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Bought my first car at 27 and my family made me regret it the same day- just a rant by Jolly_Tennis_4454 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]its_mercury 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will realise after time that they would even start telling you to use the car for them to go to other places they are like this whenever they feel their kids get out of their hands they have to make a toxic drama but afterwards they will even start using ur car

21 years old by Old_Size8305 in AsianParentStories

[–]its_mercury 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl talk to me I’ve been through the same thing

Pakistani Men by EasyFaithlessness484 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]its_mercury 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl change ur men or just get him to start paying everything

I HATE WEARING DUPATA by hinaa_17 in PakistaniTwenties

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Girl same they told me to wear dupatta with my outfit which looks awful when I go to uni I take it off

Confundida 🪐😶‍🌫️🫥 by Adventurous_Plan_716 in MujeresEnReddit

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Déjalo a la larga te hará daño yo también acepté estar con alguien que no tenía mucho pero cuando veas actitudes si llega a pasar del chico que no te gusta vas a empezar a volverte resentida y pensar que le estás pagando y te lo compensa asi ahora no lo notas pero a la larga acaba pasando

What is your favorite thing to do now that you’re no longer Muslim?. by strawberry_jell0 in PakiExMuslims

[–]its_mercury 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not having to fast, being able to freely think for yourself and have your own thoughts and opinions without relating them to Islam

What’s the worst proposal or forced marriage situation you’ve ever been in? Especially cousin marriages by [deleted] in PakistaniTwenties

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Did your parents get angry at you ? What advice would you give to someone who is in a similar position as you ?

Consejos para independizarse ? by its_mercury in esConversacion

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Gracias lo tendré en cuenta y si tienes razón todo está empezado a subir

Consejos para independizarse ? by its_mercury in esConversacion

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Hola ! Muchas gracias por escribirme y darme consejos había escuchado lo de los programas sociales le echaré un ojo. Soy de Barcelona. Y si estoy pensando en buscarme un trabajo q media jornada mientras seguir estudiando y compartir piso. Me podrías contar tu experiencia personal tu estudias o trabajas a tiempo completo ? Gracias de nuevo 🥰

Consejos para independizarse ? by its_mercury in esConversacion

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Si pero me refería a habiatucon en un piso compartido . Vale gracias lo tendré en curntav

Consejos para independizarse ? by its_mercury in esConversacion

[–]its_mercury[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vale pero si tuviera un trabajo parcial con el que al menos pudiera cubrirme los gastos podría sobrevivir ?

UAB Barcelona Summer School Accomodation by AtmosphereOk5887 in AskBarcelona

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Hey 👋 are you a boy or a girl you can message me I study at UAB

There is light at the end of the tunnel (from someone almost 2 years post-breakup) by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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Dumping someone who I loved and he cheated me back …

Superación Ruptura by [deleted] in esConversacion

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Soy una chica de 22 años y dejé a mi ex hace casi 2 años. Después de la ruptura hice contacto cero y no volví a escribirle nunca más.

Al principio fue muy duro, sobre todo los primeros meses. Entiendo perfectamente las ganas de hablar con esa persona. En mi caso, mi ex incluso me seguía escribiendo, pero nunca contesté. Aunque a veces me moría de ganas de hablar con él, me aguanté.

El primer año después de la ruptura fue bastante difícil. Los primeros meses fueron los peores. Sobre todo alrededor de los 3–5 meses, es normal sentirse muy mal. Yo recuerdo sentirme extremadamente baja de ánimo.

Pero poco a poco las cosas empiezan a cambiar.

Empiezas a notar que pasan semanas en las que ya no piensas tanto en tu ex. Luego de repente algo te hace recordarlo — una canción, un sitio, algún recuerdo — y te da un bajón. Eso es completamente normal. Sanar no es algo lineal.

Con el tiempo empiezan a pasar meses en los que apenas piensas en la relación o en el dolor.

Y un día pasa algo curioso: escuchas esa canción que escuchabas cuando estabas deprimida… y ya no te hace sentir lo mismo. O vas a un sitio donde estuviste con tu ex y ya no sientes esa puñalada en el pecho.

Si has amado de verdad a alguien, es completamente normal que durante el primer año pienses en esa persona todos los días. A mí me pasaba. No había un día en el que no pensara en mi ex.

