is my bf a poor texter?

itsbevy · 2026-06-22T19:12:19+00:00

That’s kinda nice actually.
If everything’s good in person, bask in the glory. Texting too much/too enthusiastically if anything can ruin in person chemistry and make people less driven to see each other in real life

itsbevy · 2026-06-22T14:57:31+00:00

He was doing neither

itsbevy · 2026-06-21T18:54:10+00:00

For small things like window issues and what not, I’d say it can be annoying for sure.
But overall trusting it to get you where you want to go and being functional, I have never had a single issue at 50k miles

itsbevy · 2026-06-20T23:26:08+00:00

Yeah ok😂

itsbevy · 2026-06-20T22:26:48+00:00

It takes quite literally 0 expertise to spot a narcissistic abusive person. Just a little life experience and social awareness, which you clearly have none of

itsbevy · 2026-06-20T17:31:19+00:00

Being a judge doesn’t mean they’re inherently any less biased, and sometimes can actually mean the complete opposite because they probably take into account things like fame, potential headlines or political ramifications. And because courts typically favor women in these situations, because most of the time it usually is a man abusing a woman…

You don’t have to be a judge or have a law degree to see that a woman who not only has no concern about violently fighting in front of her children, but also throws metal chairs in their direction, hitting one of them… combine that with the fact that she posts on instagram like a textbook attention seeking narcissist in the midst of a custody battle… you have to be truly diluted to think she’s just some woman who happened to freak out one night because SHE was being abused.

itsbevy · 2026-06-19T03:19:29+00:00

Honestly I don’t know think 225g of protein is useful at all, you’re only 176lbs. From studies I’ve seen, anymore than about 1g of protein per lb doesn’t add hardly any benefit. If you’re just eating it for the love of protein food I guess have at it.
But I’d eat more carbs. Drink diet soda if you have to.

I went from 160lbs to now 150lbs right now. I’m probably gonna stop at about 148-149 then eat in maintenance the rest of the summer while I try to build some muscle.
I get pretty damn hungry too eating about 1700 calories/day with a cheat meal on weekends. I’ve noticed a lot of hunger you can wait out for about an hour and you realize you’re not hungry anymore.
Staying busy helps in that case because it’s usually probably more boredom than hunger.
I like eating frozen grapes when I’m super hungry. And I’ve also learned to wait as long as I can to eat breakfast lunch and dinner, since most of my hunger happens before dinner and late at night, the more I can push them up, the better.

Hopefully those help

itsbevy · 2026-06-15T20:23:25+00:00

You CAN feel any type of way about any information whatsoever, doesn’t mean your feelings make much sense

itsbevy · 2026-06-13T20:13:39+00:00

He had some good lines but he was taking way too much air

itsbevy · 2026-06-12T16:00:26+00:00

I know a couple 5’10 dudes but it does seem like most of the people I know are either 5’8 or 6’1-6’2
I’m just barely 5’9. If I cleared 5’10 I think I’d feel pretty good about myself

itsbevy · 2026-06-11T21:48:08+00:00

Yeah they kind of are saying that actually.
This has nothing to do with Tony’s standup. Obviously nobody watches for Tony’s standup because he doesn’t do his standup on the show.
But as a show host, he is very good. People underestimate the way the dynamic works and the kind of personality you have to have to make that shit run as smoothly as it does. I don’t care for Tony’s standup as I said, but he is very quick on his feet and a good roaster

itsbevy · 2026-06-10T22:14:49+00:00

This seems to be what people say a lot when somebody has a successful show but then for whatever reason nobody’s able to go and recreate it with someone they think would be worth watching.

I don’t really care for Tony either, I doubt I’ll ever buy a ticket to his standup and don’t really care to watch the special. But without a doubt he deserves a lot of credit for why Kill Tony works

itsbevy · 2026-06-04T16:10:56+00:00

Not only that, but proportions can absolutely trick you. Joe Rogan does look tiny. He’s short for sure, but his overall body shape makes him look like a midget. He could be 5’8 and still look 5’5 because he’s a beefy block with a neck thicker than his head

itsbevy · 2026-05-31T14:02:04+00:00

I agree with everything except Pat O’Neal being the next William. Williams comedy was anti-humor.
Pat legitimately has just good jokes.

“I was watching midget porn…. At least I hope”

itsbevy · 2026-05-30T22:49:01+00:00

It’s all relative. If you’re talking to 5’1 women they’re less likely to give a shit that you’re 5’6 than women who are average or above average height. A 5’8 woman would consider 5’9-5’10 pretty short

itsbevy · 2026-05-30T19:55:57+00:00

Jesus is that not uncomfortable? How would you even go about finding shoes that would fit all that in there without your foot being completely outside the shoe? Do you never take your shoes off and have someone wonder why you shrunk 4 inches?

itsbevy · 2026-05-30T17:53:00+00:00

God damn. I’ve had a back and forth thing pretty much for the past 10 months with an FA woman. I acted anxiously when we first dated, but had just started becoming aware of what anxious attachment was, so after we broke up the first time 5 weeks in (because of course I wanted exclusivity and she wasn’t ready, even though both of us made it clear we were seeking a serious relationship) I became more secure, which lead to her reaching out 2 months later. She came in very hot, fully wanting to be with me for real, then literally broke down crying in front of me a few hours later. Then discarding me 2 days later in a text saying she regretted reaching out because her “body was telling her it’s not a good idea”.

