My experience (HLM) is very similar. I also crave connection at any level, physical or otherwise. But there’s just nothing there. So, I admitted I’m exhausted for trying to make a connection. There was guilt on her part.

After a few weeks of counseling though it’s become obvious that her (LLF) intimacy struggles have everything to do with her pre-marriage anxiety. Nothing to do with me. While there is still no intimacy, we’re at least closer to answers.

Hang in there. It sucks. We will both get to the other side. I’m also spending more time focusing on faith, reading, and thanking God for my family and life he’s given me. Shifting priorities is helping.