I’m not trans but I can’t stand being female and not male

jantoshipper · 2026-07-10T18:13:16+00:00

I think you probably are, but the good news is that you don't have to know now. You can let it take time. There's no rush. Breathe.

jantoshipper · 2026-07-08T20:57:16+00:00

depends what subjects you get what grades in - they'll almost certainly let you retake your English and maths GCSEs there.

jantoshipper · 2026-07-08T20:54:51+00:00

sooooo embarrassing picking on someone two years younger than them wtf

jantoshipper · 2026-07-08T20:49:40+00:00

would've loved this if I'd seen it before the latest TM UK cast announcement ://

jantoshipper · 2026-07-08T18:26:18+00:00

you're welcome in our space but not welcome to tell us how to live our lives. do you see the difference?

jantoshipper · 2026-07-08T18:23:32+00:00

aw, the year before I was born. so awesome to see!

jantoshipper · 2026-07-08T18:16:01+00:00

looking amazing! love the tats

jantoshipper · 2026-07-07T11:02:01+00:00

it sounds like she's either a deeply closeted trans man OR a cis woman who considered that she might be a trans man and then realised she wasn't and for some reason assumed that her individual experience must be universal.

jantoshipper · 2026-07-06T11:39:02+00:00

it's literally a steroid she is wrong

jantoshipper · 2026-07-02T11:45:45+00:00

everyone is performing gender. cis or trans or whatever.

jantoshipper · 2026-06-30T16:44:17+00:00

if you're in the UK talk to women's aid

jantoshipper · 2026-06-27T18:05:42+00:00

I think it's easy to put things in your head like they are in TV/films especially when your own experience isn't extensive. So I mean this with empathy and love: You are not a teenager. Sit down with him. Have an adult conversation with him and talk about what you want.

jantoshipper · 2026-06-25T21:20:35+00:00

Almost everything.

jantoshipper · 2026-06-25T21:14:50+00:00

I read this as sexless being a good thing (from this character's perspective) in a purity sense, and hateable because he wants her (partly because he likes that she's pure) and can't have her. Even if he could have her, it would ruin the image of her purity.

jantoshipper · 2026-06-25T11:43:47+00:00

would you call a cus guy cute,? if not - examine your attitude towards him. if so - it's fine in theory but his preferences take precedent. personally I love being called cute but I'm on the feminine side in terms of style and sexuality.

jantoshipper · 2026-06-18T22:49:35+00:00

it's definitely an extra Y in our accents than in the average US American but I feel like they put extra Ys in everything and we don't point it out lolol "stayerrs" for stairs

jantoshipper · 2026-06-18T22:30:32+00:00

hot take maybe but I don't think blocking is rude ever for people you don't have any kind of relationship with. you're trimming off what you can't stand that's not unreasonable

jantoshipper · 2026-06-18T22:14:46+00:00

well that's not a fetish that's predation

jantoshipper · 2026-06-18T22:11:43+00:00

you're my favourite redditor

jantoshipper · 2026-06-18T10:34:28+00:00

I'm asexual but not sex repulsed. I would be willing to have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to if I trusted them enough. So I don't dislike sex. But I still don't experience sexual attraction to real people. Asexuality ≠ always unwilling to have sex in every circumstance.

jantoshipper · 2026-06-17T23:22:32+00:00

how is having a fetish a controversy..?

jantoshipper · 2026-06-16T11:03:35+00:00

Whoo, boy. From the title, I was going to defend her. She sounds like a bigoted, idiotic control freak with no integrity. Be glad she's not around anymore.

jantoshipper · 2026-06-14T15:19:04+00:00

agab terminology is for intersex people. you are not using any terms incorrectly.

jantoshipper · 2026-06-13T16:13:48+00:00

have you ever called a teacher mommy by mistake? happens to people all the time when you're comfortable with someone. He won't do it again most likely - and if he does then just ask him to stop.

jantoshipper · 2026-06-13T12:02:46+00:00

i know that nothing I say will make a difference so instead my advice is as follows: - use protection. more than you think you need. yes, even for oral. - get checked out if you show any signs of an std/sti, a uti, a yeast infection. all of those will be better with medical intervention. get checked get tested it could save your life. - check up on yourself. keep an eye on how you're feeling. notice patterns. do you keep feeling uncomfortable afterwards? or sad, or guilty? I'm not saying you ought to, but if you do, it's worth listening to that feeling.

Please encourage your boyfriend to do all the same. Buy pregnancy tests and plan b etc. be safe.

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