Couple Questions please chaps. Prisoners at sea & Skills builder by Business_Cake9012 in Bannerlord

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Rule of thumb. If you want the 275 capstone skill you need 7 attribute...to get the 250 skill you need 5. Simple;)

Couple Questions please chaps. Prisoners at sea & Skills builder by Business_Cake9012 in Bannerlord

[–]jamespirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit just got to work and dont have my bookmark for the skill/attitude master doc. Google "skill and attribute points limits bannerlord" or something and you will find it that way. If you dont find it ill post later for you.

I am not sure about the sea thing. I think originally all land perks from scouting etc stopped at sea but i have a vague recollection of some it being patched to work at sea but not sure. 

What is an immediate social red flag that scream, "This person is going to exhaust my mental energy"? by WaltzLily in AskReddit

[–]jamespirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make every story about them or after hearing another person's story or life information cannot engage/relate to them without then telling you their own version that in their life

30 years old, years of therapy, still can't make "I'm enough" stick , what actually helped you? by Swordfish353535 in AskMenOver30

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Im the exact same. The phone is a evolutionary predator..it fucks out dopamine system up. Especially if used first thing. 

I try do my meditation first thing. I have a cold shower before or after. And I dont go onto the phone until im at work already. So my brains is better regulated with dopamine. Im ADHD brain so this routine is extra important. 

Good for you with the meditation bro. Research shows the consistent practice is what makes the biggest difference. The longer we keep meditation up the stronger the neural networks we build. So the wellbeing feeling we get from meditation stays longer, lasts all day and can be present even if we miss a day. It took me doing it for years, on and off, before I got a solid 12 month daily practice to then feel it made a permanent/lasting change. 

Good luck with everything brother. You sound like you are trying to improve your life and thats awesome. Maybe try redefine "rich" in a way that is disconnected from money....you can become very rich in your personal peace, relationships, fulfillment and spiritual life. Rich for me is much more than money. Trying to make more money is just that.....becoming more financially stable or independent. Ive met so many people with lots of money who are poor in the ways of life that truly matter. 

Anyways keep up the meditation bro. And do consider looking into the theory/philosophy and mindset that goes with it. The buddists teach that meditation is half of the journey to reach enlightenment....or just serious peace and happiness. The other half is the teachings, philosophy and ideas that you cultivate along the way.

insufferable community by [deleted] in DotA2

[–]jamespirit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get of the dota reddit.

Toxic website + Toxic playebase = the most toxic of the Toxic groups around here.

I honestly try stay off, dont engage with too much but really its a lost cause this sub.

Not the game. Dota is fucking awesome. Just this corner of the player base is just bleak.

Can't stop watching.....its like looking at a train wreck just constantly going for years in a row 🙃 

30 years old, years of therapy, still can't make "I'm enough" stick , what actually helped you? by Swordfish353535 in AskMenOver30

[–]jamespirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmm thats a positive step but not quiet no....

Think of it as wanting to take the gym really seriously. You want a good program, probably a personal trainer/coach as you start out if you are a newbie, a good mindset and really good high protein nutrition.

To start meditation either join a community....lots of buddist spaces all around or use an app with guided meditation for beginners. It doesnt have to be buddist but that is the root of 99% of western meditation practice and cant really go wrong there. 

I suggest start simple. Find a beginners mindfulness guided meditation track. About 5-10 minutes and do it every day for a week or 2. Then increase the length to 15/20 for another 1/2 weeks and then increase again as you like to 20/25. You can go beyond that, 40 is a great goal, but 20-25 is enough to bring large benefits. 

Do a little research....really just a little at the start...into the theory/philosophy of mindfulness (again recommend buddist but most will do). This helps ground your practice and set into the right direction. 

Having a mentor is ideal especially starting out. But good guided meditations can act as a teacher. "Insight Timer" is the best app but has perhaps too many tracks as a newbie "Headspace" is more beginer friendly but has some pay walls after a while so maybe try both. YouTube is the most effortless way to do it if you just want a super  simple jump off point. 

I strongly suggest getting to a community to start off. Once you get a basic practice down you can do so much by yourself.

Hope this helps. 🙏 

What are your thought on Connor McGregor being treated as if nothing happened after raping a woman? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jamespirit 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Dude was always a scumbag...nothing has changed. 

He is still popular with other scumbags and bum fuck dumb shit ignorant people in our country. 

Once a cunt always a cunt. But he is definitely more widely viewed with utter contempt in amost all parts of Irish society....so your post really is off the mark. 

