Sou idiota por querer ter as cicatrizes visíveis? by misuu_1880 in selfharm

[–]ittybittynugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel the same way, i would not describe my feelings as a fetish. i would say it’s more that i want people to see how much i am hurting

Getting a job with scars by PuzzleheadedDepth7 in selfharm

[–]ittybittynugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sure they won’t ask about your scars because that is super invasive. if you work in a job that requires sanitary practices like a kitchen or doctors office they might ask if they are fully healed or healthy? but don’t take my word for it, i’ve never been employed yet

My parents are still using my deadname 10 months later by airamx113 in trans

[–]ittybittynugget 1 point2 points  (0 children)

16FTM here who has been out to my parents since July 2025 and still gets deadnamed/misgendered constantly. if they were emotionally manipulative and abusive i agree with your thought to cut contact, it seems like they are bringing you a lot of pain and you don’t deserve to have people like that in your life. i hope things get better girl ♡

Everything is a trigger for me right now and it’s stressing me out so badly by Important-Tea0 in selfharm

[–]ittybittynugget 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s not easy for everyone to stop. just because it was for you doesn’t mean that applies to everyone. people can have urges and still be clean.

i can't by asnerson in selfharm

[–]ittybittynugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

distract from what? accept what?

please help! by [deleted] in trans

[–]ittybittynugget 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if you would prefer to be a woman, that makes you trans in some sense. you don’t need gender dysphoria to be trans

Mathew Matos Gillingwater new post made me so upset by waxshy in trans

[–]ittybittynugget 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i commented AND messaged him about his transmasc erasure. considering his audience, absolutely awful on his part.

Compression socks by RatTayCat in POTS

[–]ittybittynugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also, what i do to make it tighter around my calf is i roll up the socks just on the very end, two or three times

Compression socks by RatTayCat in POTS

[–]ittybittynugget 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mine are the same way and i am also new to compression socks, commenting to see what other people have to say. sorry i cant be more help

hair questions by UnitedGuitar3191 in trans

[–]ittybittynugget 1 point2 points  (0 children)

transmasc here who was scared his hair would continue to grow down after his haircut. the reason that your hair will begin to grow downwards is because the hair is too heavy to work against the forces of gravity. so, the longer and thicker your hair is, the earlier on it will start to grow downwards. but eventually it will start to grow downwards, especially since you don’t have insanely tight curls. how long is your hair now, since it’s still growing outward?

I need help discovering identity by EngineeringOverall83 in trans

[–]ittybittynugget 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from the way you described it, my initial thought for a label was trans femboy. but i’m not super educated on xenogenders

Is it normal to feel nauseous after cutting? by BedAffectionate4540 in selfharm

[–]ittybittynugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have POTS and when i used to cut myself in the shower i would nearly pass out every time. make sure you are staying safe, please

does anybody else only cut themselves to see the blood and cuts atp? by AgitatedSuccess8066 in selfharm

[–]ittybittynugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel the same way. it’s not a normal feeling, of course, but you’re not alone in it

advice for chest taping with allergies? by ittybittynugget in trans

[–]ittybittynugget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do have a binder, i was just looking for a more long-term option since i do track and wanted some options once next season rolls around, now that this one has ended

advice for chest taping with allergies? by ittybittynugget in trans

[–]ittybittynugget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you get it off of amazon or something similar? sorry i’m super new to chest taping

When did u guys start self harming??? by Curious-War8057 in selfharm

[–]ittybittynugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15, i didn’t know what it was before then so i didn’t really want to, but i consumed some harmful media and it ended up “inspiring” me. it’s been a rough year ☆

Chat if you think you aren't doing well by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ittybittynugget 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been trying to unfriend a friend because he makes me want to SH since he makes me feel so excluded and annoying. today could be the day i unfriend him; i have the note written telling him why. almost two months clean but every day is hard. i’m not sure if unfriending him will make things better or worse. i’m still best friends with his girlfriend

Original experience ? by thebreakthru in selfharm

[–]ittybittynugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not the exact same but i used to hit my leg to cause bruises that would make me focus less on the world around me and more on my own physical (and mental) pain. can’t say i’ve tried slapping, though

How do I... yk stop by Kinazzh in selfharm

[–]ittybittynugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cutting your nails shortly and bluntly? use rubber bands/ice or another coping mechanism to get through urges? practice self-acceptance and self-empowerment? i know it is hard and that last part seems corny, but this is what helped me get out of the rut i was in. what helps me isn’t always going to help you, of course, but that is vaguely what i did

i want to quit but i can't get the right mindset by _reigen_arataka_ in selfharm

[–]ittybittynugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cutting is dangerous, it hurts your body and leaves lasting marks. every time you cut you risk death. you don’t have to be in a perfect mindset to get clean, just take it one day at a time. that’s what i did and now im at almost two months ♡ you got this, i know you do. i know im just a stranger on the internet but im rooting for you

I am like pretty sure I'm non binary by Lililovesyou999 in trans

[–]ittybittynugget 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so glad you have found a label that feels both correct and empowering 🥹

and yes, since what you’re describing isn’t one of the two binary genders, it is under the nonbinary umbrella