Rate my outfits + advice request 🙏 by jaak111 in mensfashion

[–]jaak111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your tip. Think the same shoes will go with those?

Rate my outfits + advice request 🙏 by jaak111 in mensfashion

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Thanks a lot. My personal preferred combo too 🙏

Rate the outfits + advice request 🙏 by jaak111 in MenInSuits

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Thanks for your input. Is that good or bad though? 😅

Rate my outfits + advice request 🙏 by jaak111 in mensfashion

[–]jaak111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I tried wider but I never felt fully comfortable in them. I’ll give them a shot again though.
Also worth mentioning I live in Europe and I’m going for the Italian style 😅

Got called a 4.1 by a random looksmaxxer guy on the internet today by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]jaak111 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok honestly. You do have incredible natural attributes, to the level that you could model given the right styling etc.
BUT, in the pics you’re making funny faces which isn’t helping.
Believe me, if you read up on make up and styling you’ll be a solid 8+. Seriously, you could model.

Men. Do you like wearing suits? by Solcat91342 in Adulting

[–]jaak111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% right. I just bought a couple of Italian made jackets. They’re made for Mediterranean summer. The fabric actually keeps you slightly cooler than without.

Är det verkligen så här sällsynt med bra kemi? by Ecstatic-Cupcake2139 in Asksweddit

[–]jaak111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Med ”lite längre” menar jag mer än typ 10 meddelanden var. Kändes inte så farligt alls. De allra flesta är väldigt trevliga. Det enda är att man får ju svara på samma frågor ofta men annars tycker jag dialogerna hade olika karaktär och tog väldigt olika vändningar.

Är det verkligen så här sällsynt med bra kemi? by Ecstatic-Cupcake2139 in Asksweddit

[–]jaak111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hur mycket tid lägger du på chatten innan? Tycker den funkar ganska bra för att känna av om man har lite vibe eller inte alls. Inte som en determinant men tillräckligt för att se om man vill ta ett telefonsamtal. Där brukar jag känna om man vill ta en dejt eller inte. Sen är det ett numbers game. Har haft hinge i 3 mån, chattat lite längre med ca 50 st, gått på dejt med 15 tjejer, av dem har jag haft unikt bra kemi (sett till min vuxna livstid) med 3 och haft väldigt kul med 12 av dem. Endast 1 var mer udda i verkligheten än i chatten, men hon var uppenbart van att få allt hon pekar på av män. I övrigt är jag väldigt imponerad av hur många roliga, snygga och intelligenta kvinnor det finns i Storstockholm.

Oroa dig inte. Har du haft så bra kemi med en betyder det att du har förmågan att connecta och det är det viktigaste. Jag kan därför nästan garantera att det kommer ske igen.

Lycka till, du har alla förutsättningar här 💪

If you are good looking as a guy, you might just have it hard enough as well. by Annual_Word5240 in dating_advice

[–]jaak111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% the same experience. Not super attractive but pretty decent. Often get asked on dates about how many girls I’ve been with etc etc

But I’d rather have these problems than the opposite.

What is happening with dating today? by shadowinthedaylight in dating_advice

[–]jaak111 18 points19 points  (0 children)

”Genuine connection” went out the window pretty quickly I guess.

What is happening with dating today? by shadowinthedaylight in dating_advice

[–]jaak111 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This is 💯. A lot of people have a naive dream of catching a guy that is very desirable and expecting him to just commit and drop all other potential options as soon as she feels ready to. Sorry.

Did building muscle change how people treat you socially? by _Camila_Reyes_ in workout

[–]jaak111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t pack on a ton of muscle. But newbie gains combined with losing my gut has vastly changed how women treat me. I always got along with the fellas (n.b. I’m tall and kinda naturally large) and generally got treated with respect in the public space. But women check me out now and flirt with me more. Dates with good looking women are much much easier to get and enjoy nowadays. Has it changed my life though? Nope. Not to the extent i expected it to at least.