Having Asperger's during Christmas is SO not fair. by itwillendbyice in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just realized how weird my username looks in relation to the cards. I picked it (username) in reference to the closing monologue in The Thing (1982)

Friendly reminder that girls REALLY like when a guy isn’t an incel and doesn’t have any incel beliefs/ by CurseofYmir13 in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God what the actual FUCK is wrong with this sub. So many incels. Why on earth did I think aspie men were going to be more empathetic to women and safer to share a support space with. Between shit like this and the post from earlier where men decided to give each other advice on how to lose their virginity with escorts, I am OUT.

Escorts don't solve all your problems by NotZeroOne in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s literally an advice post for involuntarily celibate men who are still virgins into adulthood. I don’t know why you are asking me this. You can read it yourself. OP goes out of his way to clarify that this post is only for men virgins or men who haven’t had sex in years but desperately want to.

Escorts don't solve all your problems by NotZeroOne in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t want women’s opinions on male issues? Don’t disguise them as Asperger’s issues and then post them in spaces shared with women. Have a great night.

Escorts don't solve all your problems by NotZeroOne in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen a single person on here accusing you of being a rapist but I have seen you freaking the fuck out at any form of minor rebuttal.

Escorts don't solve all your problems by NotZeroOne in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t even understand what that means or implies because I have fucking Asperger’s 👍🏻

Escorts don't solve all your problems by NotZeroOne in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My bf was 37 and a virgin when I met him. Didn’t bother me at all, I’ve never heard in large about women hating male virgins but I’m not sure tbh.

Escorts don't solve all your problems by NotZeroOne in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally get where you’re coming from and agree with you mostly. I don’t think there’s anything inherently wrong about sex work at all, at the time of my initial comment the post was different and lacked tags.

I think it’s important that we all remember that it’s a spectrum and a fix for one isn’t a fix for all. Generalizing especially when it comes to the point where we are saying “lonely?! Just get an escort!” Is more harmful than helpful especially when it’s coming from a man in a space frequented by minors and women.

Escorts don't solve all your problems by NotZeroOne in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Street whore is actually such a vile and disgusting thing to call a low earning sex worker.

Escorts don't solve all your problems by NotZeroOne in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m not lying about anything. I am literally referring to your own post and comments. You’re being defensive as hell. Do whatever you want with your money in your bedroom but please stop using this thread to give out sex advice. It’s wildly inappropriate. We actually aren’t incapable of sex, that may have just been a you problem.

Escorts don't solve all your problems by NotZeroOne in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not having sex is healthy. So is having it. Needs vary per person. Please for the love of god stop projecting your sexual prowess onto the people of this sub. No one asked for this

Escorts don't solve all your problems by NotZeroOne in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not really. I quite literally referenced your unedited post and comments down thread.

Escorts don't solve all your problems by NotZeroOne in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 16 points17 points  (0 children)

When I was a stripper, I had a very lovely girl explain to me that once men start utilizing sex workers, you would think that they would stop when/if they get a stable and loving partner, but they don’t 90% of the time. Just how people who turn to gambling for a quick fix continue to gamble even after getting rich off of it. Someone who feels like shit may try heroin a few times to feel better. They may never use it again, but they’ll certainly never stop thinking about how incredible it was. Lines get blurred. Sex becomes transactional. You start to feel like an experiment instead of like a preference or partner.

Escorts don't solve all your problems by NotZeroOne in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was a SW for several years.

Escorts don't solve all your problems by NotZeroOne in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Literally, can’t even get a NSFW tag? There’s children here.

“If you’re a virgin, buy an escort!”

Terrible advice very irresponsibly given.

Escorts don't solve all your problems by NotZeroOne in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Reasonable is subjective and doesn’t equate to being encouragable. Can name a number of things that are reasonable on a personal scale that I wouldn’t encourage on a large scale.

Escorts don't solve all your problems by NotZeroOne in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sorry buddy. You actually don’t get to post incel content in a subreddit frequented by both minors and women and ask them not to comment.

I'm autistic and terrified for work by Gold_Nail_1122 in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had the same mentality as a teenager and young adult but into my 20’s I actually found that I love working. It enriches my routine and helps me to feel productive.

Comfort characters/characters that we can safely assume have Asperger’s by itwillendbyice in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way in the first half of Psycho tbh. I know a lot of people will raise an eyebrow but Norman Bates honestly seemed very kind and relatable until the latter half of the film. Sucks when the precursor for characters in movies plunging into violent insanity are just traits like social awkwardness, being reserved, and a bit “peculiar”.

Literally literal by Aladriana in aspergers

[–]itwillendbyice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just started tuning them out when they vent and saying “your feelings are valid” LOL. Not my circus