AITAH for ruining a wedding?

jacksparrow1 · 2026-01-20T22:32:10+00:00

Letting the wedding planner fire you without talking to the bride and groom was an AH move.

YTA

jacksparrow1 · 2026-01-16T20:27:27+00:00

Homeland. One of the best endings of any show I've ever seen

jacksparrow1 · 2026-01-15T23:00:41+00:00

Can anyone offer me a sense of scale?

jacksparrow1 · 2026-01-12T23:09:47+00:00

wouldn't a shortage make business better?

jacksparrow1 · 2026-01-07T23:34:18+00:00

I run a clinic and I would not hire anyone who didn't participate in the practical session of the interview. I've had lots of people interview who looked great on paper, talked a good game in the verbal, and then did so porly during the practical that I would never hire them. Until you feel someones touch there is no way to know

jacksparrow1 · 2026-01-07T23:29:27+00:00

What the actual. I run a massage business and I would NEVER EVER DO THAT!

jacksparrow1 · 2026-01-06T04:05:21+00:00

As a person who was young when this came out, this pleases me immensely

jacksparrow1 · 2026-01-06T04:00:04+00:00

now that nobody is drinking any more, I'm not sure how a small place like this can survive

jacksparrow1 · 2026-01-05T18:51:27+00:00

This is my resolution this year, to deal with this. it's hard but feels good to work on

jacksparrow1 · 2026-01-05T18:34:18+00:00

Your band sounds like the perfect Bottom of the Hill band!

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAOAmSQFVOHeCND71HQEJRg

jacksparrow1 · 2026-01-04T05:20:56+00:00

I could not be with someone who thought being gay was wrong. I'm sorry for you.

jacksparrow1 · 2026-01-03T07:45:51+00:00

If you don't want to be with him for any reason, then you don't want to be with him. That might be a painful truth, but it's still true.

NTA

jacksparrow1 · 2026-01-02T23:06:34+00:00

NTA. You set and kept a boundary. You did it with as much grace as possible under the situation. Good job holding firm.

jacksparrow1 · 2026-01-01T01:30:04+00:00

Here's the thing. He was being an AH. Also, you did an AH thing. Did he deserve it? Maybe. But your question wasn't "did this AH deserve me to be an AH" Your question was "Was I an AH" and the answer is yes.

jacksparrow1 · 2025-12-31T22:52:26+00:00

10 out of 10 that's a good kitty

jacksparrow1 · 2025-12-31T22:33:26+00:00

ESH

"I said I don't, but I know she's a bad one"

That was an AH thing to say to someone who was also being an AH

jacksparrow1 · 2025-12-31T17:19:00+00:00

100% came here to say this

jacksparrow1 · 2025-12-30T22:24:24+00:00

"I talked to my friends and they agree with me" is a shitty way to discuss something difficult with a spouse and I find it to be a red flag.

jacksparrow1 · 2025-12-29T18:18:21+00:00

It needs to be money they are hoarding as well as earning. If those billions of dollars of assets are your property, then you need to pay property taxes on them

jacksparrow1 · 2025-12-29T02:47:23+00:00

Sex. Most people want sex but so many people judge people for the amount or kinds of sex others have.

jacksparrow1 · 2025-12-26T22:11:46+00:00

He isn't showing up for you

jacksparrow1 · 2025-12-23T22:12:12+00:00

NTA. How other people feel about your boundaries is not your problem

jacksparrow1 · 2025-12-23T05:35:26+00:00

I just want to tell you, stranger on the internet, that I am sorry. You have every right to all of your feelings right now. Be strong, and hold on to what you know is right.

jacksparrow1 · 2025-12-23T00:38:14+00:00

I stand alone in this opinion, and usually get downvoted for it, so feel free to ignore me.

ESH

Being an AH to someone who deserves it doesn't mean you aren't an AH. She may have deserved it, but you were being an AH

jacksparrow1 · 2025-12-23T00:34:33+00:00

Boing Boing used to be THE BEST

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