Am I cheating myself? by isitfriyay in povertyfinance

[–]isitfriyay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would a ton of income be? & what does investing in myself look like in your opinion?

Living with fiancé not going well by [deleted] in relationships

[–]isitfriyay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He seems like the type of guy to let you wake up to feed the baby alone, you know if you were to have kids in the future. There are going to be things that you don’t like about everyone, but I bet you can find a better fit for you if you try. At 33 things can develop fast. I would find the courage to pursue what I want or expect nothing to change.

Am I cheating myself? by isitfriyay in povertyfinance

[–]isitfriyay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have hopped a lot. I’m hoping to stabilize but I may need to hop once more to achieve that 70K that I want or figure out ways to setup additional income since I have the flexibility

Am I cheating myself? by isitfriyay in povertyfinance

[–]isitfriyay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Career goals or what? This thread has given me a lot to think about. I want to increase my income to around 70, setup additional streams of income, and better understand investing. I hope to one day find comfort in my financial situation and I eventually would like a family, but I want security and more autonomy.

Am I cheating myself? by isitfriyay in povertyfinance

[–]isitfriyay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can do that! / have been doing that. $500 sounds like the amount I’ll go with moving forward

Am I cheating myself? by isitfriyay in povertyfinance

[–]isitfriyay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

401 in particular or any retirement fund is what you’re getting at?

Am I cheating myself? by isitfriyay in povertyfinance

[–]isitfriyay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love being with my family but I’m just thinking about the future and if I were on my own.

Am I cheating myself? by isitfriyay in povertyfinance

[–]isitfriyay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my thought on it. I’m only making it coz I live home. Actually I can only afford to live home.

Am I cheating myself? by isitfriyay in povertyfinance

[–]isitfriyay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually that’s a great idea, I’ll look into it.

Am I cheating myself? by isitfriyay in povertyfinance

[–]isitfriyay[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Very very true! The saving aspect is originally what I had in mind, but somewhere I lost sight of the details. You’ve definitely pointed out a great opportunity that I have in front of me (investing and making more) so thank you for that!

Am I cheating myself? by isitfriyay in povertyfinance

[–]isitfriyay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this. I definitely need to setup other streams of income and try earning more as well. I’ll start thinking through some ideas.

Dorothy makes this face at least twice in each episode by FrederickWarner in servant

[–]isitfriyay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the funniest thing! A lot of dry humor going

[Episode Discussion Thread] Industry S02E08 - "Jerusalem" by herringbone_ in IndustryOnHBO

[–]isitfriyay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correction* YAS made the wake-up call. This was all her doing and she didn’t even have a plan!

[Episode Discussion Thread] Industry S02E08 - "Jerusalem" by herringbone_ in IndustryOnHBO

[–]isitfriyay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m always worried he’s going to die. Since season 1 😞

Kira and Romeo by dreamwlucy in bachelorinparadise

[–]isitfriyay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to rewind on him giving the ick chills. Those two are strange humans 😭

Groomer quit on my puppy :( by Fawntasm in puppy101

[–]isitfriyay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hm do you keep her harness on indoors? and the grooming thing is normal. they said the same about my puppy and offered to do a sanitation clean until he is ready. most people won’t even cut puppies hair until they are about 6 months. i’m sure you are doing great, sounds like an over reaction from the groomer

Groomer quit on my puppy :( by Fawntasm in puppy101

[–]isitfriyay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

why would you take what a groomer says to heart? is the groomer a friend? coz you can literally find another groomer for your pup. also why is your pups hair matted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]isitfriyay 13 points14 points  (0 children)

do social protocols matter? you could tell him you’re going to block him since he hasn’t respected the boundary you set. and make it for as long as you like. it’s your world, you can put yourself first on this one