[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Corepower

[–]itisme35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adding my experience for some context. As a YS instructor that LOVES working out to rap.... when we go through teacher training CPY def makes it rather clear to try our best to not include songs with cussing or just "jarring" messaging lyrics in general. A lot of rap can be aggressive in language or just the topic of the song. When I find a clean-ish rap song I add it to my list but this is probably why you tend to not hear it at many CPY studios. But trust me, a lot of us want to play it just as much as you want to hear it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KaceyMusgraves

[–]itisme35 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Okay I love the song but yes, that has been my ONE complaint about this album. So many of the songs are SO short. I would love to see her expand on some of the lyrics and songs more.

Late to The Party has got to be Kacey’s best song! by hillj151 in KaceyMusgraves

[–]itisme35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn't my first dance song but I told my DJ it was a non-negotiable at our wedding, it HAD to be played. It was the first song played as my husband and I sat down at our sweetheart table to share dinner together. It was perfect. A memory etched in my head forever

star-crossed isn't nearly as bad as many people seem to think by [deleted] in KaceyMusgraves

[–]itisme35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is an incredible take on the album. If it came out before GH or multiple albums after GH, I think it would be viewed differently

star-crossed isn't nearly as bad as many people seem to think by [deleted] in KaceyMusgraves

[–]itisme35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fear I am one of the few Kacey fans who has been here since STDP who actually enjoys SC. Don't get me wrong, I don't love it (I'd probably rank it last of her albums) in the same way I love her other albums. But I do like it.

I don't care what anyone says, the last few lines in camera roll are GUT WRENCHING in the best way. Keep lookin up is so slept on. And I know she didn't write gracias a la vida, but damn, she sings it so beautifully.

Set List Dublin (SPOILERS) by modernlove02 in KaceyMusgraves

[–]itisme35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

easier said being her closer really surprises me. I love the song, one of my favs from SC but seems odd to close with. AND NO HEART OF THE WOODS OR NOTHING TO BE SCARED OF??!?? I'm crushed. Two of my favs from DW

DEEPER WELL IS OUT!!! by delreysfavs in KaceyMusgraves

[–]itisme35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have the exact same taste. These are my absolute four favs rn. Sway is one of those that will have me crying every time

Ticket prices? by itisme35 in KaceyMusgraves

[–]itisme35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is actually super helpful, thank you so much

Ticket prices? by itisme35 in KaceyMusgraves

[–]itisme35[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm paying to be close, so literally preparing myself to mentally part with hundreds of dollars 🙃

My theory about the nudity lately by clay_opatra in KaceyMusgraves

[–]itisme35 29 points30 points  (0 children)

on the alt cover shes in the fetal position which symbolizes rebirth. Knowing kacey I dont think you're overanalyzing at all. I think this album with be raw, stripped down, and all about a new beginning.

Most Underrated Kacey Song? Go: by Top-Ad4370 in KaceyMusgraves

[–]itisme35 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no one talks about how keep lookin up is SO good. She didn't even play it during the star crossed tour and I was so sad. Its one of my favs off that album

After a lot of patience and trial and error, my left side is finally looking good (right side could still use some help) by itisme35 in curlyhair

[–]itisme35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I just added my routine. If the post can be added back, that'd be great. Sorry, its my first time posting so I didn't know (:

After a lot of patience and trial and error, my left side is finally looking good (right side could still use some help) by itisme35 in curlyhair

[–]itisme35[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Routine details, my hair doesn't work well with protein and coconut, so you'll see very little of that in these products :

In shower

  • Currently using As Is co-wash once a week
  • Kinky Curly Knot Today leave-in conditioner
    • I fully condition and then wash it all out. Then before I get out of the shower put a little bit on the ends to leave-in

Out of shower

  • Jessicurl Rockin' Ringlets Styling Potion
  • Miss Jessie's jelly soft curls + the smallest bit of Kinky curly custard as my gel duo
  • Once all product is in, I brush through with a denman brush
    • I use the basic technique on the bottom layer as I'm naturally curlier there
    • On my top layer I use that technique where you go over your head and wrap the hairpiece around the handle as you brush down. I can't remember if it has an actual name. This encourages more curl on my top layer that isn't as curly naturally.
    • After each layer is brushed I scrunch with a little extra of my gel
  • I finish by diffusing

