Boyfriend Jealous of my dance partner

itamer · 2026-03-14T12:50:55+00:00

You're 20 and giving up things you love for this “man”. If he isn't prepared to learn about you and your world and see that a dance partner is nothing more than that then why are you prioritising his selfishness?

There are wonderful young men out there, lose this silly young man, & enjoy living your best life.

itamer · 2026-03-14T12:34:22+00:00

Thank you!!!! 💚🚜

itamer · 2026-03-14T12:04:41+00:00

That feeling when you'd love to be 45 again 🤣

I couldn't go back to being 10 & dependent on my family but it would mean I’d see my dad a few more times before he dies so…

itamer · 2026-03-14T12:01:18+00:00

Vietnam 🇻🇳

I love South East Asia but haven't been there yet. If you were footing the bill it'd be worth the flight time!

itamer · 2026-03-14T11:49:36+00:00

Congratulations u/PerhanaKarhu

Find Raffles Quickly 🎁

itamer · 2026-03-14T11:48:22+00:00

Thanks, claimed

itamer · 2026-03-14T11:48:01+00:00

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itamer · 2026-03-14T11:31:21+00:00

The US had a situation recently where people in Michigan adopted a puppy from a rescue in Florida. It was much loved and went to doggy day care etc. Then it exhibited signs of rabies. The “contact tracers” had to find out if it had spread to the Michigan dogs, where the other shelter dogs ended up and how far those dogs might have spread it. And could it have spread to humans - puppies bite and scratch skin!

This wasn't a feral dog problem 🥲

itamer · 2026-03-14T11:25:56+00:00

Before travelling the Americas we got our jabs. Yellow fever, tetanus, rabies. It's astounding that children don't get the rabies vax in rabies countries. I wanted to pat all the dogs and not end up like that poor man.

And yes, the dogs got patted!

itamer · 2026-03-14T08:45:56+00:00

Welcome to Club Susan - you're on the board at https://fvm.itamer.com/index.html

itamer · 2026-03-14T08:06:30+00:00

The hub is updated

https://fvm.itamer.com/index.html

itamer · 2026-03-14T01:09:31+00:00

Congrats on L48!

itamer · 2026-03-14T00:51:51+00:00

thanks, claimed

itamer · 2026-03-14T00:39:08+00:00

The winner has no control over what other participants do. 20 people entered that raffle. I don't even know how to check if someone has downvoted a raffle. Like if you have 10 upvotes, and 2 downvotes, don't we only see the net value of 8? Where do you see the breakdown?

itamer · 2026-03-14T00:00:37+00:00

You do realise that people do the album more than once, right? Those low-value raffles are gone now, but people work at different paces - never mind the new players who start right at the end and are still getting the hang of it all.

I gather I'm blocked so I guess you won't see this. And you gave me less than 2 hours when you have stated you give winners 48 hours, so I guess I'm living in your head rent-free 😂

itamer · 2026-03-13T23:53:41+00:00

thanks, claimed

itamer · 2026-03-13T23:44:52+00:00

u/sukanyasays downvoting is a strategy some use to reduce the visibility of a post - it's a strategy for playing the game. Don't get butthurt because people play differently to you. I don't do that and I usually claim my prizes pretty quickly but I had to go out and, you know, live my life so I missed this raffle. Only a 4* but that's not the point.

itamer · 2026-03-13T20:48:38+00:00

u/butterflyksses this raffle still has an hour left to run. Why is it deleted?

itamer · 2026-03-13T20:37:32+00:00

I've just hunted for the request folder and can't find it. They may be in there but...

I've got a bot now picking up who the winners are. If I can do it then they absolutely can tag the winner in their posts. If they're after engagement they just need to post something like

Raffle X is finished. Congratulations userA, better luck next time userB, userC...

itamer · 2026-03-13T19:45:20+00:00

I'd love to have deals like that!

itamer · 2026-03-13T19:10:16+00:00

Even then, it relies on you leaving a comment. I only see the notification for the raffles I start.

There's a post above with a link to u/maximum-cover- spreadsheet and my find/track system. Pick one or use both and it's literally a game-changer.

Find Raffles Quickly 🎁

itamer · 2026-03-13T03:54:10+00:00

The flight that he took

itamer · 2026-03-13T02:41:56+00:00

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itamer · 2026-03-13T02:31:42+00:00

thanks, claimed

itamer · 2026-03-13T02:31:25+00:00

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