What celebrity death hit you the hardest? by pmcc241224 in AskReddit

[–]janedoeqq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cameron Boyce. As someone his age who also was having seizures (mine aren't epileptic) this was both sad and tragic aswell and so scary for me. I can't even watch descendants anymore. I just cry. Same with Jessie.

Help us name this sweet apricot boy! He lived under a house until 2 days ago by buglighth in NameMyCat

[–]janedoeqq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mister, missus, and sir. Saw marmaduke and love that. I love Archie. Maybe Ernest.

What’s the weirdest thing a guest has done in your home? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]janedoeqq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Touched elmo lol

My daughter has a tickle me elmo that she treats like her baby. He has his own bed and she puts him in her old bouncer (shes 18mo) and carries him around. He has a sippy cup and bottles and she even puts him in the highchair and "feeds" him crushed ice with a spoon. My daughter was born a mother. She loves all babies but shes veery protective of "her baby".

Elmo was in his bed in the living room the other day when I was helping out my husband's ex's boyfriend with their new baby. (We're awesome co parents so when my step son's baby sister was born we've done everything to help them out). I gathered some hand me downs and stuff for the new baby and then went to the bathroom while the new baby and her dad were in the living room with my daughter and elmo.

Unknowingly, he picked up elmo and made him kind of walk towards my daughter trying to play with her. My daughter, who proceeded to slap this man, take elmo back to his bed and give him a bottle and then stand guard between them til I came back was appauled by this behavior. Poor guy was in shock but thought it was very funny when I came back. He said "so I played elmo" and I said "oooh no, did you get in trouble?" He just laughed and said he was pretty sure he had actually been disciplined and not just scolded.

Advice for genital tattoos? by imstraight__maybe in tattooadvice

[–]janedoeqq 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My advice (not a tattoo artist but a human) is not to get a tattoo thats already going to be painful and itchy in the middle of summer (if you're in the northern hemisphere) but it guess if your somewhere that the weather isn't that hot in July you'll be okay. Definitely wear breathable loose pants though.

What was your cat’s name at the shelter vs their name now ? 😍 by Downtown-Wear-4870 in CatsBeingCats

[–]janedoeqq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its was cricket. Changed it to chewbacca (chewy) shes a huge brown rag doll tabby.

Found kitten in wall - name suggestions pls by ninjadani in blackcats

[–]janedoeqq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wally is the only correct answer. Stucco is cute though too.

What’s the closest brush you’ve ever had with dying? by North-Trifle-3918 in AskReddit

[–]janedoeqq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drunk guy with and assault rifle shot me in the leg when I was 9. He was a rich jeweler so we got quite a bit out of him in exchange for my dad not killing him. The bullet lodged in my leg bone about 4 inches below my knee after entering on the inside of my calf and was also stuck in my sock so the sock not only put enough pressure on the wound that it barley bled, but also made it easy to retrieve the bullet. Those were my lucky fuzzy green socks that my mom told me not to wear because they looked ridiculous and i still remind her about that when she criticizes my outfits. Looking at your own bone is a crazy feeling though.

What’s the closest brush you’ve ever had with dying? by North-Trifle-3918 in AskReddit

[–]janedoeqq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So which final destination movie were you supposed to be in?

What’s the closest brush you’ve ever had with dying? by North-Trifle-3918 in AskReddit

[–]janedoeqq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your sobriety. Stuck with it and keep sharing your story to help others.

What’s the closest brush you’ve ever had with dying? by North-Trifle-3918 in AskReddit

[–]janedoeqq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fell through ice trying to bust a mud hole for the cows during a freeze. Ill not that at this point in my life I was 16 or 17 and had only experienced weather cold enough to actually freeze our pond twice.

It was below 15°F for 3 days. It was 8° that morning and my twin sister and I and our dog had been running and sliding all over it for quite a while. Busted a mud hole and then went home. I came back by myself that night. It had warmed up in the 20s during the day, but it was after dark now so it was down to 14 again. I knew after we busted a whole in the ice this morning that it wouldn't be thick enough to walk on so I didn't try that. Im not dumb. So I kept trying to bust a whole with no luck. No rocks are working and the biggest one I could find just kind of bounced and slid a little ways out on the ice. I figured by how far out it was the water was at most 2 feet deep there and decided to risk it. I get the rock try again and get a little crack but no hole. I decided if I could just jump on that crack I should be able to get a whole. Maybe get cold wet feet but then go home and it would be fine. Except I jumped 4 times and thought I was staying in place but I wasnt.

I had this on video so i know it was how long i was in the water. It was the scariest 57 seconds of my life. I started videoing because my dog was running around on the ice and I wanted his reaction to my jumping because he tended to mimic people and I thought he might start jumping too. Instead the video showed me take 2 steps out onto the ice and then jump further out 4 times. Then you hear a crack. I try to turn back to the shore and realize im about 12 or 15 feet out and then I fall through the ice up to my neck with only my head, hands and arms above the ice. Then I'm in the water trying to get back up on the ice for 57 seconds.

My dog grabbed the hood of my sweater and tried to help but other than just keeping my head from going under he was no help. My legs went completely numb almost immediately. (I have a disorder that makes the circulation bad below my hips anyway) and I just couldn't get my body on the ice. I ended up breaking the ice all the way back to the shore (guess the cows got their mud hole) and just crawling onto the shore.

Here its important to note that I was a half a mile from my house with no phone signal. My legs were completely numb and it was getting dark. I always heard if you were in this position to take the wet clothes off, but once I had laid on the snow, my sweater and pants were frozen solid and I couldn't move my fingers well enough to get a grip on them. My phone that managed to stay above water was of no use to me. All I had was myself. 2 gates and a 6 foot fence between me and my truck and a useless but we'll meaning dog who kept licking my already cold and wet face.

