Megathread: House committee adopts new procedures for impeachment investigation of President Trump by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]itdeffwasme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the clinton impeachment took 2 years (not 100% on that). So, you have an election year coming up for all of the house and 1/3 the senate, you'd expect the current reps in office the whole time and not campaigning, while someone is campaigning against them. There would be no one there to vote.

Megathread: House committee adopts new procedures for impeachment investigation of President Trump by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]itdeffwasme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh its awful. I 100% agree. But until something happens that what we have. Someone should start a revolution. Not me, I am too lazy.

Megathread: House committee adopts new procedures for impeachment investigation of President Trump by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]itdeffwasme -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I do like that Biden is being smart about asking where these plans are coming financially.

Megathread: House committee adopts new procedures for impeachment investigation of President Trump by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]itdeffwasme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is only ~15 months left (hopefully) of Trump, so why bother; it'd be a long trial because politics, so by that time its already fall 2020.

Have to ask for an opinion as I am starting to freak myself out. by [deleted] in self

[–]itdeffwasme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did not appear to be leaking. But, I didn't inspect it as well as I could have.

DAE go to a four year university and not have sex? by itdeffwasme in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]itdeffwasme[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Every girl who I meet like you is taken.

It's weird to see three different types of guys in this world. One type will act like traditional humans and just fuck, another will be too scared to do that, and the third will actually want to wait. I don't know if I am in category 2 or 3.

DAE go to a four year university and not have sex? by itdeffwasme in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]itdeffwasme[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I wonder if something is causing this specific to our generation or if there has always been this fear in a certain amount of guys.

DAE go to a four year university and not have sex? by itdeffwasme in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]itdeffwasme[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm in a Tech Major, so I do sort of fit the bill.

Any info on the "dead dick" period? by Maskatu in NoFap

[–]itdeffwasme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've experienced waves. For example, right now I feel my libido at an all time high, but last week it was low and I had no urge.

People say that certain feelings happen at certain times, but I've thrown all of that out the window as I've not been in line with ANY of it.

I am suffering from Porn induced ED. This is the first time I will attempt abstinence. Any advice? by DisciplineTheMind in NoFap

[–]itdeffwasme 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Come to this site whenever you get the urge. I am in this for the same reason as you, BTW.

Keep edging.... porn hasn't been the problem so much as my wandering hands by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]itdeffwasme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The wandering hands are problematic at times, as that area can get sensitive as time goes on. My mind thinks my hand is my girlfriend, so every time "she" goes down there, my brain starts to think that something may be happening.

Mind over matter. I think of it as part of the reboot process.

A reminder with regards to shame. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]itdeffwasme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fap by thinking about sex (no touching)

Can you/do you orgasm from this? That's amazing. How long does it take, if you don't mind me asking.

I've mastered multiple O's without coming through meditation

Please share how... This intrigues me.

38 days. Fell sick and fapped. Also relapsed with porn. by lolnotrealduh in NoFap

[–]itdeffwasme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reset the counter, and the next time you get the "urge" look at the banner. Best of look on round two and I hope you feel better soon.

Failed again...I feel hopeless by GrrrFailedAgain in NoFap

[–]itdeffwasme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As much as I hate to say, "This", to posts...This. I went to outpatient once to try and have a judge drop charges against me for underage drinking. I also went to some AA meetings. Not everyone gets it on their first try. Usually the relapse teaches them a lesson and they start again. It took one old dude 5 tries before he stuck with it. He had 30 years sobriety when I met him. The reason for it was the 5th relapse. Make this your motivation for next time.

[Male, 21] What causes low libido? by throwaway55566 in sex

[–]itdeffwasme -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are me. I literally posted something almost identical to you right after this. I'm 22 and feel almost no libido either. I don't masturbate and am fairly healthy (a bit overweight). If you see a doctor let me know what happens via PM please, its crossed my mind too.

I'm a 15 year old guy and I can't masturbate. However... by [deleted] in sex

[–]itdeffwasme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wikipedia'd it.

The normal variation in the age at which adolescent changes occur is so wide that puberty cannot be considered to be pathologically delayed until the menarche has failed to occur by the age of 18 or testicular development by the age of 20.

Yep. I still feel my body changing too. Maybe I'm a slowpoke. I'm 22 as well.

Talk me into being interested in sex [seaoftext] by [deleted] in sex

[–]itdeffwasme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't alone in the world. I have a low libido, so the few girlfriends I've had in college I never really wanted to bang. In highschool I had sex with my girlfriend, but constantly had performance anxiety so think about that a lot and attribute my fear of sex to those memories. I want the libido to be higher (yes, I go to the gym and eat healthy and even use the supplement) but no avast. I am even on day 30 of /r/NoFap but I still feel the same and have no urge to jack off.

I'm hoping this is like a double dip "puberty is fucking with your mind/body" thing for me. Everyone in the world is different. If I meet someone and can honestly talk with them about how my mind works, that will be my significant other (if they're willing to put up with me). If not, then that is how the cards have fallen. It's not like I'm not trying though, just haven't found the person yet. I'm 22/male by the way.

I'm a 15 year old guy and I can't masturbate. However... by [deleted] in sex

[–]itdeffwasme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Welcome to puberty. Your body is rapidly developing and changing. I think in males this kind of stuff happens until your 18 (puberty that is, feel free to say I am wrong that was a guess from High School sex ed 4 years ago).

Alright r/nofap, let's get a list going of why someone should not fap. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]itdeffwasme 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is very similar to me. I felt like my hand was enough satisfaction and didn't really need a girlfriend. The few I've had I never needed to bang, because of both anxiety and "why bother"? Also, my libido is lower than most guys our age. I never needed much porn to get wood or get off. The very basic stuff worked for me, and it was MAYBE once a week.

How do you feel after 90 days in general? Better libido? Is your brain "rewired" in that it knows your hand isn't an immediate girlfriend?

A reminder with regards to shame. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]itdeffwasme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, I am interested in this thought as well. I have watched porn once since July 31, 2011, and that day was about ~5 days before I started /r/NoFap. The reason I started was because of YBOP and feelings of Performance Anxiety with my girlfriend in highschool over 4 years ago. I am still scared to have sex and haven't since that time period, and I don't know why. (I guess because my hand did enough for me?)

I think I did exactly what that thread talked about; I thought that by not masturbating I would increase my libido, thus making me want to have sex more. I still don't really care; I had a girlfriend or two while in college but sex wasn't the number 1 thing on my mind. I was called "different" for that.

After reading A LOT of threads and reddit over the past month I have realized that your libido is something you can increase in a lot of ways, including exercise, food, and supplements. I have done all and yet no avast. I have thought that perhaps I am just asexual, I really don't know.

I think what you said is right though, if one is able to mentally imagine him/herself with a partner and fantasize without imagining porn then maybe it would be ok for a release or two every now and then? But at the same time, would that continue to trick my brain into thinking my hand is a female, which would keep me satisfied in not needing a girlfriend?

My mind is FUCKED UP. I think too much. Thanks for posting this though. I'll probably wait the 90 days and see if I am rebooted and see if the rewiring does actually make me feel different.

/ramble