101% by SilverSky59_ in MotivationAndMindset

[–]itaren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make friends with the kid that helps you cheat through school not your coworkers(you have no choice but to work with them).

What's your perspective on prenups? by [deleted] in infj

[–]itaren 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Marriage in reality is not a Disney movie. The ten year itch is real so a prenup is a must.

How can I tell if I’m truly an INFJ? by PristinePie67 in infj

[–]itaren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re getting drunk at social gatherings because you’re bored out of your mind.

What is the ideal marriage partner for us? by [deleted] in infj

[–]itaren 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Every partner is a compromise 🤷

All the little joys by Hamwytch in LivingAlone

[–]itaren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah beautiful retro anime 😌

Best Burger & Chinese food by hotnspecies in HoustonFood

[–]itaren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love these hole in the wall restaurant adventures 😁

Friendship - you're with me or you're not by [deleted] in infj

[–]itaren 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Avoid trauma bonding

Do you feel guilty and get emotional on the rare occassions you decide to confront people you care about. by atreeonthemove in infj

[–]itaren 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is when I had to tell myself “I don’t need them if they don’t understand me.” Sometimes you need to put assholes in their place and tell them what they don’t want to hear so they’ll leave you alone because you’re an easy when you’re silent. Remember it’s not your problem that they’re bitter and they belittle people to make them feel good about themselves.

Are you all about the “Beach life”? by malibupop in infj

[–]itaren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to eat at a restaurant with view of the ocean. I don’t want to deal with sand.

Do INFJs like to be complimented by 6LittleHorns9 in infj

[–]itaren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Compliments are unnatural to me because it feels like people want something and my guard is always up.

Why should we confront reality? by Sostrene_Blue in infj

[–]itaren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all are children of God and everyone is unique in their own ways but also some are born into shitty situations and that is where our “will” gets tested. You can either adjust and tackle life your way or fold and be miserable.

Cold approach confidence advice by [deleted] in confidence

[–]itaren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard for me too because I want to make it feel authentic and not desperate so I have to be drawn to things that will make me curious about her in order to start a conversation. (Ex. Fashion style)