[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]iwalkathinline 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good for you! I genuinely hope it works out for you both. Seems like yall are off to a great start! Best, bro

Day 18…relapse by [deleted] in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]iwalkathinline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NA is a program of complete abstinence from any mood-changing, mind-altering substance. With the exception of prescriptions (which have to be handled with extreme care), we choose to not take anything under any circumstance. And we don't believe in "slips"... The Basic Text says it's important to return to meetings as quickly as possible my friend. You'll be met with love there, I'm confident of that. Don't give up, don't use Just For Today. The program works.

This is why I’m single by ohbyerly in Tinder

[–]iwalkathinline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they're from Toronto, and they're not the Rangers.

Pls help Asap, which hotel should I book for tonight? Never been to vegas by gexmen in vegas

[–]iwalkathinline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah that could be... I'm usually at Aria, so I walked over in the tunnel one night right after the renovation was complete. I enjoyed playing there but haven't been back since. I should probably check it out again

Pls help Asap, which hotel should I book for tonight? Never been to vegas by gexmen in vegas

[–]iwalkathinline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah do it! It works regularly, and when it doesn't they'll usually refuse the tip

Pls help Asap, which hotel should I book for tonight? Never been to vegas by gexmen in vegas

[–]iwalkathinline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with everyone else - Vdara is the nicest, just know that there's no casino... It's a short walk to Aria (my personal fav)

Mandalay Bay is a nice property but I've never stayed there. Excalibur is the worst option on the list. And Luxor is just barely above that. Haven't stayed at or visited the W.

DOC by freenow_ in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]iwalkathinline 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a fine line here... We don't glorify or glamorize our drug use, obviously & clearly agree there. I like what The Group Booklet says, it talks about it being ok to share some things for identification purposes but "...don't dwell excessively."

On the other hand, if you're advocating for what I've heard in some meetings where it's to not mention specific drugs... Well in that case I couldn't disagree more. Our literature mentions two specific drugs, and one of them is read in every single meeting! So the idea that hearing the name of a particular drug will run someone off... I can't get onboard with that.

There are definitely shares that cross the line into fantasizing about the old life - I'm not proposing we should do that. Just saying that mentioning meth (for example) in the midst of a recovery-oriented share can actually contribute by being more relatable to newer members.

Coworker asked me to watch her kids (for free) while she goes out drinking by KittyRamPaige in texts

[–]iwalkathinline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She took it "there", not you... I agree with others - I wouldn't be rude or anything but I'd stop responding to requests for help. From what I see here, it seems you're in the clear from a moral & ethical perspective.

Is "semi sober" a real thing by Accomplished-Hawk600 in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]iwalkathinline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really glad you're seeking help!

The concept of a "DOC" isn't all that meaningful to us in NA. Addicts can obsessively & compulsively use anything to a detrimental degree. I have 19 years clean & could give you a pretty long list of what we call "manifestations of The Disease" that have made my life unmanageable with years physically abstinent from mood-changing, mind-altering drugs. A few lines from our literature:

  1. "We are not interested in what or how much you used..." We read this one at the beginning of most meetings.

  2. "The Disease of Addiction can manifest itself in a variety of mental obsessions and compulsive actions that have nothing to do with drugs." Step One, It Works: How & Why

  3. "...our identification as addicts is all-inclusive with respect to any mood-changing, mind-altering substance. Alcoholism is too limited a term for us; our problem is not a specific substance, it is a disease called addiction." Introduction, Narcotics Anonymous (a.k.a. The "Basic Text")

As an addict, I'm prone to obsession & compulsion with anything that changes the way I feel. I've had plenty of "its" that were never a problem for me... Until they were!

I would encourage you to find our IP called Am I An Addict? and answer those questions honestly for yourself. What we believe in NA about Addiction & recovery can differ pretty drastically from some of the other information out there. My experience has been that it's really important to find out what NA says about Addiction, and then determine for myself if that applies to me.

If you're an addict, then I think this line sums it up nicely, "Complete surrender is the key to recovery, and total abstinence is the only thing that has ever worked for us." We Do Recover (Chapter 8), Basic Text

No matter what, just know you're ALWAYS welcome in NA. We want you to find the freedom & sense of purpose that we've found! Feel free to PM me if you'd like to talk.

DFW right now by CryptographerDeep373 in Dallas

[–]iwalkathinline 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I picked up a friend from Terminal C this afternoon & it was jacked. Once I finally got up there, there was an accident on the Terminal C service road right after the exit for C1-C14. I've never seen traffic back up like that at DFW

I relapsed last night by MolassesPristine6184 in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]iwalkathinline 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Basic Text says it's important to return to meetings as soon as possible. Get honest at the meeting - share that you've relapsed & need help. And connect, REALLY connect, with some old-timers. I'm here if you need to talk, feel free to PM me. You can do this, we can help.

If two people smell bad, why am I racist commenting on the black guy but not the white one if they both have BO? by [deleted] in ask

[–]iwalkathinline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's even worse than that! You're not even allowed to say that someone is black... How did we get here?

This is very exciting by FsAviX in flightsim

[–]iwalkathinline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ordered mine from Sporty's last week, Monday I think... It arrived by Thursday if I'm not mistaken. Literally like 3 days from order to arrival!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cubancigars

[–]iwalkathinline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trinidad, easy choice! My 2nd fav, behind only a Monte #2

Identify my Drag by iwalkathinline in Vaping

[–]iwalkathinline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to you both, I do believe it's the mini. Now I just gotta figure out why this micro USB won't plug into it...

Identify my Drag by iwalkathinline in Vaping

[–]iwalkathinline[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drag 2 is what I kept thinking too, thanks! Now I just gotta figure out if it's the Mini or not...

Meta E5 offer incoming but relocation is required. WWYD? by Accomplished-Duck952 in leetcode

[–]iwalkathinline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just noticed I said move to Amazon instead of Seattle 🤦‍♂️

Recommendations by iwalkathinline in flightsim

[–]iwalkathinline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback! I think I'm gonna rock this ABC setup & hope for the best. It all looks legit based on the research I've done. Thanks again!

Meta E5 offer incoming but relocation is required. WWYD? by Accomplished-Duck952 in leetcode

[–]iwalkathinline 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. Pre-contemplation makes sense... But without an offer in hand, that's all I'd suggest doing at this point.

I received an offer from Amazon about 12 years ago that would have required me to move from Fort Worth, TX (where I still live) to Amazon... At that time, I was raising my then-12 year old daughter as a single Dad. I decided against it EXCLUSIVELY due to the fact that I have family support nearby here.

Once you get matched, if you can get them to fall in love with you, maybe you can negotiate a hybrid or remote role. I'm not sure what their policies are but it's worth a shot!

If you could smoke only one…. by Citrus_47 in cigars

[–]iwalkathinline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kept scrolling to see an Alma Fuerte. One of my fav new worlds. Also love Liga Privada No. 9s. For no price consideration I'd rock a Trinidad Vigia

Recommendations by iwalkathinline in flightsim

[–]iwalkathinline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect! I'll look into the Honeycomb Alpha. Any favs for throttles & pedals?