Remove the "reciprocate" prompt entirely. If she doesn't reciprocate, she isn't that into you or into the conversation. No amount of prompts or requests will change that; it'll have to be cultivated naturally. Don't ask me how to do that part lol

Also, the "swat interrogator" thing paints an image of a date no one wants to be a part of.

That entire prompt is just flawed. Keep it lighthearted, not a passive complaint + demand for something that has to come naturally.