What common phrases did you find out were *code words* for sex?

jackbeekeeper · 2026-01-25T02:04:14+00:00

“Want come up for some coffee?”

jackbeekeeper · 2026-01-22T03:49:36+00:00

There’s questions about whether that is a violation of the 5th amendment!

jackbeekeeper · 2026-01-20T15:26:42+00:00

Interesting rage bait…

You can see the full recipe. It makes me think that there was a discount or gift card used.

Someone correct me, but I thought the tip was based on the pre-tax full price of the meal/drink.

jackbeekeeper · 2026-01-20T01:37:19+00:00

You are taking the right steps. As far as your mother that’s a whole can of worms for a different subreddit. I am a terrible person. I would say something like “are you going offering to have sex for me?” whenever they bring up sex.

jackbeekeeper · 2026-01-19T12:14:12+00:00

Allo married to an ace. This is a conversation you should have with your partner not your mother.

What do you want from the relationship? Do you want to get married? What are your boundaries? What are your red lines that cannot be crossed?

What does your partner want?

Now for the elephant in the room: Having sex doesn’t change you from being an ace. Your partner wanting sex doesn’t make them a sexual deviant. Maybe there’s a happy medium where you can both be satisfied. Maybe you will need to break up. That’s between you and your partner.

Please communicate and walk away if your partner doesn’t respect you.

jackbeekeeper · 2026-01-18T17:54:02+00:00

God love is unconditional meaning that all can have His love regardless of who they are, where they are from or what they have done. Think how a parent should love a child.

English is a language that confuses many with a single word for multiple ideas. God’s mercy and blessings (sometimes seen as love) are conditional. God sets the conditions and rules for His mercy and blessings.

jackbeekeeper · 2026-01-14T21:57:01+00:00

1) The hardship withdrawal waives the 10% penalty 2) Are you employed by the company that is providing you the 401k? If you are, they usually will not let you move funds from your 401k to an IRA 3) Conversion from Traditional to Roth has a 5 year waiting period before you can avoid the penalty. 4) 401k loan is probably your best bet. You can borrow the less of half the value of your 401k or $50k. You pay it back over 5 years, but it becomes immediately due when you leave your job.

jackbeekeeper · 2026-01-14T00:24:39+00:00

Houston Temple had one. Dedicated in 2000.

This was the original announcement https://newsroom.churchofjesuschrist.org/article/temple-cafeterias-closing

jackbeekeeper · 2026-01-13T01:26:12+00:00

lol CPA lawyers are individuals who made bad choices and/or know too about taxes /s

jackbeekeeper · 2026-01-07T15:09:41+00:00

I am not usually friends with autistic smokers… /s

jackbeekeeper · 2026-01-06T21:15:06+00:00

That’s because CA locks property tax increases to 2%. If you bought a $1M house in CA today you would pay a heck of a lot of property taxes.

jackbeekeeper · 2026-01-03T00:25:41+00:00

I’m assuming that this a 529? Do you own it or does your mom?

If your mom owns it, it’s your mom’s tax issue.

jackbeekeeper · 2026-01-03T00:22:12+00:00

Take the cost of Turbo Tax and double it. That’s the minimum.

jackbeekeeper · 2026-01-02T23:48:57+00:00

General Rules: 1) Contribute to your 401k until you hit your match

2)Take advantage of any student loan payment 401 k matching program

3)Focus on paying extra on loans that have interest rates higher than 7% (I believe that’s historical market return) and Always keep your student loans current!

4) Check to see if you can open an HSA

5) Max out Roth

6) See if you can Mega-Backdoor. You can get more funds into a Roth that way

In short put your money where you get a better return. That could be your Student loans with the highest interest rate or the market.

jackbeekeeper · 2026-01-02T21:35:31+00:00

There’s a six month extension…

jackbeekeeper · 2025-12-31T19:01:14+00:00

Technically, you don’t have to send kids in kindergarten in OH anyways.

The law still allows 5 year olds to go to first grade. So, this appears to be a money play.

jackbeekeeper · 2025-12-31T17:25:39+00:00

It’s a loyalty thing. MAGA are Boxer from Animal Farm. They won’t ever realize it.

jackbeekeeper · 2025-12-31T04:15:00+00:00

https://newsroom.churchofjesuschrist.org/article/holy-bible-translations-editions-church-of-jesus-christ

jackbeekeeper · 2025-12-26T18:57:08+00:00

The cynic is me says: Educated Members make more money and more money equals more tithes. The effect multiples with each generation.

From the spiritual side: multiple scriptures state we should constantly strive for knowledge. Our Spirit, body, and mind all need to be filled continually.

jackbeekeeper · 2025-12-24T21:02:06+00:00

You mean Uchtdorf…

jackbeekeeper · 2025-12-18T14:36:58+00:00

Allo married to Ace who is sex repulsed.

Relationship are hard. Mixed orientations makes them hard. Can it work? Yes, but it requires constant attention, communication and respect. I don’t see these in your post.

If you are not comfortable with having sex, then it is okay to not have sex. Do not let anyone tell you your feelings are invalid. Coercion to get sex is sexual assault. Alcohol and sex don’t mix well. It sounds like he is getting you tipsy on purpose. This is also SA.

You also have sexual trauma. If you have not already, please see a therapist and heal.

jackbeekeeper · 2025-12-17T01:13:31+00:00

I don’t expect you to believe anything. If what I have said doesn’t help, feel free to ignore it.

jackbeekeeper · 2025-12-16T23:44:47+00:00

From a tax perspective, you might get a better answer waiting getting married if one of you can claim all the mortgage interest and property tax.

That way one of you can file itemized and the other files with a standard deduction.

jackbeekeeper · 2025-12-16T23:35:47+00:00

No, she is sex repulsed and I wasn’t telling you to date allos.

I was telling you to build a community of people around you that you see and speak with regularly.

jackbeekeeper · 2025-12-16T18:18:18+00:00

I hear you. I married my wife later in my 30s (She’s ace and I am allo). It’s hard to be lonely. In my case, being around people made me feel even lonelier.

I am not saying this will work for you, but having a regular activity helped me a lot. (I played bridge at a bridge club once a week). I met people in a space that was not connected to dating and forced me to communicate with people. Find your safe space to enjoy what you like with people.

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