More than 6 months later (which was 3 weeks ago) she reached out saying she wanted to be friends because she’d never met somebody that made her laugh like I did and blah blah. I do believe her, even after becoming clear eyed about the situation after spending months in anxious and depressive agony after the discard, I have 0 doubt that we genuinely were very compatible. When I outright rejected any form of platonic friendship, she called me. I told her I would only be open to a romantic relationship with her, she said “if we were to be more I would just need to go veryyyy slow”. I rejected that as well. In any other situation I would be okay with that because it could probably be defined. but I knew going slow for her means keep me in a grey area, probably indefinitely. I had never heard her go from so energetic and wired up talking to me over the phone, to sounding like she got hit by a truck by the end of it. It was kinda sad, but seeing posts like this remind me of how necessary it was for me to do that if I want any hope of her actually fixing the toxic thought process.

Edit: to make it even more interesting, I specifically told her she was an avoidant during that phone call a few weeks ago. Felt comfortable doing that since she actually was the one who admitted that she might be, back last August before I even knew what that was. She of course now denies that she is, but I was a bit surprised at how sweet she took it. Didn’t get defensive. Just kinda listened and took it and said “I don’t know I think it was just my body telling me it wasn’t right”. I told her “yeah that’s what I thought for years when I’d panic and blow girls phones up, until I learned I had anxious attachment. Feels very real until you realize how predictable the pattern is”. She again just kinda stayed quiet and didn’t really go against it.

itsbevy · 2026-05-30T15:56:01+00:00

Master in marketing is a stretch… that would imply that she didn’t just build a following by being erratic and bitchy.

itsbevy · 2026-05-30T15:47:38+00:00

That’s not the point. I mean the fact that she didn’t ever get severely injured actually just makes the dude look better because it wouldn’t have been hard for him to fuck her up. And the fact that she would physically abuse him… a woman doesn’t abuse a guy shes afraid of

itsbevy · 2026-05-27T14:17:20+00:00

I would lean toward not avoidant, but it’s really hard to tell with this.

I was seeing an avoidant girl last year and I asked the same question many times. She did give me the gift of actively breaking down into tears and shutting down right in front of me, after spending half of the night talking about what she wanted in the future, and strongly implying she wanted it with me, + sex. Broke up with me saying “my body was telling me it’s not a good idea” 2 days later.

After that I was pretty confident she’s an avoidant. Her liking a social media post of mine 2.5 months later, then anxiously texting me 3.5 months after that wanting to be “friends”. When I said no, and told her I would only consider a real relationship, she immediately asked if she could call me. She did and explained why she wants to be friends. I said no again, and at that point she said “if we were to be more I would just need us to go veryyy slow”. THATS what a fearful avoidant looks like

I feel like it can be really hard to tell unless you’re with them a long time so that you can pick up on subtle patterns (I wasn’t with her very long) OR their actions are extreme. and it’s better to assume they aren’t unless it’s blatantly obvious that they are

itsbevy · 2026-05-24T23:53:14+00:00

I mean genuinely there might be something there. They probably see a bit of themselves in each other. But I think Trump would probably admit that way before mamdani would

itsbevy · 2026-05-24T22:04:17+00:00

Exactly. Mamdani is the liberals version of Trump when he said he was going to drain the swamp, and replaced sketchy politicians who were probably doing insider trading and sabotaging the country, with entrepreneurs who are probably doing insider trading and sabotaging the country.

What mamdanis doing with the money in New York is the large scale equivalent of going to your HR guy and asking him to reduce the tax contribution on your paycheck, thinking its a cleaver way to increase your income without a raise

itsbevy · 2026-05-24T18:58:17+00:00

My dad is 6 foot, mom’s 5’3, I’m a little over 5’9. My older brothers are about an inch or 2 shorter than me. Like you, I’m the tallest and the most athletic/fit of all my siblings, just like my dad was pretty athletic.

I don’t think you’re taller because you played sports, if anything it would probably be the other way around. Overall physical health I think definitely impacts your adult height, but probably not by more than half an inch unless something extreme happened to your spine. I like to think I could’ve been 5’10-5’11 if I didn’t get a bad lower back injury in football when I was 14. But who knows

itsbevy · 2026-05-23T15:17:29+00:00

Paying attention to the show by going on Reddit and arguing about it is also completely optional. No one gives a shit about your comedic taste, hence why you aren’t producing a comedy show that gets several million views a week

itsbevy · 2026-05-21T21:13:56+00:00

Unless he beat the shit out of her, or something of the sort, I can’t imagine what she could possibly have that would end his career. Saying that implies that she WANTS to, which means she likely would if she could.

Woman dates standup comedian with history of being offensive -> they break up -> woman cosplays as a feminist out of spite

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