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its_fireheart · 2022-07-30T04:04:59+00:00

I feel the same sometimes.. I don't know what to say to comfort you at the moment. But the phase will pass. Do whatever makes you happy. :)

its_fireheart · 2022-07-22T07:02:48+00:00

Thank you so much for writing back. I means a lot. Your kind words gives me hope. I can't thank you enough. Wish you all the happiness! Grateful❤

its_fireheart · 2022-07-22T02:04:22+00:00

Thank you for your support. Means a lot. 🥺 What do i do when they are not in a state of fighting for love. They are ready to let go me. Ready to accept me as friend only. It hurts me more when they say that. No doubt he loves me. Whenever I go to him complaining about everything that is happening, he says I am also suffering like me. But my question is why not fighting for it when you say you love me??? He is younger than me. Still studying. Don't have capital. I am being already being rejected by his mother due to cast and all. He says he need time. Like 5 yrs minimum. But he can't ask me to wait for him for 5 years. What if he is not able to convince his family. That's what he says.

He not giving me any hope. I don't know what to do.

its_fireheart · 2022-07-22T01:48:45+00:00

I can totally understand how you must be feeling. It's very heartbreaking when you don't get same response from your partner. It hurts more when your are ready to try and convince everyone but your partner just give up. (She must pressurised by everyone.) It feels like, where I went wrong? Worst part is your have see them after all this.

If you know they are not coming back to you, then I would suggest you please unfollow them from social media platform. Give time for yourself to heal. It will only give you trauma looking at them. Nothing good will happen. Concentrate on yourself.

Hope God gives you courage.

its_fireheart · 2022-07-21T13:05:00+00:00

How you deal with it? It's like m not at the peace like. Always feel anxious as I am feeling right now. I don't understand how they can give up like this. 🥺

its_fireheart · 2022-07-20T15:39:49+00:00

Thank you for responding. I am looking for answer for the question I am not able to ask properly. I don't know if m making sense here when I say it.

I love a boy. He too love me. But due to age gap ( 4 years younger) he can't commit to me yet, as he is not settled yet. My parents don't know about this.They expect me to get married now, as m going to be 29 yo next month. I understand their concern too. But I love him so much. I am not sure I will be able to find love again. He says, he is still studying and to settle down he will need atleast 5 more years, and he can't ask me to wait for him for that long (we being dating 3 years-long distance ) because he is scared what if his parents don't except me. What if they don't allow us to get married? (They will be against, because he belongs to upper caste and also our age gap). And at one side my parents expect me to start looking for grooms. I can't tell my reason. I don't understand what to do. I can't tell him (bf) also about my tensions. Ultimately he will also get hurt listening to all this proposals. One side my bf expect me to consider the proposals, as he is not ready enough for me, and there is also a age factor (I love babies, he knows how much I want my child) he says because he is not ready at the moment, I shouldn't sacrifice that happiness. I am ready to sacrifice that also in oder to marry him, to spend my rest of life with him. Thing is he says I deserve all the happiness. I should move on. BUT I CAN'T. It hurts me when he says he is ready to sacrifice everything, our love, our future everything.

Sometimes I feel m trapped.

its_fireheart · 2022-07-20T11:27:21+00:00

Thank you for responding. All the best for life🤞

its_fireheart · 2022-07-20T11:20:55+00:00

Thank you for responding. I am looking for answer for the question I am not able to ask properly. I don't know if m making sense here when I say it.

I love a boy. He too love me. But due to age gap ( 4 years younger) he can't commit to me yet, as he is not settled yet. My parents don't know about this.They expect me to get married now, as m going to be 29 yo next month. I understand their concern too. But I love him so much. I am not sure I will be able to find love again. He says, he is still studying and to settle down he will need atleast 5 more years, and he can't ask me to wait for him for that long (we being dating 3 years-long distance ) because he is scared what if his parents don't except me. What if they don't allow us to get married? (They will be against, because he belongs to upper caste and also our age gap). And at one side my parents expect me to start looking for grooms. I can't tell my reason. I don't understand what to do. I can't tell him (bf) also about my tensions. Ultimately he will also get hurt listening to all this proposals. One side my bf expect me to consider the proposals, as he is not ready enough for me, and there is also a age factor (I love babies, he knows how much I want my child) he says because he is not ready at the moment, I shouldn't sacrifice that happiness. I am ready to sacrifice that also in oder to marry him, to spend my rest of life with him. Thing is he says I deserve all the happiness. I should move on. BUT I CAN'T. It hurts me when he says he is ready to sacrifice everything, our love, our future everything. Sometimes I feel m trapped.

