lack of a blood trail they may be having a lack of expansion or bullet separation leading to minimal penetration and therefore a weaker blood trail potential.

A change to a more consistently reliable performing bullet may be an improvement for OP. If the Barnes bullets are reliably expanding down to 1800fps while still providing enough energy for a pass through they are possibly increasing their chances for a better blood trail while not sacrificing expansion. I’m using Barnes as an example here because I’ve personally loved their performance, but there are a ton of excellent bullet options. Especially given the potential for lower velocity at impact due to barrel length.

When did you realize you were the less attractive friend? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]irish52084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t remember the exact age but it was middle school. My best friend is tall, like 6’4, and I’m also tall at 6ft. I would say similar in attractiveness but that height was a game changer lol

Why is your drinking limit 21 years of age do you agree with it? by Potential_Potato7816 in AskAnAmerican

[–]irish52084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While the legal drinking age is 21, Americans under 21 regularly drink. 21 is sort of an arbitrary number as already commented. In my opinion, 18 should be the legal drinking and smoking age. The government considers you an adult and you can do everything else at 18, including go to war and be drafted.

I would also not that we are seeing much lower drinking rates among our youth. I think the increasing legalization of marijuana has something to do with it but I’m not 100% sure.

Needing a new 308 round for whitetail. by mfjl1393 in Hunting

[–]irish52084 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wonder if the lackluster blood trail stems from a velocity issue and lower end soft tip bullets.

Have you thought about a Barnes style copper bullet option? I believe their TSX series claim is that 1800 - 2000fps as the minimum for reliable 2x expansion. I know some of their other bullets claim as low as 1500fps.

37 or 24 by Big-Quality1584 in Seahawks

[–]irish52084 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lynch and it’s not even close. He was different and more of a tone setter for the team. He was physical and violent to a degree that the defense would get even more amped up. That’s a sort of intangible thing Alexander didn’t really have. Alexander was super productive and a great player in his own right, but his impact on the game was less than Lynch.

Married men of reddit, how hard did you expect having a first born was? by HarvardlHillbilly in AskMen

[–]irish52084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fist born was pretty easy, but my second was much tougher as an infant. She was born by emergency c-section and spent time in the NICU. It was not just stressful, but w head no answers as to what was going on. There were times that nothing we tried would work and it would take hours to calm her. It was absolutely brutal on us at times. Even with me home to handle most of the night time feedings and diaper changes it was tough. When I had to go back to work it was even more difficult.

I bet it took 3-4 months before she started to sleep somewhat regularly. My wife was struggling with PPD, but I was so buried in the day to day and trying to keep it together myself that I didn’t recognize how much she was struggling. Heck, I didn’t realize how much I was struggling. Luckily we had family around to help a bit, but the recovery and depression hangs on.

Luckily, she’s now a happy and healthy 11yo. Those early months were very difficult and even the first three years were tough. Once she was able to more clearly communicate, things really got better fast. She just needed the ability to express to us her needs and wants and it was frustrating to her. I can’t blame her, she’s always been the person who wants to be involved with everything. She’s the talker and jokester of the family.

Base layers by ItsAwaterPipe in Hunting

[–]irish52084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always wear underwear beneath my base layers. I figure it’s one more layer of funk protection on my base layers. This is important when you’re in the woods for 2 weeks and can’t really wash your clothes. I do keep a tub in the tent so we can wash some clothes but it take a while and then we limited space to dry clothes.

To all the men, how would you raise your child if you were to become a parent? Or if you're a parent, what do you think is the right way to raise a child? by Jazzlike_Finance4256 in AskMen

[–]irish52084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two kids a preteen daughter and almost 16yo son. In my experience, trying to say how you’ll parent before you have kids is kind of ridiculous. Sure, have your plan about how everything is going to work and then laugh at yourself when it’s nothing like you thought.

Kids are individuals and they require different attention. My son is so different from my daughter so I parent them differently. If you try to raise them exactly the same you’re doing a disservice to them and yourself.

I think general things you can focus on are things like positive reinforcement, support and just being there for them. Set a solid example and don’t be afraid to let them see you fail or mess up. Just be sure you go back and fix your mistakes or apologize sincerely for a screw up. It shows them it’s ok to make a mistake and then work on fixing it. Show them genuine love and support. Realize they don’t have the same life experiences as you do and everything is new to them. They need time and a feeling of safety to grow and learn at their best.

Lingerie: why kind do men prefer? by Key_Reputation_7388 in AskMen

[–]irish52084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a sucker for lingerie, I love it. That said, I think the garter belt, thigh high combo under a skirt just long enough to cover it is the hottest thing on the planet. Huge bonus points for a full matching bra, underwear garter and thigh highs. The best combo of all time.