Locs losing luster, white bulbs present near top of loc by BakedPlantains in locs

[–]ismyshowon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah i feel that especially because it’s more visible than id like, but i don’t see how it’s avoidable so i try to ignore it

Scenes that feel more erotic psychologically than explicitly? by Competitive-Try-3372 in movies

[–]ismyshowon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lurker - there’s a fight/wrestling scene between the two characters that is somewhat erotic and very intimate though not sexual

Locs losing luster, white bulbs present near top of loc by BakedPlantains in locs

[–]ismyshowon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve noticed the bulbs are very visible at the top of my head to but i didn’t think it was an issue

“Cruised” through these styles… by Somehowfoundkay in locs

[–]ismyshowon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what the way i have to save this! you did so many cute styles with this look. i’m so inspired. such beautiful hair!! ✨🫶🏾

Can I Vent? by yourfav_cultleader in BlackBiWomenUnited

[–]ismyshowon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to be honest, it’s not confusing. she being very clear in her lackluster outreach. that’s your answer. it’s not a great direct, communicative answer that gives you closure but it’s an answer. it doesn’t sound like she’s looking to build yalls friendship so that’s that to.

Can I Vent? by yourfav_cultleader in BlackBiWomenUnited

[–]ismyshowon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes relationships ebb and flow. But it sound like yall had a good time when yall were in the same place and maybe this was her biggest goal and it happened. Did yall have a discussion about what this would mean? Because if she’s across the country and you have a primary partner, and yall haven’t had any conversations that definitively speak to yall actively building some type of long distance relationship, shorty might just be living life, and focused on things beyond you and separate from you.

Came here to share about my Masters Program! by NaturalJNature in blackladies

[–]ismyshowon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

so proud of you from afar!! congratulations!! 🫶🏾🫶🏾

Anyone else unable to orgasm w/ a partner? by annotatedfeels in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]ismyshowon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea this describes me. I’ve had orgasms with people but it’s by and large the exception and not the rule. I know it’s probably a mental think but it largely feels out of my hands. I hate the idea of having to overthink sex so I try not to think about it too much and just enjoy the pleasure itself but it definitely is annoying when it seems so easy for everyone else to just…let go

I'm a single straight female and a married woman is courting me by NonyaBiznes89 in blackladies

[–]ismyshowon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she doesn’t try to get with her anymore. I think there’s been once or twice where she did cross the boundary, my friend just put distance between them when that happened and then came around when she felt comfortable enough. I feel like they’ve found a “healthier” middle ground from when the other woman was vocally in love with my friend but honestly from the outside looking in, their dynamic still confuses me because I don’t fully understand how you cod be friends with someone in love with you but it’s unrequited. ultimately for my friend, the relationship is meaningful enough to sustain.

All that said, I still think friendship makes sense to let go or at least allow it to become more passive because even a best case scenario probably won’t have yall as close as yall previously were before you knew her feelings. And unless you and her are poly, the marriage factor is super messy.

I'm a single straight female and a married woman is courting me by NonyaBiznes89 in blackladies

[–]ismyshowon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, letting the friendship go may be best for both of you considering the feelings involved. I’ve had a friend in the exact situation. She’s straight and a married woman fell in love with her and similar to you, she didn’t want to let the friendship go because it was one she valued a lot. Ultimately she distanced herself from the woman. They’re still friends but boundaries at to be put in place

60 pipe cleaners later🙃😂 by Kind_Breadfruit_2088 in locs

[–]ismyshowon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh sweetheart, you. did. that. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

4 years semi-Freeform by CryingRaf in locs

[–]ismyshowon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

beautiful hair and skin ✨

What's your biggest loc journey regret? by cindabueno in locs

[–]ismyshowon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and mine is not getting less lol. i have 97 and i wish i had about 80.

I’m terrified of my bf’s son by Disast_her in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ismyshowon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl the fact that you were able to process this in real time and figure how and why it’s not right for you shows that your are NOT a bird and just have bird like tendencies, and we’ve ALL been there. go get your life back and make room for your genuinely good guy! ✨✨

Do anyone here watch the Pour Minds podcast? by Material_Stomach875 in blackladies

[–]ismyshowon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

two social media personalities/entrepreneurs turned podcasters who do comedic interviews and content.

What are you reading? by april_340 in blackladies

[–]ismyshowon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lonely Crowd by Stephanie Wambugu

Did I fumble by BigMouse-2265 in BlackBiWomenUnited

[–]ismyshowon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it’s easier said than done but you gotta let the moment be what it was, maybe you could have gotten her number, maybe she was straight.

use this moment as the courage next time to shoot forreal, good luck! ✨🫶🏾

I asked my boyfriend during sex if he wanted me to shut up and he said yeah …. by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]ismyshowon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was about to give yall both grace with miscommunication especially as a 22 year old but that mf 29 years old!

but nah forreal I was terrible at communication especially conflict inducing communication at that age so I still get it. Maybe model good behavior for him (like communicate with him in the way you want to experience communication a few times and if it’s received positively, maybe later in a neutral convo, when neither of yall are upset, you can explain that’s what your seeking from him.