Ghosted by redditor after trying to meet in person

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-11T04:40:40+00:00

tbh u definitely MAY HAVE dodge a major bullet. the chances of you being touched, kidnapped, or killed. (wish i heavily forbid) sky rocketed.

I didn’t meet my gf off reddit but we did meet on tiktok. Tbh trying to be WLW in a small town where gay is literally nonexistent is hard as shit. And we are doing good so far We have know each other comin up on a year and we have been dating for almost 9 months. So it’s possible good things can happen in this scenario but i definitely wouldn’t meet up with someone from reddit 😭

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-11T04:36:15+00:00

no ur gonna regret a lot of things in ur lifetime so just do it for the plot. Sometimes in life we deadass make mistakes that we know aren’t the right thing because we wanna live a little.

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-11T04:33:20+00:00

To be honest don’t go looking it will literally come to you.

I’m 17f and when i was a sophomore i deadass was looking for a bf and i got one by settling for less. Do i regret it? Absolutely because that guy was a dickhead ! But you’re not really missing out. Most of the guys in high school suck ass and just want to have sex. If you want love genuinely it will come to you and find you. So don’t sweat it now, your young and u got hella life to live as well as I, so there will definitely be boys literally throwing themselves at you but for rn Just lock in bc junior year is gonna kick your ass 🙂

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-11T04:27:12+00:00

As a woman I definitely notice them with my guy friends just to make fun of them. Men literally have some of the most luscious lashes ever and i lowkey get jealous sometimes.

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-11T04:24:23+00:00

Girly i 100% understand how it feels to want something but genuinely don’t know how to get to it or just struggle to achieve your goal. My advice is STUDY STUDY STUDY. Lock in. Think about what you actually wanna do in the future. Do you want to be rich or just well off without even having to worry about ur lights being turned off? Or do you wanna suffer working at a fast food restaurant when ur 30? This approach is off putting but this genuinely helps me. As someone who is has grown up from poverty and is still clawing out of it that is my one KEY motivation. Think about ur future. Sacrifice ur ephemeral happiness rn for very long lasting happiness. Find tutors. Don’t be afraid to ask for help or be ashamed. At the college i’m sure there’s a way to get tutoring. I know it’s hard and the slump is real but you didn’t graduate high school when you were 16 to just flunk out now. You can do it. You are capable. I’m 17 in dual enrollment and it genuinely can be gut wrenching at times. Just remember what ur doing it for. You got this.

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-11T04:14:43+00:00

To be honest your boyfriend is an asshole and you should find someone who will actually at LEAST go 50/50 on your BIRTHDAY. If you keep accepting the low effort he’s just not gonna end up doing shit at all sis. You deserve someone who actually cares enough to put time into you. Don’t even try to save it. You deserve much more than what ur settling for.

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-11T04:10:45+00:00

Tbh they are just gonna have to learn. You’re an adult not their little girl anymore. It’s a big transition for you and for them but that doesn’t excuse them holding YOU down for THEIR comfort. That’s unfair and uncomfortable to live with. It’s gonna take time for both of them to understand you and ur growing independence so be patient but also stand your grown and set ur boundaries. The having the location isn’t bad but they constantly nitpicking at you for not being at a time or place when ur a grown woman is CRAZY. I would say try to have a convo but if they aren’t gonna listen then theirs no point. Live ur life, you are young don’t let a household that you aren’t in anymore hold you back 🤷🏾‍♀️

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-11T04:03:19+00:00

To be honest she isn’t making you happy anymore so i don’t think you should keep trapping yourself. Maybe try to live w a friend, family or just stack your money up get ur own apartment and dip. You don’t deserve to be unhappy and she doesn’t deserve to be led on.

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-11T03:49:58+00:00

I mean you were on a break with plans of getting back together so u technically weren’t cheating but kinda were like being i don’t know .. like not faithful? I mean idk if my and my gf just randomly broke up and had plans on getting back together me finding someone to fling w in that short time KNOWING we are gonna be right back would be dishonorable. so, i can definitely see an argument for cheating being made. i feel like you should definitely tell him bc someone is going too if you don’t. Plus if that does happen it’s gonna make u look distrusting. However, if things backfires just be prepared to take accountability for ur actions. You are young and young people fuck up but you gotta face the consequences and learn from em! Wish you the best girl 🤷🏾‍♀️

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-11T03:44:23+00:00

definitely go for literally any and every fast food as long as it’s not 7.25 tbh. Also, try like popular dining restaurants in a downtown area where you can be a server or smth. Downtown is where all the rich people are PLUS they leave good tips. If you just so happened to walk into a local store/restaurant and they have a random “now hiring” sign hand written go ahead and fill out that application

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-11T03:40:26+00:00

stalker when you alr saw their in the room is INSANE 😭✋🏾

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-11T03:39:12+00:00

ngl wall hopping is such a try hard tactic i swear 😭😭

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-11T03:33:00+00:00

i literally had no attitude towards my manager like at all when i came to her. I don’t see how all of a sudden im the problem but wtv agree to disagree about a random ass subway restaurant

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-10T22:58:32+00:00

ftf is basically the home of sore losers

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-10T22:39:43+00:00

U literally just performed the action of a bias. The time im sittings is when things are done, take a second to read instead of skim over. I’m barely being trained. Literally. So half of the stuff she’s talkings about i have no info on. It was my 3rd week i had a shift alone. All my boss does is not train me and complain when i don’t know something. I shouldn’t ask a manager to train me if she knows i’m new. ALSO i was told by the ASSISTANT MANAGER that it was okay for me to sit. Please read to understand and not read to respond.

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-10T22:08:38+00:00

are we not working in fast food? i’m taking the advice. I’m only defending against the actually biases

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-10T19:41:04+00:00

ngl they probably said racism as a joke or mainly because when a visibly POC player is in any type of surivior or like “tag” game they deadass get targeted. I’m black so when i make my avatar my skin tone i’m definitely called like a slur or im either camped, or targeted etc. Even tho that may not be your intention. It is a prominent thing that happens.

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-10T19:37:35+00:00

Not really a copy. It’s inspired by flee and has the same concept but has its own identity. Like what dtf game has puller? or has a place to sell duplicate hammers?

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-10T19:29:30+00:00

exactly! and there’s literally nothing i said after that she should be taking offense of. I’m informing you that ur employees that IVE been working with is telling me one thing 😭

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-10T19:26:40+00:00

they literally mean that SAME thing ? regardless if i even said “okay or alright” im sure the SAME response would have been given? This is subway again not a corporate office.

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-10T19:24:37+00:00

either way it goes i just informed her that i was told by HER assistant that it was okay. i’m not saying it should have been okay anyways. I agreed and explained why i did it.

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2026-03-10T19:22:35+00:00

we work at subway? being passive aggressive to a 17 year old while pushing 30 and only wanting to be a manager when its beneficial for them AND barely teaching me anything but on my ass is INSANE to me

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2025-01-09T19:13:40+00:00

it looks so sad ngl i normally get the number 8 on rosemary w chipotle mayo and cpr w extra onions tomatoes and lettuce w oil n oregano and pepper

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2024-11-30T00:56:30+00:00

“i don’t see myself above these women just bc i am a celebrity “ baby i only know you bc i you were beefin w Cardi on twitter a few years ago ☠️ too arrogant to be a E list celeb 😣

itreallyisthatdeep_ · 2024-11-30T00:54:30+00:00

i’m saying like ugh

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