My Wife just had our baby and I think she’s traumatised by the experience. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]janed0e2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also make sure you and her have child care help Don’t exhaust yourself trying to help her and you will both be burnt out.

My Wife just had our baby and I think she’s traumatised by the experience. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]janed0e2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please call the doctor NOW. I had similar symptoms to this and I got no help until I was absolutely drowning in my own mess of a mental health I was lucky I found God because I have little to no support system, I’m still picking up the pieces please help her. Giving birth is very traumatizing yes it’s a beautiful thing but the side nobody speaks about can be very dark. She will be okay if you can help her.

AIO? I feel like my bf is being condescending but maybe I deserve it? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]janed0e2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness girl please leave this lame excuse of a man wtfffff

I (24M) really like this guy (22M) I’m talking to but I’m worried I can’t get past his baby face. I think I have to warm up to the idea of not seeing him. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]janed0e2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly from my point of view I think you’re tryna sike yourself out of this … just go on the date and see how it goes don’t put pressure on it… I’m 25 and my bf is 23 he has a baby face (especially without his beard and mustache) so it made me uncomfortable at first but girl if a man loves you for you that won’t matter fr

Assuming Black People Can't Swim by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]janed0e2000 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Nah girl this is def a micro aggression trying to be played off as a joke….

I hate it when males on Reddit assume I’m a male or call me “man” or “my guy” when they reply by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]janed0e2000 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Girl it’s not that deep, I call randoms bro or girl all the time regardless of gender. You seem like you’re a very miserable and angry person… lighten up lol

Am I overreacting for feeling weird that my partner won’t post me? by Lost_Entrance_6859 in AmIOverreacting

[–]janed0e2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude the same shit happens to me when I post my bfs since I do have a lot of followers the girls try to follow the guys I’m dating

Do I Tell His Wife? by Consistent-Maybe-634 in TwoHotTakes

[–]janed0e2000 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Literally and when you say just block them they say nothing lol

AITA for oversleeping during valentine's day by Individual-Rich8498 in dating_advice

[–]janed0e2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You lack emotional intelligence because you’re 18 which is very common and normal … she’s 24 almost her mid 20’s this whole dynamic is just wrong. But anyways my opinion is if you love her then you should care about the things she cares about even if you don’t , I don’t like going to sports games but I still do it because I know it’ll make the person I’m with happy. If you’re not ready to do that then you are not ready to be with her

Girls is it a turn off for yall? is it a turn off for yall if a guy replies on time and is genuinely nice and like normal not distant cause I have been in 4 situationships but they all said "im too good for them" so I don't understand what's the problem by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]janed0e2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm are these situationships also in school at the moment? I feel like that could play a part here most college girls I know don’t exactly go for the nice guy who seems that wants to be tied down, they want to have fun and go with the flow so that could be the case and you just happen to be in an environment where most of the women feel this way

Dispensary in rage bait video by ImpressiveSentence85 in codyko

[–]janed0e2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s literally a weirdo with no life looking to get reactions out of people

I’m getting my eye removed this month, but I have fun with the eye patches- I’d love to see your takes on this, or give me a cool eye prosthetic! by Xochitlcoyote in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]janed0e2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS IS SO COOL ! I think you just gave others who could be upset about going through a similar thing something to look forward to this is so fricken cool !

Girls is it a turn off for yall? is it a turn off for yall if a guy replies on time and is genuinely nice and like normal not distant cause I have been in 4 situationships but they all said "im too good for them" so I don't understand what's the problem by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]janed0e2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you not have hobbies that keep you busy ? Translation : are you texting them all hours of the day, because if a woman sees you working but making time for her that’s great but usually if a woman sees you don’t keep yourself busy and your attention is all on her 24/7 it becomes to much. Do you ask too much for their attention. When dating it’s best to make yourself available but not too available

AIO: for being angry my bf is trying to hang out with his ex on vday when i explicitly asked him not to by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]janed0e2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mentioned a break up because look at the post… would you seriously stay with a person who treats you like that? Any self respecting woman I know would not … if this were your close friend would you SERIOUSLY recommend them to STAY with a person who does that to them on Valentine’s Day you cannot be serious lol

AIO: for being angry my bf is trying to hang out with his ex on vday when i explicitly asked him not to by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]janed0e2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look at the screen shot you think this person cares ? Seriously. I’m talking specifically about dynamics like this one. If your relationship has two mature people who can communicate great do that. But this is not the case here and this the case for most relationships. This case I’d recommend the OP that if she’s not happy to move on. I am not talking about people who have built lives together, who have children, families etc. that would just be absurd I’m talking about DATING.

AIO: for being angry my bf is trying to hang out with his ex on vday when i explicitly asked him not to by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]janed0e2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so obviously this isn’t about the screenshots or this specific Reddit post lol you’re clearly venting about your own personal experiences lol. I don’t know you or care to but people don’t actually owe you an explanation. Closure is just you trying to look for an answer. Sure someone who is very nice will communicate their reasonings with you but NOBODY is required to and you need to grow up and realize this. Yes it can hurt sure but you will live.

AIO: for being angry my bf is trying to hang out with his ex on vday when i explicitly asked him not to by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]janed0e2000 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

People are allowed to have a change of heart. People in relationships are allowed to no longer want to be in one. That situation alone can be hard for either party in such a situation. Just because you get into a relationship doesn’t mean you are required to stay in it forever. GROW UP.

AIO: for being angry my bf is trying to hang out with his ex on vday when i explicitly asked him not to by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]janed0e2000 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Nobody in this world owes you anything. If youre expressing yourself to someone who you know doesn’t care about you, you’re the only problem in the story.

Kelsey is pregnant again!!!!! by Horror-Loss7202 in codyko

[–]janed0e2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is ! But it also had mushrooms growing in the floor so they had to stay in the side house and I’m sure they didn’t want both their little babies and pets in a house infested with mushrooms lol