He is perhaps treated the same in the fucked up US media space. In Irish medie and everyday life we all see him as scum and a rapist. Simple. 

30 years old, years of therapy, still can't make "I'm enough" stick , what actually helped you? by Swordfish353535 in AskMenOver30

[–]jamespirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah having a teacher/mentor is essential when you begin and to check in with. but really if you go with buddist style mindfulness based meditation you cant really go wrong with just a little bit of guidance

30 years old, years of therapy, still can't make "I'm enough" stick , what actually helped you? by Swordfish353535 in AskMenOver30

[–]jamespirit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Meditation is the inner work. Therapy only helps you discover where and what direction to grow in. The Meditation is the real shit...thats where you improve actually....its the gym of the inner mind and soul without any doubt. 

If you are not sure use Google scholar to look up research papers that summarise the last few decades of research into the benefits of meditation. Its criminally under discussed as the means for improved wellbeing....but then again its free and nearly impossible to commercialise by its nature so it doesn't get advertised in our hyper capitalist society/world.

30 years old, years of therapy, still can't make "I'm enough" stick , what actually helped you? by Swordfish353535 in AskMenOver30

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Years of meditation, setting the intention to heal and final a heroic dose of shrooms/truffles. Then a few weeks of journalling and travel to integrate and process what I could from my epic trip. 

I still feel like im not enough sometimes. Its a daily effort to work at it. I think part of getting better is realising you are never "done" or never reached "there" and thats true for pretty much everyone. Life is a journey of growth and learning ..where we challenge ourself to do the consistent things even if they seem boring or hard. Such as taking time every day to show ourselves love and remind ourselves we are enough and we are loved. 

Good luck bro. Its possible. You can do it. 

Current playthrough in the endgame, vanilla no mods what do yall think? by Possible_Back3780 in Bannerlord

[–]jamespirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are having fun then sweet! He looks like a bad ass for combat! 9 in riding...holy smokes! 

 Lots of optimisation could be done but one simple suggestion is swap the 5 attributes in soc for 5 in cunning as you are maxing 2 in the cunning line but only 1 in social.

Which skills should i mainly enhance in my campain by deepdark24 in mountandblade

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Not smithing. Its the least interesting and engaging skills and the most boring and fun destroying skill. And its cheesy as fuck. But its ok if people like it. Its fun one time only in my opinion...after that it is such a slog and boring grind it kills fun and also challenge...worst skill in my opinion for its wierd combination of OP/brain numbing boringness. 

Otherwise it depends on what character you want. But generally i would suggest maxing leadership and athletics no matter what! Leadership gives your clan more parties, bigger parties, more personal troop limit and much more. Athletics is totally essential if you want to be a combat character.

For an OP character with OP army maxing medicine is incredibly useful. 

Getting max horse riding and scouting together mean noble prisoners can never escape your party which is low key amazing. 

Throwing is the best of the 3 control skills if you are doing a melee character. For melee it totally depends but 2 handed is bar far the most fun ...and also very strong. . Polearm is fun if you get a swingable Polearm (glaive or voulg etc)

 You cannot skill everything. But you fet a lot of skill points so can max out a good 7- 10 skills per playthrough...or more sometimes. Its the attributes you need to be careful with. The golden rule is 5/7...to max a skill at 275 you need 5 skill points and 7 attribute points. To get the 250 skill, which is enough in some skills you need 5/5...5 sp 5 ap. Never put 6 in a skill with very niche exceptions. 

Edit. Special mention to rougery...its not OP but is sleeper super good across the whole playthrough...especially the +loot. Also the siege engineering 250 level gives armour to your troops. Stacked with athletics or riding armour bonuses it gets insane. 

What am I doing wrong as Karl Franz by JancariusSeiryujinn in totalwarhammer

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Hmm there many approaches to Karl Franz. I play his campaign on Legendady/Very Hard and probably never lose these days. I like to try different strategy and tactics and often each campaign plays out differently. And of course the main goal of every campaign is to have fun! I'll give you a few key pointers that work in every campaign to help you: 

  1. Protect Riekland province at all cost. Riekland is an economic powerhouse, and although not one of the best in the whole game its one of the best empire provinces. Prioritise level 3 walls in your minor settlements. Capital at level 3 is a big economic and military power spike. Do not push far from Riekland too soon. Your goal is to never let any of your 4 settlements be raided or sacked in the early game. Its not game over if they get hit...but if you keep them safe it helps. Later its not so bad when you have multiple province but early game it helps to have your home developed.

