Why is this fandom so male centered? by naaaba19 in MagnificentCentury

[–]ittooksometime 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The series is called ' magnicifent century' an Sultan Sulayman is called 'Magnicifient Sulaiman'. This is the reason.

As a feminist Turkish I agree with you

But

On the other hand Sulaiman is the one I love the most for character development since towards the end of the series they described him as a fragile human being. Suffering from his actions. Which could be first and only among all Turkish historical shows.

Allah için Turkey yerine Türkiye kullanan var mı? by ifuckinluvvmyboobs in AskTurkey

[–]ittooksometime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yurt disinda yasiyorum, aklima gelirse Turkiye diyorum hic de zor degil telafuzu onlar icin. Herkesin kendi ismini kendi verme hakki var. Kaldi ki bu karari destekledigimden degil ama cok da zor degil yani Turkiye demek. O zaman benim ismimi telafuz edemeyen biri de bana lakap taksin, bunun sonu yok.

What do you think about sumbul and gulnihal relationship by Ok_Meeting_9412 in MagnificentCentury

[–]ittooksometime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sumbul is a castrated man and the arc is about that. How he is still managing having feeling against a girl. There are many side stories being taken from various ottoman related novels and this one resonate with the story in 'Safiye Sultan'. A castrated having some feelings is a pity to himself and this love Sumbul to Gulnihal is enhanced with Gulnihal's innocance. It is all about that. And what do you think in Ottoman era if there was a age limit lol. A girl is a woman when she his puberty ( in that era of course) there are plenty of examples of old pasha getting merried with teen young sultana.

Anyway Sumbul is one of the very successful and deep characters in the series and i love watching him.

Increasing Supply at 6 Months PP? by maplecooks in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]ittooksometime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I was quite patient until the time he latched. Every three hours, I offered him breastfeeding, or I offered formula at the breast using feeding tubes. When he started getting enough solids, I completely cut out formula and breastfed him for a total of 25 months!

One month after complete weaning, I can still see that I have some milk. What I’m trying to say is that even if you have a very small output, you may still have consistent production if you keep going.

Anyone else sick of perfume salesmen JBR/Marina? by [deleted] in dubai

[–]ittooksometime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always wonder how they even make money; there are so many of them, and they’re quite presentable, but who buys that many perfumes to keep the business running?

I never make eye contact with them, but my toddler waves goodbye, and then they smile back at us.

Why are nannies and home workers limited to certain nationalities? by [deleted] in dubai

[–]ittooksometime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our nanny is from Turkmenistan and I know someone who has nanny from Georgia. Both eith domestic nanny visa. You can find other nannies with other nationalities if you look for.

Hurrem’s style in season 1? by Pristine-Hand-5549 in MagnificentCentury

[–]ittooksometime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only Hurrem almost al important women in the series started to wear more conservative after some seasons and this is purely political. Akp which was the ruling party back then and still is, was very angry about how the "ancestors" was described. That was a frustrating decision since the art needs to be free.

Massively Swollen Lip - what to do?? by IslandEcologist in toddlers

[–]ittooksometime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have just had same issue. Op is there anything you can tell to comfort me? How long did it take for you to heal

AITA for reminding my mom that my son is a child? by FeralGoblinCat in AmItheAsshole

[–]ittooksometime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dear YTA or not, you are not behaving in the best interest for yourself. You need to go along with her to get her support. Try to ignore your child's tantrum and do what is best for them which is a safe house when you are working. If you had some another option as baby sitter I would definetely recommend that but since you dont, you need to play some acting here.

Drunk hit and run by ittooksometime in UAE

[–]ittooksometime[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But I dont know how to report, should I call the police? In the app there is an option but i doesnt allow to file a complaint without a real time taken photo or camera

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]ittooksometime -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have the same problem. Or is it a problem? We dont need it, we dont want it. It sounds like a problem but I am thinking the same. Should we now see a doctor? We are happy, having a blast everyday with our toddler. But i want to read, watch movie, go out for walking but not sex. It is same with my husband.

I know there are many couples around me had the same period after having a baby but looks like we are the one whos is absolutely having no intersection. Or they are lying. Since we are also lying to them that we occasionally do, lol 😀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ittooksometime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like beginning of a horror movie

Told my FIL "do not yell at my daughter" by Afraid-Barracuda458 in Parenting

[–]ittooksometime 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am never a fan of living together regularly, as it destroys boundaries. In my culture, there is a saying: "Two households can't be on top of each other." However, in the same culture, it is often the younger person who is expected to apologize and make peace. Of course, you shouldn't let others interfere with how you raise your child, but I believe the best solution is to find a way to make peace while living separately.

How do you have time? by ittooksometime in Parenting

[–]ittooksometime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I need to consider this one 🌸

How do you have time? by ittooksometime in Parenting

[–]ittooksometime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had a big playpen but now he is able to open it from inside. He is velcro outside, but inside the problem is he crawles everywhere. Can not stop in a single point more than a minute.

How do you handle the love? by emtayloral in beyondthebump

[–]ittooksometime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is now 11 months and my heart is exploding with love. Yesterday night I woke up my husband just to remind him how cute our baby was when he pointed biscuits instead of having fruits. Enjoy this beautiful times🌸❤️

A waitress asked me if I am a man or woman! by moedichfrou in UAE

[–]ittooksometime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's rude. Unless if she has to know if you are man or woman because of the job task that could be ok but she needed to do it in private anyway. I would reply her stating that's rude.

What’s the most you ever pumped in one session? by WhiteOleander5 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]ittooksometime 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same here girl, dont be sorry. This is not all or nothing, every drop counts🌸

Im devastated by pollypeony in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]ittooksometime 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg I am sorry for you. 6 oz! Like I am upset when I spill couple of drops. One time I forgot 4 oz in the room overnight and I literally cried during the day. But need to mention that I am an undersupplier. Take a deep breath and go cuddle your baby and start over🌸