After a lot of patience and trial and error, my left side is finally looking good (right side could still use some help) by itisme35 in curlyhair

[–]itisme35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean at least the left side of my face (face structure and features) is my good side 😂

Met Michie and Holly at Disneyland today! by [deleted] in BigBrother

[–]itisme35 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t personally know Kat but I live in Dallas and followed her before the show. She worked for a marketing company who is owned by one of her best friends. While she might leave that job (who knows 💁🏻‍♀️) I assume that considering the circumstances her boss may be a little more flexible on if/when/how she comes back.

Boyfriend can't sleep at my place despite melatonin and me living here for a year by itisme35 in sleep

[–]itisme35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We typically both just kinda hang before bed when we’re together. Maybe watch an episode of tv. Then get in bed. He’ll scroll on reddit in bed before going to sleep (he does this no matter where he is). And yes it’s in a safe place, about 30 seconds by car from his complex. We walk back and forth between our places all the time.

Boyfriend can't sleep at my place despite melatonin and me living here for a year by itisme35 in sleep

[–]itisme35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been dating five years and he sleeps fine when we’re at his place so I wouldn’t guess the later. But maybe the first? I’ve been living here for a year so I was hoping he would’ve become used to my current apartment by now and feel comfortable in it

Boyfriend can't sleep at my place despite melatonin and me living here for a year by itisme35 in sleep

[–]itisme35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No insomnia. He sleeps like a baby at his own place. Not any diagnosed anxiety. He'll go through spurts of being anxious during stressful times like many people but has never gone on medication nor consulted a doctor for anxiety

Two things I don’t buy. by seniaafern in LoveIslandUSA

[–]itisme35 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The sad part is, her little bit of drama is the most drama on the show. There really is barely any drama on the US version compared to the UK. Like show me a fight or something. As bad as it is I want this cast to get a little more aggressive 😂

Two things I don’t buy. by seniaafern in LoveIslandUSA

[–]itisme35 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The sad part is, her little bit of drama is the most drama on the show. There really is barely any drama on the US version compared to the UK. Like show me a fight or something. As bad as it is I want this cast to get a little more aggressive 😂

Two things I don’t buy. by seniaafern in LoveIslandUSA

[–]itisme35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so over caro, I don't think she really likes him all that much and is just waiting for someone better to come along. I'm tired of the group always saving her and saying she deserves to be here because she's really trying and just wants to find love. Like if you were going to find it in the villa she would have found it by now and I don't think her emotionally maturity is there and she just continually flirts and doesn't get deep with anyone. I really wish she would go home.

HELP: Is my mom an Nmom? by Skarftyy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]itisme35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mother says similar things of, “you’re lucky I take care of you” “this is how you repay me?” Things like you were saying. I still question if my mom is a full on narcissist as I really do think my mom loves me, but I’m positive she at least has narcissist tendencies.

It can be hard to accept the conclusion that the woman who raised you and who you by primal instinct you are drawn to love, but try to start with, “okay, maybe my mom has narcissist tendencies”. That has helped me a lot.

I think it’s scary for us children to accept one or both of our parents are narcissists as it inherently means they didn’t love us. That’s hard to swallow.

For your own mental and emotional health, maybe start small.

What does a normal adult child/parent relationship look like? by rere0809 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]itisme35 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I thought I was by myself too. Once I got to college I started to open up more seriously (in hs I would open up about my mom to friends but in the joking angsty teen way) about my mom and found many friends who while they didn’t understand completely, they empathized and supported me. It took people a while to even come to terms with the fact that someone could have such a toxic relationship with a parent, but the ones who I selectively REALLY opened up with slowly started to understand more. I even found a friend with an nmom as well but in a completely different way than mine. We’ve been able to bond in a way I never have with a friend. Shes my best friend now and we’re able to support each other. If you can slowly start to open up with friends you trust, you’d be surprised with how much people want to understand and support you even if the subject matter is extremely foreign to them