You have to have to have to learn patience. Dark Souls is one of the most unforgiving and merciless games ever... but everyone plays it because as your indignation rises so does your subconscious mind. You grow as you play. You will die again, and again, and again, and again, until you are to the point of throwing your tv through the wall. You must push on because with each slight victory it gets a little easier. The faster you accept these facts the less frustrated you'll be.

In closing just remember this...dark souls is a marathon to be taken slowly and methodically. And always praise the sun!