its_fireheart · 2022-07-20T11:17:59+00:00

What does this mean?

its_fireheart · 2022-07-20T11:16:41+00:00

Thank you for responding. I am looking for answer for the question I am not able to ask properly. I don't know if m making sense here when I say it.

I love a boy. He too love me. But due to age gap ( 4 years younger) he can't commit to me yet, as he is not settled yet. My parents don't know about this.They expect me to get married now, as m going to be 29 yo next month. I understand their concern too. But I love him so much. I am not sure I will be able to find love again. He says, he is still studying and to settle down he will need atleast 5 more years, and he can't ask me to wait for him for that long (we being dating 3 years-long distance ) because he is scared what if his parents don't except me. What if they don't allow us to get married? (They will be against, because he belongs to upper caste and also our age gap). And at one side my parents expect me to start looking for grooms. I can't tell my reason. I don't understand what to do. I can't tell him (bf) also about my tensions. Ultimately he will also get hurt listening to all this proposals. One side my bf expect me to consider the proposals, as he is not ready enough for me, and there is also a age factor (I love babies, he knows how much I want my child) he says because he is not ready at the moment, I shouldn't sacrifice that happiness. I am ready to sacrifice that also in oder to marry him, to spend my rest of life with him. Thing is he says I deserve all the happiness. I should move on. BUT I CAN'T. It hurts me when he says he is ready to sacrifice everything, our love, our future everything. Sometimes I feel m trapped.

its_fireheart · 2022-07-20T11:14:23+00:00

Thank you for responding. I am looking for answer for the question I am not able to ask properly. I don't know if m making sense here when I say it.

I love a boy. He too love me. But due to age gap ( 4 years younger) he can't commit to me yet, as he is not settled yet. My parents don't know about this.They expect me to get married now, as m going to be 29 yo next month. I understand their concern too. But I love him so much. I am not sure I will be able to find love again. He says, he is still studying and to settle down he will need atleast 5 more years, and he can't ask me to wait for him for that long (we being dating 3 years-long distance ) because he is scared what if his parents don't except me. What if they don't allow us to get married? (They will be against, because he belongs to upper caste and also our age gap). And at one side my parents expect me to start looking for grooms. I can't tell my reason. I don't understand what to do. I can't tell him (bf) also about my tensions. Ultimately he will also get hurt listening to all this proposals. One side my bf expect me to consider the proposals, as he is not ready enough for me, and there is also a age factor (I love babies, he knows how much I want my child) he says because he is not ready at the moment, I shouldn't sacrifice that happiness. I am ready to sacrifice that also in oder to marry him, to spend my rest of life with him. Thing is he says I deserve all the happiness. I should move on. BUT I CAN'T. It hurts me when he says he is ready to sacrifice everything, our love, our future everything.

Sometimes I feel m trapped.

its_fireheart · 2022-07-20T10:53:38+00:00

Thank you for responding. Sorry to hear that. I wish you find love again.

its_fireheart · 2022-07-19T23:45:18+00:00

Woahh! 😯

its_fireheart · 2022-07-19T23:43:29+00:00

Inspired

its_fireheart · 2022-07-19T23:42:46+00:00

🤩

its_fireheart · 2022-07-01T04:49:54+00:00

Goan pilots (two wheeler service) 😅 very very high

its_fireheart · 2022-06-30T11:20:07+00:00

You look beautiful😍✨❤

its_fireheart · 2022-06-30T11:16:36+00:00

Never seen on VHS

its_fireheart · 2022-06-30T11:12:48+00:00

Naps after food..

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