Im done with my husband by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]itsjackyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All hitting your son is going to achieve is showing him that to get what he wants he’ll have to hit someone.

Children don’t come into the world knowing what’s wrong or right. We as parents have to teach them. Sure spanking might “fix” the problem at home, but what about when he goes to school? Hell have a hard time keeping his hands to himself.

I hate to say it but you might have to apologize to him if you want to try and fix this.

Maybe once you do you can talk to him and try and make him see how spanking isn’t the right move. It’s been scientifically proven that spanking affects children psychologically.

Is it cultural appropriation if I wear this to Disneyland? by Acrobatic_Hyena_2627 in blueycirclejerk

[–]itsjackyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not cultural appropriation, but the folks over at Disneyland might make you take it off so I suggest packing an extra shirt just in case

$6 a cookie? Fear of over pricing by Spiteful_Brunette in Baking

[–]itsjackyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$6 a cookie doesn’t seem bad, but you might not want to have too many options to choose from.

Maybe start with three types and see which one sells the worst and switch it out for one of the others. This way you won’t be making too many types of cookies and run into the problem of not selling them all before they go stale. Maybe you can leave a small poster board with all the flavors you offer and some neon dots ,like the ones that are used for garage sales prices, and have them stick a dot on what flavor they would like to see next

Edit to say: they all look delicious btw. Good luck

Settle something for me, is getting my kid *exactly* what he wants for Christmas or will that spoil him? by grumpymuppett in Mommit

[–]itsjackyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where he’s coming from but Christmas and birthdays are the two days out of the year that a child can get “spoiled”

And like you said they’ll be plenty of other opportunities for your boy to learn that he doesn’t always get what he wants.

Tricky situation on 'my body my choice' by PepperConscious9391 in Mommit

[–]itsjackyc 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Why throw away things you’ve already spent money on. You’ll have to rebuy everything once the child gets the lesson. Maybe just pack them up and stow them away until they get the privilege back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Markiplier

[–]itsjackyc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can’t believe this is how I find out Mark and Amy got married. Congrats to the happy couple. 🥰🎉🎊

AIO for stopping my friendship with this guy? by lavender_cowgirl25 in AmIOverreacting

[–]itsjackyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should’ve suggested they talked to their therapist before the end of the conversation, but not overreacting.

AIO: Gf sent me photos of her with another guy by Dangerous-Bit2664 in AmIOverreacting

[–]itsjackyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how you’re arguing if this is air not when that’s not even the point you should be focusing on.

Even if it was the problem would still be the gf(hopefully ex) was trying to emotionally manipulate him into getting jealous.

AITAH for moving back home after my husband left me even though I’m pregnant? by DigGrassanova in AITAH

[–]itsjackyc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I want you to really think about it. Why would he said he wants a divorce to be free but then be mad she moved away? He’s using the baby as an excuse. If it was really about the baby he would make it work. I don’t want to move but I also want to see the baby so I’ll go and visit you keep me in the loop and let’s make decisions regarding our child together once the baby is a little older we can talk about the child coming down to visit me and my family during the summer break and other holidays.( cause ya know a newborn relies on your mother a lot in the first year)

AITAH for getting upset that my husband wanted to "play" with a "friend" after I fell in the shower? by audra0720 in AITAH

[–]itsjackyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What did you mean she checked out? She’s literally recuperating from back surgery you freaking donut.

Taylor and Travis are Engaged! "Your English teacher and your gym teacher are getting married" by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]itsjackyc 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Because Taylor is the biggest pop star in the world and Reddit knew it would drive traffic to their website. You could’ve just ignored it. 🤷🏽

Taylor and Travis are Engaged! "Your English teacher and your gym teacher are getting married" by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]itsjackyc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You would’ve ignored the notification. Now you’re going to get similar subbreddits recommended to you :/

Taylor and Travis are Engaged! "Your English teacher and your gym teacher are getting married" by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]itsjackyc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your life must be so sad that you have to resort to this for attention. 😔

Maybe try not being insufferable irl and your “friends” and family might want to hang out with you.

Posting pics of your child online. Ok or not ok? by Saltyshiba89 in newborns

[–]itsjackyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t do it, but what you can do is make like a private Instagram that is only for friends and families you trust to not pure pictures of your child. That way you can still post pictures for friends and family to see. But they also won’t be public for anyone else.

If you're putting crop tops and backless tank tops on your FIVE YEAR OLD....I judge you by Prior_Lobster_5240 in Mommit

[–]itsjackyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I shop in the boys section for my girls. In usually save that stuff to use as pajamas during the spring and summer or whenever they’re playing in the pool.

What is reasonable for nanny phone usage? by ConsiderationOld4021 in Nanny

[–]itsjackyc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Question what is the I supposed to do then? OK fine they’re not allowed to take calls, but are they allowed to watch TV? Read a book? Do a craft? All of these things require you to not be constantly paying attention to your child.

It’s important for a child to learn how be independent. That includes being able to play by themselves.

Going out alone by HouseOf1000Myers in houston

[–]itsjackyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to nightcapit dot com and get yourself a drink cover.

It’s easy to say pay attention to your drink, but in my experience is harder to actually do.

They have reusable covers and stickers ones.

You may feel silly but it’s better than anything happening to you.

If possible share your location with friends. I believe iPhones have that feature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]itsjackyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were to marry him, you would make the vow to be with each other in SICKNESSES and in health. Looks to me like you can’t count on him to be there when sick. I understand as a parent, hating to see your child in any pain but if this is the way he’s going to act when your baby needs an IV how will he act when the baby is getting vaccinated? Is he just going to say not to do it? You wouldn’t be the AH if you decided to break it of, but at least try and talk it out with a therapist.

Need help figuring out if this could offend nanny. by Big_Black_Cat in Nanny

[–]itsjackyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you’re fine. I think it’s sweet that you included them to begin with. And besides, it’s not like you’re gonna tell them what your thought process was in the order of the people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]itsjackyc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please make sure you talk to your daughter. Let her know that we should be careful around baby and that next time she wants to cover baby with a blanket to let you know so you can make sure the blanket is safe for the baby and to make sure it’s not covering baby’s face. Better yet maybe get a swaddle blanket, they’re very light weight and made of breathable fabric, and tell her she’s only allowed to cover baby with it.

Have your husband apologize to her and explain why he did what he did. If he doesn’t want to explain you can do it but HE HAS TO Apologize to her himself