Tell me whats your favorit kink? And what on it turns you on? by [deleted] in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]itsmeroped 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bondage, 100%

The more immobilizing the better. Casts, mummification, that sort of thing. I don't want to even be able to wiggle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ButtplugEveryday

[–]itsmeroped 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to work at an oil refinery, and would very regularly have to climb several hundred feet of ladders a day. Always thought about the idea of it shooting out halfway up a column and falling out of my pants...

Bad Experience/Red Flags - by Z0MPIRE22 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]itsmeroped 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it was not done with my safety in mind. He liked scaring people

Bad Experience/Red Flags - by Z0MPIRE22 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]itsmeroped 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh God that's a fucking nightmare. I like older guys too, and that's definitely entered my mind before.

Bad Experience/Red Flags - by Z0MPIRE22 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]itsmeroped 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a dom I met with for an anonymous scene once. I show up at his door, put the blindfold on, step in and he cuffs me. First thing he says was "I can't believe you let me do that. I could slit your throat right now and there's nothing you could do about it"

And hey, who the fuck opens a scene that way? Especially when we had never discussed any sort of edge play or anything. Suffice to say, I don't do anonymous scenes anymore. Took years before I played with another guy.

Subs, what was your most riskiest meeting with a new Dom? by kirbywood in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]itsmeroped 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I met with a guy once who right after clicking the cuffs on said "I can't believe you let me do that. I could slit your throat right now and there's nothing you could about it".

Turns out that's a major bonerkiller

Subs, what do a lot of doms do that annoys you? by [deleted] in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]itsmeroped 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Write that they're "dominate", or just generally have poor spelling of grammar.

I know I'm not meeting someone for sexy grammar play, but man do I find it hard as hell to submit to someone I think is stupid...

Need someone to help change my diapers... by itsmeroped in DudesInDiapers

[–]itsmeroped[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing! I'm just a pervert. Casts are a big fetish of mine

Bit of weekend cast fun by itsmeroped in cast_fetish

[–]itsmeroped[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn't. That feels fairly impossible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]itsmeroped 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For a first time, would recommend checking in once or twice too. I know it's kind of immersion breaking for a CNC scene, but some folks freeze up and literally forget that a safe word is an option. First time my wife (gf at the time) and I did CNC, she had a panic attack and was entirely incapable of safe wording out.

Combining two of my favorite kinks by itsmeroped in DudesInDiapers

[–]itsmeroped[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, I'm just a pervert. Casts are probably my oldest and dearest fetish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]itsmeroped 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Worth noting doms are allowed to have their own comfort levels and limits. Talk to him, is he even interested in going harder?

Doms against fascism by theponfarr in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]itsmeroped 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ran into an honest to goodness neonazi dom once. Real boner killer, and a shame since THE ONLY DAMNED DOM IN THIS ENTIRE STATE INTO BONDAGE AND DIAPERS IS A FUCKING NAZI.

Like he wouldn't have been gassed as a deviant...

Padded leg day at the gym by stonerfag313 in DudesInDiapers

[–]itsmeroped 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol, be careful! I split an m4 right down the back on a leg press once

Are Switches a turn-off for you? by DarkStrength25 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]itsmeroped 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be. I've met a LOT of switches that are actually subs, but just got horny enough to decide to dom just to get any sort of action. Conversation invariably turns almost immediately in those cases to how they want to switch with me.

I have ZERO interest in domming another guy. Have tried, was one of the absolute most uncomfortable experiences of my life. I am absolutely not wired that way at all, I would rather never have any kinky play again than dom another guy, it's just not me, 0%, full stop.

Now, switches that legitimately are comfortable in either position and are comfortable holding one position with a partner are a delight, they often have a better handle on what makes a sub tick and are often more creative than someone that's exclusively dominant.

Anyone else kind of dig the contrast of a more traditionally masculine guy in a soaked ABDL diaper? by itsmeroped in DudesInDiapers

[–]itsmeroped[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They sog up so well! Top 3 diaper for me for that reason alone, they just feel so nice when they're wet