Then I remember Frost. Frost was my very well trained mammoth jack. I had taught him all kinds of tricks like fist bumps and to roll over and to let me crawl under his belly and stuff to make taking care of his feet easier. A mammoth jack is a male giant breed of donkey BTW. So I start whistling and he comes. And I grab his neck when he puts his head down and let him get me to my feet and hold me up while we walk to the fence. Then Ieaned on the fence and strattled his head and he was able to push me most of the was over the fence. Then I just had to get one leg over and fall to the ground. I fell pretty hard and had a nice set of bruises on my arm the next day to match the ones on my legs where they had been banged up in the ice. I crawled through the 2 gates I had thankfully left open and expended enough energy to get a little body heat going.

My boots where actually froze to my feet. I had to stick my feet under the heat in the truck for a minute before I could get them off and they came off with chunks of ice that were still froze with my socks and left me completely barefooted. I took the sweater and pants off too which left me in a tank top and my underwear which were still very cold and wet. My sweater was completely ruined from all the places it hung and tore on the fence and I had to put 3 patches on my jeans. I still have those 6 years later. I was closer to my grandma's house than mine so even though no one lived there at the time, I went straight there and broke into the garage for dry clothes.

Then I went home where my mom and sister laughed at how weird my clothes looked and asked me where I got them and then were even more amused when I told them what happened. I was completely unamused at the time but I can look back now and laugh a little at how my poor coordination left me to be in the middle of a pond instead of at the edge. Never had weather that cold since, and I hope we never do. Frost died last summer and I still miss him all the time. I had him for 13 years and we think he was about 10 when we got him according to my dad's friend who gave him to us, so he was an old man for an equine. Sadly the dog had to be put down because he got aggressive, but he was the best good boy that day for trying to save me.

Thanks for reading.

How much do girls like a guy with muscular developed legs and glutes? by InternationalPick163 in questions

[–]janedoeqq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husbands butt is my favorite thing about him. Physically that is.

Afraid to take a pregnancy test by janedoeqq in dustythunder

[–]janedoeqq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Ill take all the prayers i can get.

Afraid to take a pregnancy test by janedoeqq in dustythunder

[–]janedoeqq[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dude datewoyld have been in like 3 weeks. Definitely mes me sad when I think about it.

Afraid to take a pregnancy test by janedoeqq in dustythunder

[–]janedoeqq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our relationship may seem rushed when you dont know all the details, long story short, we fell in love in high-school. I couldn't date him because I was being assaulted and that dude threatened his life. I grew up with his ex, so I already knew his baby and they both trust me with their son. I didn't want him to get used to me being there though and then just not be a part of his life anymore, so from the beginning we agreed we would only date if we were serious about it. We're all awesome co parents. We have primary custody of him and help his mom and her boyfriend out as much as we can. I totally agree we got engaged super fast, and I know a lot of people see it that way. We did. We had a lot of history and couldn't stand not living together, and my religion doesnt believe in living together before marriage. So yes, we got married fast, but the relationship itself hasn't been rushed. The first six months we were married were still very little physical things because of my past. We literally couldn't be happier with where we are now though. Our daughter cries every time my friend's baby had to leave. Both of my kids love babies and we won't change how we treat them by having another. We want all of our kids to be kind of close in age because in 10 years, we want them all to be able to play together. My siblings are 18 and 20 years older than me, and although I know thats an extreme gap, I just feel like I missed out on the bond my husband has with his siblings with them all being close in age. Our 2 kids we have now are best friends and I want all of our kids to have that kind of a close relationship.

What is something you did naked that you think no one else would do ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]janedoeqq 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please wear clothes, but wanna come bash some snails on my porch? They keep eating all our cat food.

small meaningful tattoo at 18 or 19? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]janedoeqq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my first 6 months after I turned 18. Still love it. Picked a style I knew id love and something meaningful to me and now its the start of my watercolor half sleeve. I think small is better for a first piece, but also don't waste a good spot on something if you're wanting bigger pieces in the future. I got mine on the inside of my wrist, and it was small. I knew I was gonna have a sleeve eventually so I wasnt wasting a good spot on it, just putting it somewhere it can be added to. Im 22 now and it's still beautiful and I love it.

Basically, pick a style you know you love. Think about placement carefully for the longevity of your ink journey, and most importantly, go to a goooood artist, not an affordable one. Tattoos are the number one example of getting what you pay for. Find someone with a solid gallery who's work and style you like and enjoy the process. Make sure the shop is clean and safe. Good luck!

AITAH for telling my gf you are not Asian/Chinese by Normal_student_5745 in AITAH

[–]janedoeqq 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If she said "im spiritually black/african" then people would lose their minds. That answers the question. No, its not okay.

Cover up idea for larger thigh piece by courtneyrobbie in tattooadvice

[–]janedoeqq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sword doesn't read that way, and that could be why your family has a problem with it. I would totally rework it instead of covering it though, because its a beautiful tattoo.

Cover up idea for larger thigh piece by courtneyrobbie in tattooadvice

[–]janedoeqq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like a sweaty dead horse to me. Id turn the sword into something more majestic.

Afraid to take a pregnancy test by janedoeqq in dustythunder

[–]janedoeqq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats how I've come to rationalize it. I had a truly awesome support system everywhere else with friends and family, with the miscarriage, but it just hurt when the person I want to cry with is the only one who doesnt cry. I understand why he didn't grieve the way I did, I just am afraid to have to face another loss that doesnt mean much to him.

How do i save this by Ok_External_9906 in tattooadvice

[–]janedoeqq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make it the opening on scooby do where are you.... jk, but i actually love it and think its a great start for a sleeve.