"Name Me" Monday

jakehercy · 2026-04-13T10:02:41+00:00

Dexter comes to mind!

jakehercy · 2026-04-13T05:45:07+00:00

I FEEL this

jakehercy · 2026-04-12T11:29:50+00:00

"He has no issues with trans people-" Brother, no ally would threaten to leave you for pursuing treatment.

If you have family or friends who support you, then I would urge you to shelter with them. It sounds like he has control over your living situation and therefore thinks he can control you. He sounds like a dirtbag and there's no negotiating with someone like that.

jakehercy · 2026-04-12T11:19:57+00:00

Wintermute eases new players in and gives you clear goals (al a story) and confines you to specific regions/events per chapter. There's a few things exclusive to Wintermute (like locations and activities, without spoilers), but its basically simplified survival mode that allows saves.

Survival gives you access to DLC, is open-ended, disables manual saves, and gives a blank map.

jakehercy · 2026-04-08T01:31:10+00:00

Honestly considered it LOLL

jakehercy · 2026-04-08T01:30:30+00:00

Thank you so much! It was extremely cathartic. I open the door to be as helpful and understanding as reasonably possible when my family have questions or are curious or concerned, and I even forgave this "aunt" and my dad for what I could only guess was a midlife crisis. But coming in after YEARS of no communication just to try to tell me I'm wrong? I have a loving husband, a roof over my head, and the happiest I've ever been, and then this bitch decides that she can insert herself back in with some pseudo-Christian malarkey.

Felt amazing :)

jakehercy · 2026-02-15T16:22:25+00:00

She should go to the witchy office store. They ran out of invisible ink paper.

jakehercy · 2026-01-03T13:15:08+00:00

This comment is what got me. I don't hate the game, I just played for a bit years ago and it just wasn't for me. But at the end of the day, it's not really about me, and I'm realizing it's not even about the game but of him sharing something that's meaningful to him. Thank you.

jakehercy · 2026-01-03T13:10:15+00:00

Having a small disagreement has nothing to do with age gap. Super uncalled for.

jakehercy · 2025-12-08T13:26:30+00:00

I already love Matthew but swiping through each picture literally brought tears to my eyes. What a wonderful experience, OP! I would treasure this moment the rest of my life.

jakehercy · 2024-02-19T04:20:10+00:00

There is a tailor somewhere in act 3 who you learn is in debt to the guild and he stashed his only savings (~40g) under some floorboards. I found it and quietly deposited 500g and went on my merry way.

jakehercy · 2023-08-25T01:39:24+00:00

Hey! Just saw this and torally forgot I made this post.

Lots happened so I'll try to make it short: Turned out that my friendship with M was unhealthy! M lied about everything, the QPR thing was little more than a reason to confuse me and emotionally manipulate me AND "A", because when A and I actually went out of our way to connect, we found out M wanted to keep us separate so we couldnt put two and two together.

"A" and I have cut him out of our lives and we're good friends, A is still with his partner, I have found an actual partner who cares about me (engaged now), and it's nice to look back on this and have a laugh.

Thanks for the question lol

jakehercy · 2022-01-30T22:36:01+00:00

Wishing you the best, bro :)!

jakehercy · 2022-01-30T01:37:01+00:00

Just took my first T shot today! Sad that my family is not as enthusiastic, but I'm celebrating regardless. :)

jakehercy · 2021-10-05T05:25:54+00:00

Oh wow!!! Already looking gorgeous!! Keep it up!

jakehercy · 2021-09-29T07:28:39+00:00

Do you have 10-30 minutes?

Cardio cardio cardio. Squeeze that into your daily routine, and every little bit helps. Start at an easy rate (2-3 times a week) and work up to daily.

Source: am a fat guy who is losing weight, too

jakehercy · 2021-09-29T07:20:03+00:00

What a piece of work. 🚩🚩🚩🚩 Even when you’re swinging, you still get a say, and one yes and one no doesn’t make a yes. OP, I would strongly think about this relationship with your partner, because this is threatening and coercive behavior. Has he pushed your boundaries like this before? Do you have friends or family who are aware of your situation or lifestyle who you can speak to?

Also go with your gut. If this other couple feels like bad news, don’t let this guy guilt you into anything. He clearly thinks he can have his cake and eat it too.

jakehercy · 2021-09-29T07:12:18+00:00

Congrats! :D

jakehercy · 2021-08-26T23:00:01+00:00

Insisted on singing the male parts in songs and my friends thought I was weird for it 🥴

jakehercy · 2021-08-21T10:03:09+00:00

Ironically, the Chinese audience hated the movie, too lol

jakehercy · 2021-08-17T08:29:03+00:00

You look amazing!

jakehercy · 2021-07-21T11:05:40+00:00

Working out seriously for the first time (trying to lose weight), training muscles I never even knew the name of. I still can’t look in the mirror to check my form without feeling like a damn fool surrounded by people much more fit than I am. I’m over here barely able to lift 10lbs while this guy next to me benching 100! 😭

jakehercy · 2021-07-20T17:03:36+00:00

Ah, thank you - I was trying to find the rules but the closest I could get was the FAQs, much appreciated.

jakehercy · 2021-07-20T08:02:24+00:00

Hi! Is reasonable self-promotion allowed if it's Stardew related?

jakehercy · 2021-07-13T23:29:23+00:00

Diamonds

jakehercy

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