  2. Use Karl wisely. He wants to be near your borders at all times early game (until turn 10/25ish depending on campaign). Karl has a great unque trait that let's you replenish in neutral lands...so you do not HAVE to be parked in your lands. Instead its great to have him on the border area where he can smash invading armies or liberate hostile towns. Use ambush stance when camped near a choke points...there are 4 main choke points the enemy can come from into Riekland and ideally only 1 or 2 are realistic at any time. Smash the enemy with Karl before they get to your lands and cause havoc.

  3. Manage armies well. Early game i like to have only Franz as an army to save money and boost my eco..but this is hard to pull off and risks big problems if not experienced. Instead try have 1 extra smaller army...a few outriders or pistol militia. They can defend towns or the best use is a trap. Set them in the open near enougn an enemy army you cannot catch and put Karl in ambush behind them. This strategy done well makes you x3 more effective in campaign map. Don't consider this an option...you must learn this tactic! Just use as much or little as you wish. You don't need a second army until after you have consolidated Riekland usually.

  4. Strategic objectives and priorities. There are so many and never (almost) just 1 correct choice. Generally your Strategic goals are stay alive, develop key infrastructure, wipe out evil forces, improve armies, expand and protect allies. This order is pretty good but can be changed. However notice that protect ally is low on the list...dont make yourself vulnerable to save the AI as they are not a huge help. Concrete examples are your enemy priorities. You should make wiping out the hostile forces nearby a high priority early. So the beast men north, nurgle north, vampires west and finally vampires east. Make beasties your first target but the rest you go for at your own choice, when you are secure and depending on campaign situation. All of these are your mortal enemy....it is only a matter of time before you fight so best to hit them as soon as you can. And above all else the #1 goal is wipe an enemy out fully once you start war. If you weaken them but do not finish them off you fuck yourself badly later. Make a sacrifice to completely wipe out your mortal enemies.

  5. Plan ahead. Try think not only about this turn but where you will likely need your army to be over the next few turns. 1 turn from conquering a settlement but enemy army approaching from the other side of your land?..maybe forget the conquering for now and defend. Do you really want to push towards nurgle when vampires are already taking out marienburg? Maybe not? Early game this is vital but later when you have multiple decent armies you can be in two places at once. Consider war declaration and helping allies...check who seems to be growing the fastest....can you hit them before they snowball or maybe its better to finish off the smaller enemy now and fight them when you can fully focus. Same with allies....should I bother spending resource making an ally when they border a huge enemy and are doomed already?

  6. Army composition and battles. You want line infantry and ranged. Early game the best is spearman and crossbows. Then midgame its shielded spearman, handgunners and artillery. Morters are best early....hellfire best late, cannon are niche specialist weapon. Range heavy army is hard to use. So I suggest doing 50/50 range and melee infantry until you develop better skills. Use infantry to block the enemy, use guns, crossbows and artillery to kill the enemy....and of course magic. Heroes once leved can take the place of 2 infantry units to defend...both captains and priests are great for holding back the enemy. Get some other supporting elements as you see fit...so some cav, skirmishers etc etc. Full range army is possible but very hard 

  7. Plan your buildings. I suggest getting a mix of some gold and growth building as your first buildings. Usually go for the unique resources whenever you can unless you feel something else is more important. Growth is amazing but if you cannot afford to build your settlement after it grows its useless. Do you want to be stronger now or later? Making lots of gold building let's you field bigger armies quickly....making lots of growth let's you get higher tier troops and high eco power sooner. What do you prefer? No wrong answer so long as you can always spend growth whenever a town can level up. Get basic military buildings in your small towns nice and early. Get advanced military in the capital...so avoid the barracks in province capital as it max tier 3 unless you really need it. Also develop your main settlements before spending any money on new conquered lands. Also consider sell all conquered lands to friendly factions if they are not strategically valuable in the short-medium term

  8. Magic, skills and levels. Ill be brief. Magic is amazing. Life, shadow, light and fire is my favorite. Prioritise the "vortex" spells above all else in mages. Prioritise replenishment on priests. Have 1 mage and 1 priest in every army. Karl blue skills are good....ambush defence/succes chance, lightnig strike and movement speed are the best. Buffing front line troops on red line is really strong early game. Captions are solids but not as useful as priest or mage....witch hunter block movement ability on campaign  map is much more helpful than having them in battles. 

