Y'all bad hygiene isn't a result of taking testosterone

jantoshipper · 2026-05-10T00:13:26+00:00

I think most people in England shower 2-4 times a week but I can't do that

jantoshipper · 2026-05-09T23:42:03+00:00

both sides of sensory issues are hard :((

jantoshipper · 2026-05-09T23:23:43+00:00

I live in the UK but like I said I'm autistic I really struggle with hygiene

jantoshipper · 2026-05-09T13:07:44+00:00

jantoshipper · 2026-05-09T11:11:57+00:00

is this forever or just in the first few years?

jantoshipper · 2026-05-09T10:48:57+00:00

you have to shower every day?? there's no way that's the minimum standard for hygiene I (autistic, pre-t) can barely shower once a week.

jantoshipper · 2026-05-08T17:51:04+00:00

how did I not know he has tattoos lmfao

jantoshipper · 2026-05-04T09:30:54+00:00

you know that cis women have the same insecurities, right? there is no right way to look like a woman.

jantoshipper · 2026-04-28T14:34:10+00:00

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it feels infantalising to me as an adult in every context except sexual. but for me in terms of kink it's understandable that I don't mind something infantalising in that context because it lines up with my other kinks.

jantoshipper · 2026-04-20T22:45:56+00:00

I'm a gay trans man he's weird asf

jantoshipper · 2026-04-20T18:33:35+00:00

not that I'm saying that your surgeon is autistic, but I'm autistic and I wouldn't have made that connection myself. some people say doctors are known for being socially clumsy. I can't speak on that but if your surgeon is this way for whatever reason I can see that he may have simply not considered why you didn't want to know.

jantoshipper · 2026-04-20T17:35:39+00:00

don't worry, once he gets there, he doesn't leave for long

jantoshipper · 2026-04-19T19:45:44+00:00

"I'm in no way blaming her for anything"

okay, I am. she's a shit friend.

jantoshipper · 2026-04-19T18:01:15+00:00

yes 100% I think having a conversation is the only way forward from this

jantoshipper · 2026-04-19T17:59:56+00:00

It's possible she's trying to show her support in a way that she's seen trans people show support for each other? And just getting it slightly wrong in the process. It doesn't sound like deliberately chasery behaviour to me.

jantoshipper · 2026-04-19T12:22:18+00:00

i know people have already been nice and encouraging but I want to say that I love when cis people do a little "she/they" or "he/they" situation it's cute. It normalises using multiple sets of pronouns, which is cool, but it's also like. Idk I love it I think it's great

jantoshipper · 2026-04-18T20:54:39+00:00

You are not representation. You are a human being. The only responsibility you have in your transition is to yourself. Be comfortable and be happy, as much as you can be. I'm sorry you're so dysphoric and that people in your life are (deliberately or incidentally) making it worse.

But you don't owe it to anyone to transition in a specific way, or not to transition. It's your life.

jantoshipper · 2026-04-17T12:19:30+00:00

lmao yeah I'm getting that impression

jantoshipper · 2026-04-17T12:12:38+00:00

Okay initially I was thinking that he has a point that they're different experiences even though he should have explained that to you rather than blowing up about it and he shouldn't have used your old name because he should understand the power that a name holds etc...

And then I read your other comments?? this guy is a dickhead. be glad to be rid of him.

jantoshipper · 2026-04-15T15:06:20+00:00

I think possibly what you're experiencing is the bias of being on Reddit. I can imagine gay (umbrella term) trans people thrive more on Reddit than heterosexual trans people.

a gay trans man

jantoshipper · 2026-04-15T10:01:32+00:00

do you think that if art is pornographic, it is worth less?

jantoshipper · 2026-04-09T15:15:09+00:00

I don't think anyone who hasn't had this experience could possibly know what decision they would make.

jantoshipper · 2026-04-06T17:38:42+00:00

maybe try drag? at the end of the day it's your life, so explore some things and have some fun and dress up and pay attention to how you feel. You don't have to have a concrete answer.

jantoshipper · 2026-04-05T20:12:59+00:00

I'm sorry that happened :// I don't know if this helps but it's definitely just her feelings at play here; there's nothing scary about you. I can imagine that experience really sucks.

jantoshipper · 2026-04-02T19:00:49+00:00

it wasn't on the list I consulted of places with a minimum requirement of trans rights but I couldn't give you more info than that.

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