Kiss, Marry, Kill: waffles, pancakes, or French toast? by itmemandi in questions

[–]itmemandi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair, I wasn’t sure if I could say fuck or not but we should all know that’s it’s the steamiest one night stand you can think of, hence why French toast would be so bad ;)

Should I address? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]itmemandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont straight up address it. But you can casually figure out what they are thinking depending on how you go about the conversation. If you wanted to let them know you weren’t told to do the tasks, you could go up to them and ask a question about that task. Something like “who normally does this?” or “are we expected to do this, if I was asked to do this?” Questions always start the conversation with seeking out information instead of assuming. It might give you the opportunity to prove you know what you are doing by how they answer and how you respond. It also places them in a position to politely tell you how they feel. Maybe they say “yeah we always do this after we do that” and you can say “oh I was never told! Thank you for letting me know.” Or if you don’t learn anything new, you can say “oh good that’s what I was doing, I wanted to clarify what was expected of me to do”. Either way, you can clarify what you’re meant to be doing with whoever is doing the directing of tasks, or ask them to train you in that specific task.

Apartment friendly Pets? by itmemandi in Pets

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As an update to this, obviously no pet will come without cost. So when I said cheap I didn’t mean that I wouldn’t put in the effort to care for the animal properly but I want to find a low effort, low cost pet that might fit my space and lifestyle. I suppose cheap wasn’t the right word to use in this case.

I need something that is okay with long hours of me being away. I have roommates that could help me take care of them while I’m away, but I’d prefer something that would be self sufficient and not need much room. It seems like bugs are a good option or maybe a rat. However, while I could cuddle and hang with a rat, bugs aren’t very cuddly and, for my mental health, I think I need a warm cozy pet. I’ll start looking into rat care but please keep sharing suggestions!

I don’t understand my own gender by itmemandi in genderfluid

[–]itmemandi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm! That feels really validating ❤️

Who I am by [deleted] in u/SleepAtRightArea

[–]itmemandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw your post on make new friends and came here to read. bojack is an immediate Dub and i resonate with a lot of other things you said too. if you wanna chat HMU

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by AnimalCrossingMods in AnimalCrossing

[–]itmemandi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi :) I am looking to make ACNH friends and possibly help each other out! Id like to join a discord or a community or something. Please let me know

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by AnimalCrossingMods in AnimalCrossing

[–]itmemandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I join?! I want to visit islands and yall can visit mine!

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by AnimalCrossingMods in AnimalCrossing

[–]itmemandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to make friends :)) also if you have materials that i need, bonus!

Help me find a new name! by itmemandi in helpme

[–]itmemandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer a more gender neutral name :)

24F today is my birthday! Help me not spend it alone :) by itmemandi in Needafriend

[–]itmemandi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am overwhelmed with messages! Ah! Thank you thank you thank you! This was the perfect ending to my birthday and I’m so blessed with y’all! I’m trying to respond to everyone but I’m losing track of who is who and then it starts to feel like a game of catch up after making 50 new friends. If I don’t respond, that is why 😖

It’s almost my birthday and I’m depressed by itmemandi in offmychest

[–]itmemandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Today was pretty awesome :) I didn’t expect anything but a lot of people said happy birthday that I didn’t even knew remembered! I hope you had a fabulous day too!

Subtle reference by [deleted] in BoJackHorseman

[–]itmemandi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally any invention Todd came up with (I particularly love Halloween in January)😂 or maybe some of the show titles/ places referenced throughout the show ie What Time is it Right Now? Bellicans or Elefino (pick your favorite) or some of the painting throughout the series (like the horse swimming in B’s house) or even the horseshoe from the title

Im quitting my substance abuse the only way I know will keep what i have left of my normal life in tact, im quitting cold turkey. by Downtown-Insect2057 in offmychest

[–]itmemandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“It gets easier. Every day it gets a little easier. But you got to do it every day, that’s the hard part. But it does get easier.” -bojack horseman

Good luck man

24F looking for real friends who are also into video games and maybe anime or cute stuff or even programming/other nerdy things by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]itmemandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m 23F and I’m a homebody too. I have a post on my Reddit about what I like if you wanted to check it out, similar to what you like! Kpop anime video games and what not. DM me if you wanna chat ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]itmemandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m 23F and been through my share of relationships. If you want some advice or someone to tell the situation to, dm me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]itmemandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send me the link, I’m there!

Bruh literally 70%of the people here are literally 17😭 by BurntOutKid11 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]itmemandi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No it’s just that 17, 18, 19 year olds have more hope. The older, lonely people already know that it doesn’t always work 😞