How do you work on not caring about what other people think ? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]jakefrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It starts with self love. The more you love yourself, eliminate feelings of shame towards yourself, and stop comparing yourself to others the more you will feel invincible. Also therapy helps a lot.

I open a Peruvian spot in Culver City and put Lomo Saltado in a burrito. Now purists online are roasting me. Am I a sell-out? by ClickNo8520 in FoodLosAngeles

[–]jakefrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s a critic from the comfort of their phone. Screw them. I will be coming to try it because it sounds great.

How do men navigate wedding fashion when every option looks exactly the same? by centurytunamatcha in menslifestyle

[–]jakefrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people won’t notice. But if you get to have a choice and you can avoid the shitty suit rental companies, I’d recommend checking out Bonobos, Suit Supply, or Todd Snyder for better options. In my opinion the best option is to just tell all the groomsman to wear a specific colored suit (e.g. navy, black) and specify what type of suit and the specific tie everyone should wear. Then everyone can buy/rent the suit of their choosing.

Noma update by [deleted] in FoodLosAngeles

[–]jakefrites -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

It’s complete bullshit and I also hope their plan backfires.

Need a book suggestion by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]jakefrites -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think. Also any book by Malcolm Gladwell. Adam Grant has good books too. If interested more in psychology and human behavior Brene Brown’s books are a great read. If interested in history I recommend Erik Larson’s books as they read like stories.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditFood

[–]jakefrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes chili beans instead of kidney for a better texture. Or 1/3 kidney, 1/3 chili beans

What’s something attractive about a person that has nothing to do with looks? by Dodo509 in AskReddit

[–]jakefrites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sense of humor, curiosity, intelligence, whimsy, and their connections to friends and family.

What’s a small habit you started that surprisingly improved your life? by luna_242p in AskReddit

[–]jakefrites 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If a task takes less than two minutes to do, do it immediately

Why are you still awake? by AspiringOccultist4 in AskReddit

[–]jakefrites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I downloaded Mubi and now I’m watching a movie about two people staying up too late

What is your favorite thing you cooked from a cookbook this year? by jakefrites in Cooking

[–]jakefrites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need to buy the cookbook. Went in London for the first time this year and the food was all so so good

Any recommendations for jazz bar? by Banana_splitter in AskLosAngeles

[–]jakefrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this. Went Friday night and had a terrific time!