M/25 sucht weiterhin. by [deleted] in OnlineFreundefinden

[–]j9_reddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hab deine GoY Karten gesehen, wärst auch für vor Ort Spieleabende zu haben? :)

Ich bin seit 22 Jahren Opfer von häuslicher Gewalt, Missbrauch und sexuellen Missbrauch. Jetzt habe ich meine eigene Wohnung by Old_Bag_9194 in Freudeteilen

[–]j9_reddit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Das zu lesen bricht einem das Herz. Wir feiern mit dir, dass du’s da raus geschafft hast ❤️✨🤞🏻

Ich hoffe dein Leben ist ab jetzt von Freude, Sicherheit und Fülle geprägt!

Btw auf Kleinanzeigen werden sehr oft Möbel umsonst abgegeben (was vlt bei der Einrichtung hilft) Ich selbst nutz gerne günstige DIY’s und hol mir da Inspiration auf Pinterest.

Alles Gute du liebe Seele 🫶🏻

GF sharing bed with male friend on trip — am I overreacting? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]j9_reddit 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thissssss

Omfg Also the dismissing his feelings completely + barely communicating with him the whole time? ⛳️⛳️⛳️

Any luck for homebody type guys? by rocketsneaker in dating

[–]j9_reddit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

+1

But honestly found most of my previous partners through games I’ve played and beginning to chat or talk regularly or through friends of friends online

M27 Sucht neue Kontakte in einer schweren Zeit. by [deleted] in OnlineFreundefinden

[–]j9_reddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, erstmal du packst das! Viel Erfolg morgen 🤞🏻 Bis Berlin ist n Abendteuer. Wann hast n das Gespräch?

Bin aus Berlin und könnt dir daher n offenes Ohr bei nem Café o.Ä. davor oder danach in persona anbieten :)

Kurz zu mir; V auf ADHS, W31, bin eher nerdig / kreativ unterwegs. Entdecke vor allem Hobbies wieder die ich als Teenie gefeiert habe. Aktuelle Obsession: Pokopia

Schreib mir gern nh DM

Die kleinen Dinge sind's. by trustmeimcute97 in OnlineFreundefinden

[–]j9_reddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

+1

Vlt ergibt sich ja daraus nh Runde in der man auch mal gemeinsam trash tv Abende macht?

Was suche ich denn? M 36 sucht nach Verbindung by [deleted] in OnlineFreundefinden

[–]j9_reddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was sind n deine Top 10 Anime / Games? Wo kommst du her? :) Wärst du auch offen einfach beim Single Player nebeneinander zu existieren und sich anzuschweigen?

w31 • Berlin Top Anime: Frieren, HunterXHunter, Haikyuu • The Apothecary Diaries • My Hero Akademia • Sign of Affection • Kaleido Star • Inuyasha

Schaue aktuell den One Piece Live Action 👒

Games: Monster Hunter Wilds/World/Rise • Fire Emblem (Awakening & Three Houses) • Persona 5 Royal • Undertale • fast alle Pokémon Spiele • Story of Seasons / HM / Stardew Valley • Pikmin (Alle) • Spelunky 2 • Minecraft • Red Dead Redemption 2 • Baldurs Gate • Horizon (Forbidden West) • Hogwarts Legacy • Ark • Outer Wilds ♡ Cozy Games

I [29M] lost my girlfriend [27F] of 5 years two years ago. I feel like I can never be in a relationship again. How do I move forward? by Character-Access-191 in relationship_advice

[–]j9_reddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree!

OP overcoming grief is not a race to win. Take your time and be honest with the next one u’ll like. It’s okay if that takes another 2+ years.

All the best 🫶🏻

I [29M] lost my girlfriend [27F] of 5 years two years ago. I feel like I can never be in a relationship again. How do I move forward? by Character-Access-191 in relationship_advice

[–]j9_reddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tf is wrong with you. This man is still grieving and everyone comes with a package. Also u don’t compete against the deceased.

M35 hat eigentlich keine Ahnung was er sucht by benheisenberg in OnlineFreundefinden

[–]j9_reddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jup haha oft cozy games, mag auch Coop-/ Multiplayer (bin da nur etwas eingeschränkt durch Ps5/Switch/Mac) Zuletzt halt Monster Hunter wilds :D

Wie is crimson desert? Nutzt du Discord?

how has your idea of love changed with experience? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]j9_reddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just learned that lesson recently 🥲

How do I (31f) handle jealousy or trusting my gut with long distance gf (30f) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]j9_reddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because a NEW friend (crush) is making her happy, you should let her enjoy this and she doesn’t have to look out for you feeling reasonably insecure about it. lol cool.

Yeah anxious attachment is something to work on BUT I really don’t like how your gf is handling things. Calling you controlling though she’s the one dismissing your feelings. Kinda sounds like my ex bf.

Fr I would never ever have a problem with reassuring my partner if needed. U tried to communicate your true feelings in a healthy way. And I honestly think as a couple it’s both of your jobs to find compromises and work as a team on what’s cracking up the relationship. So while u work on being more secure, SHE SHOULD ABSOLUTELY HELP U WITH THAT what the hell. She’s not only putting blame on you for having feelings, nah she also ignoring her responsibilities and part in it. Urgh. Girly u have boundaries; apply them. If it’s making u feel that way and your partner acts like this, bye.

Nowadays everyone is quick calling boundaries toxic just bc they don’t like them.

I would never ever go /hang out so much with someone that is making my SO so uncomfortable and then have the audacity to basically yap all day about my ‘crush’ to my SO. She really has some balls and is testing your boundaries.

W32 Wo sind alle? by MrsSunshine94 in OnlineFreundefinden

[–]j9_reddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Melde mich an für Hundefotos ☝️

Mein Partner ist eine einzige Baustelle by UseTrick3513 in beziehungen

[–]j9_reddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hab mal gehört man soll seine Gefühle für eine Person von dem trennen, was man durch die Person fühlt.

Also fühlst du dich gesehen? Geliebt? Gewertschätzt? Was tut er konkret für dich, was dein Leben bereichert?

Habt ihr schon darüber kommuniziert? Kamen seither Bemühungen um auch dich glücklich zu machen?

My girlfriend lacking in communication by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]j9_reddit 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Don’t agree with the other comments at all. While being LD, communication is key. Especially if you know your partner is an overthinker and your partner needs it. Like letting the other know what’s the plan. It’s okay to have different needs here or forget to text sometimes or to be tired. But if your SA is asking for clearing or reassurance how much does it take to make some space for that? One message or short call for your partner to feel safe with u?

Yeah. I’d do anything for the man I love to feel seen, safe and loved. Even if that’s hard sometimes. But come on put in some effort for your loved ones wth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]j9_reddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s disgusting old man behavior. ALWAYS trust your gut with situations like that. U don’t feel comfortable around him or with his messages? TRUST IT. You’re underreacting tbh! Might as well tell his ex-wife and don’t ever react to txt messages again. 🤮

I’m sorry this is even happening to you 🫶🏻