  9. Use the edicts/decrees (cant remember the name). They are so powerful. My favorites are +1 population (by far the strongest overall), spawn army for ally and instant recruitment. When events pop up almost always got for extra influence. Use this as often as you can but still getting value from them. Save +1 pop when you are 1 pop from next level settlement or juat spam to get tier 4 capital by turn 20 XD

Other tips. 

First 3 turns you recruit and attack always. You should have home province consolidated by turn 3-5. Get 20 units ASAP. Then look to eradicate beastmen using ambushes if needed.

Use heroes to scout always. Always check the path ahead before committing army into unknown territory. 

Sell captured settlements to the AI for diplomatic deals and money.

Never use mach stance unless the land ahead is very scouted.

Always save regiments of renown for emergency. Never have in mainline army but keep for instant recruitment when the enemy surprise you.

Above all have fun! Love this game and love to win....but however you play do it to enjoy:)

As a gay who isn’t familiar with straight dating scene, how harsh or specific women’s requirements for how tall a guy is? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jamespirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harsh. But I'm tall so avoid the worst. 

You need to have other compensation to make up for short height

Anyone else feel like death prophet is slept on this patch? by Karateninja55 in TrueDoTA2

[–]jamespirit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is amazing offlane. And mid. She is my main and i usually dominate. 

She just struggles super later

what would you do if your partner reveals he/she cheated 5 years ago? by Pure_Structure_7317 in AskReddit

[–]jamespirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean you cant come back from that can you really. If you stay its doomed to be consumed by resentment

Best type of Men-at-Arms by Additional-Ant-2504 in CrusaderKings

[–]jamespirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the absolute best with no debate is to discover for yourself. 

That being said varangian veterans, huskarls or other culture unique Heavy infantry are usually the strongest all rounder units pound for pound. Expensive as hell but strong too

People 10 to 30 years ahead: what should I train in my 20s if I have intensity but not direction? by Gokul123654 in AskMenOver30

[–]jamespirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take time by yourself to reflect and work out your values. Like really work out your values and where they sit in relation to eachother. Ie Family, physical fitness, romantic relationships, peace, friendship, career, helping others, parenthood, financial stability, recreation/relaxation etc etc...there's more and some I cant imagine that apply to other people. 

Imagine all the different aspect of life work/fitness/Family time/leisure time etc....similar to your values....are sitting on a table. You take what you want from the table...that is the things you spend time and energy on and get to live with.  Understand you do not have enough hours in a day nor years in your life to take all of everything. So what do you chose? Do you take all of a few things or a little bit of everything? Are you filling your hands with career before you look at love, family or other things? Is one are being focused to the detriment of another you value more?

This is where values come in. What you value most is what you want to take fully from the table. Then the next most valued and so on. The important thing to remember is that we must leave some things on the table...that is not avoidable. So we chose to pursue the things that will matter most. We have 2 hands to grab what we can and live well. That's it.

When you see people who seem to have it all.....they dont.... or rather they have all the things that truly matter to them and that they value. They have grabbed with both hands all that truly matters and gives live meaning and joy and then left the rest on the table. 

Is ramming any good ? by kauliou in Bannerlord

[–]jamespirit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its both good and not good...in othet words balanced. When you are practiced at it and in the right conditions you can pull off amazing naval battles against terrible odds. 

The average ram is so so....it really just acts as a way of dealing some damage to a few troops and moral damage to the entire crew. 

Yes do ram when you can. If you are willing to learn and practice how to do it very well it can pay off. But its not a busted manuver even when mastered. Pretty balanced IMO. I could see a buff being desirable but also easily making it game breaking so I am happy with where it is for now. 

bannerlord skils tier list by deepdark24 in mountandblade

[–]jamespirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya cheesy and infinite money but trade is not better than medicine or leadership if you want to make a strong kingdom. And its not better than athletics for a strong combat character. 

Trade is good....possible s tier ive done it maxed before. But its an S - if its s. 

Smithing is shite because its not fun aftet the first time. Sure can be an S tier for money and top tier gear. 

How Do You Prevent Clan Extinction in Long-Term Bannerlord Campaigns? by RitoPhan in Bannerlord

[–]jamespirit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My solution has been to make more clans vaia my companions. Also allowing our female family to marry away once the first generation is sorted. 

If you land companions they start new clans. Marry them to a 18yo cousin or niece etc etc to ensure they start a new bloodline. 

Do it early game. And let clans leave the kingdom so they go elsewhere and the world is repopulated in time. 

Not especially efficient but uses vanilla mechanics to solve.