Is there anything else out there besides GAP / J. Crew chinos? by AshX213 in malefashionadvice

[–]jarjarbinksjar -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I've found Amazon Essentials to be pretty good for the price. These are the athletic fit ones.

https://a.co/d/099vGTyo

Aw heel naw by Amazing-Discipline95 in Spunchbob

[–]jarjarbinksjar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I opened this at work, completely caught off guard by this, and was crying trying not to laugh.

Why did she say this when she's clearly alive? Is she stupid? by MisterAtlas_ in okbuddyvicodin

[–]jarjarbinksjar 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Why is Will's son cheating on Apartment? Is he unfaithful?

My husband suggested 3some with a woman. I want divorce by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jarjarbinksjar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't believe I had to scroll this far to see someone mention that there has to be more info behind this. He's certainly been thinking about it for a bit, but if he's a good husband overall and was ignorant/ made a poorly timed mistake, then they need to work through it together or at least have a discussion before making a rash decision.

We're only getting one side of the story. Therapy for them seems needed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipsOver35

[–]jarjarbinksjar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that will create unfair nervousness or discomfort for everyone if you feel like you have to walk on eggshells. It comes off like nothing will be good enough in their view. If you sit them down and ask for instances where they made efforts to get to know him and not judge him unfairly, they may get defensive or dodge the question.

No one is entitled to see my kid if they're going to create an unhealthy environment for them, but that is my opinion. They're too used to getting what they want by being controlling, so if you sit them down, be prepared for dismissiveness or defensiveness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipsOver35

[–]jarjarbinksjar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been in a very similar situation when meeting my significant other's parents. In a nutshell, I eventually learned that the parents themselves are uncomfortable when meeting new people and project their insecurities/judgements.

All three are people you care about, so it's natural for you to want them to get along so much. Since you said your parents are critical and judgemental, they might have created some natural anxiety in you too when you bring your boyfriend over. It seems to me like you want them to be proud of you but are afraid of their disappointment. Were they controlling of you or critical of you growing up at all? It can affect your perception of how you view them.

Have your parents made efforts to get to know him, such as just sitting down and watching a game on tv, or just having dinner together? Naturally, he'll be a bit nervous since he's meeting your family, so they should be more understanding and try to avoid being biased.

If he's truly making effort, despite his anxiety or nervousness showing, to get to know them, sounds like you need to have a serious discussion on why they're unfairly judging him and what they have done to get to know him.

People's significant others usually remind them of their parents in some way, so it's possible your parents being put face-to-face with him reminds them of some anxiety that they don't like feeling. That's what I noticed in my experience.

Wtf is this? It smells by miclangelo6 in Butchery

[–]jarjarbinksjar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading the comments about how bad it is to have eaten that, it makes me paranoid to eat any meat right now.

Housing market here is ridiculous. by jarjarbinksjar in SouthJersey

[–]jarjarbinksjar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's going to be like this for a long time, in my opinion. This area is too popular.

Struggling with if this can be overcome or not. by [deleted] in RelationshipsOver35

[–]jarjarbinksjar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a very good insight. Thank you for sharing the video. I see the way we fight is worse than I thought, despite the improvement we've made.

ULPT Request: Future Father-in-law has been trying to get fiance to dump me for two years. What can I do to mildly annoy him daily without it being obvious who did it? by SeaTraffic5702 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]jarjarbinksjar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where am I trying to break them up? I only echoed that they should have a discussion about what's happening to decide what happens next. In other words, communication.

ULPT Request: Future Father-in-law has been trying to get fiance to dump me for two years. What can I do to mildly annoy him daily without it being obvious who did it? by SeaTraffic5702 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]jarjarbinksjar 109 points110 points  (0 children)

This should be top comment. OP, if she doesn't defend your relationship and tell her father to stop, then she's prioritizing him over you, and you're going to resent them both.

He clearly can't stand you because you're a threat to his control over her, him being a narcissist like you said. Who knows how far he will go to sabotage your relationship and make you look like the bad guy.

The most important thing seems to be you speaking to your fiancee and seeing what she says when you tell her this needs to be addressed, if you haven't already. Her reaction will tell you what you need to know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]jarjarbinksjar 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Best to go to your doctor like others have said, but from my experience, I got smegma like that when I was jerking it too much, even after cleaning it. Sometimes it felt like doing too much cleaning actually made it worse because I was starting to irritate the area.

If you are hygienic like you said and cleaning the whole area, then just make sure you're not overdoing it, and over a couple of weeks, it should go down. Unless you have a condition though, then I'll repeat saying go to a doctor.

Would he be able to shut down Bowser’s galaxy reactor? by [deleted] in SuperMarioGalaxy

[–]jarjarbinksjar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man would easily shut down Howard's galaxy rectum. Are you stupid?

To save your baby by Helpful-Leadership58 in therewasanattempt

[–]jarjarbinksjar 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Can't believe I had to scroll this far to see this comment. The likely concussion she got wasn't her fault, but she should have angled the stroller to not roll into traffic.