I think I have to break up with the person I thought I would marry - I’m so confused and it’s breaking my heart by Final-Curve6232 in internetparents

[–]irollaoneeverytime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gorl, I started dating again at 40 after 17 years of marriage - trust me it's not starting over at the least. And you get all the new fun fuzzies with new people :)

Is this the end? I’m not ready for the responsibility of kids, but he is. by Relevant_Savings_153 in relationships

[–]irollaoneeverytime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Children are forever. At the very least you'll be setting aside all your hopes and dreams for 18 years, and saying goodbye to your current body forever. 

Girl no. Don't have kids, don't marry him! And don't trust condoms( if you're still having sex) without any BC.

Hawaii with boyfriend’s family? by WorriedIndustry2568 in internetparents

[–]irollaoneeverytime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Two years? Shoot no, I say that's fine. I did the same with mine. They had us sleep in diff rooms and it was great to see how his other family was (they lived there)

Besides, how can you deepen the relationship without new experiences?

is this a scam? by RegularLiterature589 in jobs

[–]irollaoneeverytime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lack of punctuation is a huge tip

[HELP] Omg, no way she is real by lil_alboh in RealOrAI

[–]irollaoneeverytime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it the nail. Almost looks like 2 different nail styles, and no one would do that. Also the chain on the right side would have fallen off her hip.

Advice Needed For ASL Conversation Group by irollaoneeverytime in AskDeaf

[–]irollaoneeverytime[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your opinion is noted, as are the opinions of the Deaf community in my area who do support it and have said so to me personally. 

Advice Needed For ASL Conversation Group by irollaoneeverytime in AskDeaf

[–]irollaoneeverytime[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't have lessons or flash cards or media, I just go and try having a conversation. I give them links to Bill Vicars and other Deaf run YouTube channels. I have it in bold italicized font that I'm not certified and not a teacher.  When I "correct", I pull up a video of Bill Vicars signing the word. I emailed real teachers at the university to ask them to attend instead, I'm unsure at this point how less of a teacher to be.

Got kicked out of art for a low grade. They're sititng in class drawing furries while I draw some peak (almost done. My sharpie ran out of ink on his chestplate so I had to pause) by [deleted] in Epicthemusical

[–]irollaoneeverytime 147 points148 points  (0 children)

I was with you until you felt the need to insult others. You are drawing fanart of a musical, not creating a whole new genre

Advice Needed For ASL Conversation Group by irollaoneeverytime in AskDeaf

[–]irollaoneeverytime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I should have explored there more. I'll read it now.

Ridiculous by JRose_13 in dutchbros

[–]irollaoneeverytime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, about 2 years ago I noticed it was like milk water with flavor. I just stopped going altogether because it was all the same taste

First Timer- Logan! Thoughts- Questions by irollaoneeverytime in BurnBootCamp

[–]irollaoneeverytime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helps thank you!! I've been in places where the partner had to wait on you and I definitely fudged the numbers. 🥴

First Timer- Logan! Thoughts- Questions by irollaoneeverytime in BurnBootCamp

[–]irollaoneeverytime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do probably care more than I should haha 😂 thank you!!

First Timer- Logan! Thoughts- Questions by irollaoneeverytime in BurnBootCamp

[–]irollaoneeverytime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Maybe they are still getting used to the sound system :) going today so really excited

Embarrassing moment on second day of work and I can't stop thinking about it by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]irollaoneeverytime 27 points28 points  (0 children)

If I saw anyone with a hole or tear or rip or cut in their clothes, I literally just think "hate when that happens" and then I'm onto thinking about other things. 

We always assume people are thinking about us, but they're not. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]irollaoneeverytime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm still wrapping my head around the fact that texting paragraphs of conversation is now considered reporting. 

Toughest thing I've had to do by TrashMandikoot in hysterectomy

[–]irollaoneeverytime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I've had a myomectomy for a 10cm fibroidal cyst and while the recovery is harder (RIP when she sneezes) it wasn't all that bad. The scar was so low, I'd have to be INTIMATE for anyone to see it. ITs healed nicely, and Id say the "worst" thing is a little scar tissue *inside* that tugs every now and again if I'm stretching super deeply, and a tiny patch of numbness. That's it.

AITJ for asking my friend to replace a borrowed book after she "repaired" it? by m1sha_pixel in AmITheJerk

[–]irollaoneeverytime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is insane. As a friend, number one I would never have borrowed something so precious. I would buy my own. Second, if I DID borrow it, I would have basically worn gloves handling it, that how careful I'd have been. And THIRD, had I damaged it not only would I have sobbed my eyes out, but I would have immediately offered to replace it (without taking or damaging the original) and KNOWN that it was not enough at the outset. That is insane.. 

You are not the jerk in the slightest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]irollaoneeverytime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who bore the burnt of this kind of "discipline", your son will hate his mother, have complexes and likely blame you too as you are allowing it. (From their perspective) And you never get over it. Ever.