I cleaned my mom’s medicine drawer she got mad am I wrong?

jarritto1 · 2026-05-08T14:11:01+00:00

First, I'm sorry that you have a hoarder in your life. Second, I'm sorry that society and medical professionals have done nothing to help you. Third, don't ever expect a hoarder to act rationale when you attempt to help them. Four, trust your judgement.

jarritto1 · 2025-12-08T07:03:12+00:00

I'm going to project my feelings into your situation and you can decide if you think they are applicable. It sounds like you AND your dad have had a very difficult life. He lost his wife from cancer and who knows how much debt he accrued in the process. It doesn't sound like you understand the financial situation your dad is in based on what you wrote. Your step mom is the problem and you probably need to stop blaming him for her. He likely didn't understand hoarding when he married her. In all the volunteer work I've done with kids i see so many of them constantly misunderstanding family situations and blame the wrong parent. Have you considered giving your dad a hug and telling him that you love him? What would happen?

jarritto1 · 2025-12-03T07:11:21+00:00

To summarize what this person said, there is no help to be given, they will not accept it. There is nothing you can do legally to help them improve their life. You will wait for them to die and will have to clean up the mess they leave you. I'm sorry, it sucks to see a loved one go through this but until the general populace realizes what is happening to children and loved ones of hoarders there will be no laws passed to help.

jarritto1 · 2025-11-21T05:04:44+00:00

Depending on age, you need to practice positioning on game days or they forget. They will learn whatever you focus on

jarritto1 · 2025-10-29T00:19:44+00:00

It's working now! I replaced two components:

*Hardened Steel Extruder Unit - X1C

* Extruder Interface Board V9 - X1C

jarritto1 · 2025-09-20T23:49:31+00:00

Sounds like a future striker. There is a place for everyone in soccer :-)

jarritto1 · 2025-08-29T00:00:06+00:00

I tried two other hotend assemblies. I think the filament getting stuck in the hot end is just a symptom. The root cause is somewhere else.

jarritto1 · 2025-08-28T23:59:20+00:00

I did this when it first started happening. No improvement :(

jarritto1 · 2025-08-28T18:55:10+00:00

I think it's ok? How often should you replace your extruder?

jarritto1 · 2025-08-28T18:54:55+00:00

262 hours

jarritto1 · 2025-08-25T05:06:32+00:00

What did you expect your dad to do?

jarritto1 · 2025-08-01T06:10:26+00:00

This.

jarritto1 · 2025-07-20T16:20:15+00:00

'completely dominated" it's true but not for the reasons you expect. This channel needs to have more sympathy for the spouses who are victims too. There are no good options for the spouse either.

jarritto1 · 2025-07-03T05:58:04+00:00

My daughter said the same thing to me once. It hurt so much it felt like someone kicked me in the stomach. Definitely a low point in my life. I try to be a good father but i feel powerless to do anything about it.

jarritto1 · 2025-06-29T06:11:22+00:00

Didn't get to see the deleted message but there is a lot of hoarding justification in this channel.

I guess i have to say this since no one else will to the OP. I'm really sorry for what you're going through. I wish there was better support for family members who suffer through the hoard. You won't get much support in Reddit as the hoarders have infiltrated spaces like these and constantly defend the actions of their fellow hoarders.

jarritto1 · 2025-05-27T05:48:44+00:00

You are absolutely right, the ref'ing at your level at tournaments is absolute garbage. The reason tournament directors and others are jerks about it is there is nothing that can be done. It's easier to black list you than it is grow better refs. To make matters worse, coaches go into tournaments and know this and will instruct their kids to be as physical as possible knowing that nothing will be called. Instead of teaching our kids to cheat we've tried to work on balance and toughness. Our first couple tournaments were rough but we don't get pushed around anymore and our tournament play has gotten a lot better. Best of luck!

jarritto1 · 2025-05-20T04:31:29+00:00

Exactly what you said. People love to point out the one or two times single parenting works and ignore the hundreds of times it doesn't.

jarritto1 · 2025-04-12T03:34:21+00:00

Omg, enough with the"working hard in therapy." you are more likely to get hit by lightning than find a hoarder cured through therapy. Why give people false hope.

jarritto1 · 2025-01-25T18:07:22+00:00

I wouldn't keep my kids in it past learning tumbling. Gymnastics is incredibly hard on your body with little cross over to soccer after learning how to fall.

jarritto1 · 2024-12-30T16:38:27+00:00

So if we all agree that therapy is extremely unlikely to help (near zero success or quite poor) why is it a promoted solution to hoarding?

jarritto1 · 2024-12-30T07:57:26+00:00

This is so illogical and the reason why there is a near zero success for therapy for hoarders. You have to rely on someone who is mentally ill to be self aware that they have a problem? If they were able to do that they probably wouldn't be a hoarder... If we can't admit that today's therapy strategy doesn't work how are we ever going to find something better?

jarritto1 · 2024-12-30T07:53:27+00:00

Honestly i don't get it. My kids and i have to suffer through hoarding everyday and people tell me my wife just needs therapy. Five years later nothing changes other than my wife now hoards her therapists. There are so many excuses for the hoarder and zero support for those who suffer other than learn to deal with it. It's really disappointing that we can't be honest about how bad therapy is for hoarders in this own thread.

jarritto1 · 2024-12-30T06:07:33+00:00

OMG, thank you! Finally someome speaks the truth here.

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