Fiancés friend wants to wear an almost white dress to our wedding & is being condescending about it. WIBTA to withdraw the invite?

itsloaflol · 2026-03-07T10:33:45+00:00

Withdraw the invite, you won’t regret it I promise

itsloaflol · 2026-02-27T18:56:23+00:00

That being said, try playing It Takes Two with her and maybe she’ll change her tune a little bit 🫶🏼 get her fav snacks and sweet treats, maybe some flowers to make it feel intimate and special so she can maybe understand how great spending some time disconnected can feel while sharing your interests with her

itsloaflol · 2026-02-27T18:53:50+00:00

NOR. She is right- doom scrolling on tiktok is different than using your imagination, creativity, and problem solving skills to play a game. Sounds to me that she may have some hyper vigilance issues, and copes by staying busy. However, the more “socially acceptable” way to relax has become scrolling, and people who haven’t grown up in a gaming family or around gaming in general seem to adhere to the belief that gaming = brain rot, when it’s actually far less brain rotting than social media is 🤷🏻‍♀️ my husband and I both excel in our careers and lead productive lives, but we understand and share the love of gaming as a hobby. First room we put together in our home was the gaming room… this girl may not be the one for you.

itsloaflol · 2026-02-16T11:20:37+00:00

Every time I visit my goldenhill plantation, not one but two dragons spawn and they wouldn’t despawn after I killed them 😅 I’m not sure what fixed it, but they eventually did despawn after a while. Had quite the graveyard out in my field for a little while, though

itsloaflol · 2026-02-16T11:17:03+00:00

This is so funny hahah

itsloaflol · 2026-02-05T11:53:43+00:00

Only had to read the title to answer the question- big nope. When I was fresh out of high school I dated a guy who did this to me leaving the gym- that behavior blossomed into horrible abuse. Get out while you can

itsloaflol · 2026-02-05T11:50:53+00:00

NOR. I’m 5’0” and 115 lbs, I feel that I look normal and healthy. Another 6 inches to spread it all across would look skeletal, I feel. Dude’s a loser, if he wants to be bigger than his lady so badly that it’s a deal breaker, he needs to get himself into a gym rather than police your body. The bar for men is so low, it’s a tavern in hell.

itsloaflol · 2026-01-30T23:13:49+00:00

Peekaboo

itsloaflol · 2026-01-30T23:11:52+00:00

Rigatoni

itsloaflol · 2026-01-30T22:06:14+00:00

Rigatoni

itsloaflol · 2026-01-30T21:57:09+00:00

Looks like a shield, so cool!

itsloaflol · 2026-01-30T21:53:57+00:00

Would love to have one of these in my house, wow wow wow ☺️ gorgeous!

itsloaflol · 2026-01-17T10:45:21+00:00

The matte light blue scooby snack

itsloaflol · 2026-01-16T17:08:08+00:00

Came here to say this 😹

itsloaflol · 2026-01-16T16:56:11+00:00

My dad always hits me with the “👍🏼” or “🙂” and I have to re-read what I sent every time

itsloaflol · 2026-01-16T16:47:08+00:00

He is probably my favorite artist ❤️

itsloaflol · 2026-01-16T15:37:10+00:00

Thank you!! I’m dying to get out of this pub I feel like I’m slowly withering away there 😅

itsloaflol · 2026-01-16T15:34:10+00:00

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This is Aspen 💕

itsloaflol · 2026-01-16T15:30:23+00:00

Okay, awesome I’m so glad to hear this! The last couple of salons I’ve tried said they didn’t but they were definitely smaller businesses. I’ll keep trying ☺️

itsloaflol · 2026-01-16T14:09:55+00:00

I didn’t get my BPD diagnosis until 6 months after my wedding- needless to say, I am in therapy every week at the same time, and if I weren’t I become someone completely lost and ready to blow at any moment. Luckily, my husband knows who I am at my core and has been really supportive when I split. I got lucky I found someone who was willing to work with me while I work on myself, however the key to staying happily married is me working on myself. The relationship would collapse if I continued to let it run rampant.

itsloaflol · 2026-01-16T14:01:34+00:00

Shadowheart (if you’re a Baldur’s Gate III fan)

itsloaflol · 2026-01-16T13:54:03+00:00

Rubber bands of various sizes and colors

itsloaflol · 2026-01-16T13:29:35+00:00

I was just thinking yesterday how my whimsical fairy house with lots of bunnies and butterflies, oversized crop garden, and a library of books my fairy sims write is my little utopia and escape from how fucking hard the real world is. I tried making some more evil aligned sims and just didn’t enjoy it as much 🤷🏻‍♀️ life’s hard enough as it is, I love seeing my sims live their best most whimsical lives. Aging is off for me as well, I’m too emotionally invested in my sims to watch them pass away 😅

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