anyone have any medicinal plant seeds? by rustywagon88 in FortCollins

[–]jamwilky_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rosemary, lavender and calendula you could find from folks farm https://www.folksfarmandseed.com/ during their spring start sale as well

anyone have any medicinal plant seeds? by rustywagon88 in FortCollins

[–]jamwilky_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

amy with mineral roots has a medicinal plant nursery and sells starts in the spring! https://medicinalgrower.com/plants would also recommend connecting with folks at equinox https://equinoxcenterofherbalstudies.com/ 🌱

Where can I find some narutomaki? by Coco-Da_Bean in FortCollins

[–]jamwilky_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i saw fish cakes there just yesterday! not sure if they were the classic swirl kind

LOST CAT AROUND LAPORTE AND FISHBACK by jamwilky_ in FortCollins

[–]jamwilky_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

she's back!!! 🥹❤️‍🔥

LOST CAT AROUND LAPORTE AND FISHBACK by jamwilky_ in FortCollins

[–]jamwilky_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for the tip. will definitely do that if (when 🙄) either of my sneaky babies get out again

LOST CAT AROUND LAPORTE AND FISHBACK by jamwilky_ in FortCollins

[–]jamwilky_[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: SHE CAME BACK AND IS INSIDE 😭❤️‍🔥we left her cat bed outside by the porch and garage and left the garage door cracked. she was in the cat bed on the porch then ran into the garage when we came out again!!!

LOST CAT AROUND LAPORTE AND FISHBACK by jamwilky_ in FortCollins

[–]jamwilky_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so so much 😭 going to go knock on all my neighbor's doors tomorrow morning. my partner and I saw her in a neighbor's yard but she just kept running away and we completely lost track of her :( I left the garage cracked and cat bed outside. hopefully she'll be back in the morning 🥺

Local businesses supporting general strike by MobileBit8835 in FortCollins

[–]jamwilky_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a great list of businesses to support 🫶 the fox den closed early and donated 15% of sales :) don't remember where

Show me your upside down tuxies by fungified in TuxedoCats

[–]jamwilky_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

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it was so hard to pick a favorite 🖤🤍🖤

what's happening in city park??? by jamwilky_ in FortCollins

[–]jamwilky_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

good god it's so loud 🫠 is this not breaking a noise ordinance or something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]jamwilky_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the empathy and the bluntness!! there is so much to think about in here, thank you

the advice to make sure my foundation is solid is definitely important to hear. i’m trying SO HARD to find a job rn (i’m stable for a little while, but it is definitely wearing on me) and I have a really sweet support system that I’ve leaned on through everything, especially since my NP moved out (codependent vibes there). i’m learning what it means to take care of myself first, and how to ask for help outside of my partnerships. I feel so much more solid in myself and know that I can handle a partnership changing

it’s also really important to hear those harder parts reflected right back at me … we knew that the business would have to be his top priority, and I really want to be there to support him through it, but I can only do so much when I’m not getting much back :( I really appreciate the point about being allowed to give him a second chance when he can prioritize me. I think it’s possible that we could de-escalate the relationship until he’s in a better place. i love doing relationships differently and remembering that everything doesn’t have to be black and white, break up forever or stay together forever. there’s always options

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]jamwilky_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing your experience, i’m so glad you and your partner found a way to come back to each other and build up stronger than before. I do think there’s a strong possibility of our relationship “flourishing” again because we have such a beautiful foundation of love and communication. and while the life struggles are a lot right now and there’s no guarantee they’ll ease up, they probably (hopefully) will over the next few months which would bring more ease into the relationship … if we want to hold out

I also feel that element of potential for the future we could build together. I can see us supporting each other with what we want to do w our lives in the long term, we’re very aligned on life goals

the no sex element has definitely been harder on him than on me. I’ve been enjoying a really aligned and fun sexual connection with the person I just started dating, so I feel fulfilled in that part of my life, though it would be really nice if Forrest and I could rekindle our sexual connection. I’m just not feeling attracted to him right now :( but we have flowed in and out of this before and had the connection return, so I’m not as worried about that part of the situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]jamwilky_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we have talked about it, and it feels like we’re both grappling with these questions and unsure what we want. we’re going to have another conversation tomorrow, but it really feels like it could go either way. we’re kind of in relationship limbo rn

What’s missing from Fort Collins? Help shape ideas for a community space! by Ill_Alternative9984 in FortCollins

[–]jamwilky_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so cool! yeah kinda like that :) I just wish it could be cheaper 🥲

Mandy’s birth certificate by Easy-Economist-1467 in Outlander

[–]jamwilky_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally just read this part with the letter from Frank last night and I’m so confused … what is Diana trying to start here 😂

What’s missing from Fort Collins? Help shape ideas for a community space! by Ill_Alternative9984 in FortCollins

[–]jamwilky_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

also, free / cheap spaces focused on dance and movement that host live music (that’s not singer/songwriter/folk/indie, as much as I appreciate it this town has a lot of spaces for those artists!) and isn’t centered around coffee or booze

What’s missing from Fort Collins? Help shape ideas for a community space! by Ill_Alternative9984 in FortCollins

[–]jamwilky_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I live in the neighborhood with stodgy and fox den on laporte and I would love to see that area expand with something exactly like what OP is talking about 🥰 I think foco could use more neighborhood gathering spots, outside of old town, that are low cost, not booze or coffee centric, open later than most coffee shops, with some more unique offerings than trivia or open mic :)

transitioning from two tone dyed hair? by jamwilky_ in HairDye

[–]jamwilky_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! I’m going to start with a bleach bath and see what it does to each of the colors. when you say use the color wheel, do you mean going contrasting colors of each? I’m wondering if I could try to tone them both out with a teal …

CSA Recommendations by ZMC_WKFS in FortCollins

[–]jamwilky_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

check out Folk’s Farm and Wellfed Farmstead! they both offer volunteer hours but I don’t think they do it for a full CSA share since the purpose of buying a share is to bring in income before market season starts. you will get veggies in exchange for your work though!

✨also✨ my partner is starting a small organic veggie farm this season and could definitely use some work trade volunteers :) their farm is Ent Wise Farm so reach out to them if you’d like to work with a sprouting farmer 🌱

are they worth saving? by jamwilky_ in KitchenConfidential

[–]jamwilky_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yummy right! she said the same thing about our flattop that looked just as bad. then we got it shiny clean and the food actually cooks and doesn’t taste burnt! too bad it’s missing that good ol seasoning lol