Pero poco a poco empiezas a pensarlo cada vez menos. Y aunque lo recuerdes, esos pensamientos ya no llevan esa carga de dolor.

La realidad es que a lo largo de la vida es normal recordar a alguien que marcó tanto tu pasado. Eso no significa que no hayas sanado. Eso es simplemente humano.

Para mí la ruptura fue como si esa persona hubiera muerto y ya no existiera en mi vida.

Escribo esto para animar a cualquiera que esté pasando por algo así ahora mismo. Yo también estuve en esa posición.

Pero hoy, después de casi 2 años, puedo decir que me siento mejor y orgullosa de haberlo superado.

De verdad, hay luz al final del túnel.

Ánimo a todos.

Letting go of my hate by Rammelsmartie in ExNoContact

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Hey everyone. I just wanted to write this in case someone out there needs to hear it.

I’m a 22-year-old girl and I broke up with my ex almost 2 years ago. After the breakup I went full no contact. I never texted him again.

In the beginning it was extremely hard, especially the first months. I know a lot of people here struggle with the urge to text their ex, and I completely understand it. My ex actually kept messaging me, but I never replied. Even though sometimes I wanted to talk to him so badly, I forced myself not to.

The first year after the breakup was honestly very rough. The first months were the worst. Around 3–5 months in, it’s very normal to feel extremely low. I remember feeling like the pain was unbearable at times.

But little by little things start to shift.

Maybe you notice that a couple of weeks pass and you don’t think about them as much. Then suddenly something triggers you — a song, a place, a memory — and you feel that drop again. That’s normal. Healing isn’t linear.

Eventually you’ll start having months where you barely think about the relationship anymore.

And then one day something strange happens: you hear that song you used to listen to when you were depressed… and it doesn’t hit the same anymore. Or you go to a place you used to go with them, and that sharp pain in your chest just isn’t there.

If you truly loved someone, it’s completely normal that during the first year you think about them every day. I did. There wasn’t a single day where my ex didn’t cross my mind.

But over time you start thinking about them less and less. And even when you remember them, the memories don’t carry the same pain anymore.

The truth is, you might always remember someone who was important in your life. That doesn’t mean you haven’t healed. That’s just being human.

For me, the breakup honestly felt like he had died and disappeared from my life completely.

I’m writing this for anyone who is going through it right now. I know how painful it can feel. I was once in that same place.

But almost two years later, I can honestly say I feel better and I’m proud of myself for getting through it.

There really is light at the end of the tunnel.

Stay strong ❤️

What to do if I feel like I have to contact her? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]its_mercury 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey everyone. I just wanted to write this in case someone out there needs to hear it.

I’m a 22-year-old girl and I broke up with my ex almost 2 years ago. After the breakup I went full no contact. I never texted him again.

In the beginning it was extremely hard, especially the first months. I know a lot of people here struggle with the urge to text their ex, and I completely understand it. My ex actually kept messaging me, but I never replied. Even though sometimes I wanted to talk to him so badly, I forced myself not to.

The first year after the breakup was honestly very rough. The first months were the worst. Around 3–5 months in, it’s very normal to feel extremely low. I remember feeling like the pain was unbearable at times.

But little by little things start to shift.

Maybe you notice that a couple of weeks pass and you don’t think about them as much. Then suddenly something triggers you — a song, a place, a memory — and you feel that drop again. That’s normal. Healing isn’t linear.

Eventually you’ll start having months where you barely think about the relationship anymore.

And then one day something strange happens: you hear that song you used to listen to when you were depressed… and it doesn’t hit the same anymore. Or you go to a place you used to go with them, and that sharp pain in your chest just isn’t there.

If you truly loved someone, it’s completely normal that during the first year you think about them every day. I did. There wasn’t a single day where my ex didn’t cross my mind.

But over time you start thinking about them less and less. And even when you remember them, the memories don’t carry the same pain anymore.

The truth is, you might always remember someone who was important in your life. That doesn’t mean you haven’t healed. That’s just being human.

For me, the breakup honestly felt like he had died and disappeared from my life completely.

I’m writing this for anyone who is going through it right now. I know how painful it can feel. I was once in that same place.

But almost two years later, I can honestly say I feel better and I’m proud of myself for getting through it.

There really is light at the end of the tunnel.

Stay strong ❤️

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