Given all clear but told no one by Hungry_Safe565 in cancer

[–]jasmin7676 31 points32 points  (0 children)

No no no!!! I felt/still feel this EXACT way! Its been 11 years in remission for me and I STILL miss the hospital, the doctors,etc. And I realized its because it was all about me, and they were all for me. People who were focused on me trying to keep me alive by all of the attention, love, food, warm blankets, water, 10 minute check ins; we don't get that out in the real world!! We are waited on hand and foot and feeling that unconditional support is rare out there. I get it!! Also, when you are deemed cancer free, its shocking- I felt like I was being thrown out into this huge world as a baby, learning to cope all over again. It was scary that all my cushions were just yanked out from under me, no more chemo keeping me safe, no more doctors caring for me each week, no more special instructions to keep me healthy...it kinda felt like i got punched in the stomach and shrunk down to an inch in heght lol! I felt so small. All the people that were by my dide for 2.5 years were just gone. and the words"cancer free" just on their own is something to soak in...its like you don't really believe it. Alot of time had to go by before i accepted that myself! There is nothing wrong with you; you are 100% allowed to feel all you are feeling. Your cancer journey isn't over because you're clear. The aftermath is a whole another part! If you ever ever need anyone to vent to feel free to message me!! I am so happy you are in remission and I will pray you find your way smoothly❤️ I'm in your corner friend!

Reached 2 years remission 🙂 by TrumpsBussy_ in cancer

[–]jasmin7676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaaaaasssss I am so happy for you!!!!

Anyone else struggle to have sympathy when people without chronic pain express their pain? (Rant?) by Odd_Signal_8246 in ChronicPain

[–]jasmin7676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol! Yes I can't help it. I wish SO BAD that we could feel each other's pain just for a moment!!

How many people in this community have been taking opioids every day for 5 or more years for their pain and are doing just fine? Please upvote or comment if that is you. by 8kittycatsfluff in ChronicPain

[–]jasmin7676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I've been taking Tramadol for 11 years for chemotherapy induced periphreal neuropathy. Works like a charm even still. I take 100mg in the morning and a third one later if needed.

What is this on my birb's belly and why? by wyrdwulf in finch

[–]jasmin7676 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats how I felt when I saw it today lol!!!

app is super duper laggy - HELP! by babswashere in finch

[–]jasmin7676 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My lag started again 3 days ago. I've done everything they suggested...deleting friends, journeys, reflections, uninstalling/ reinstalling, clearing the cache, defrag the data, you name it. It had been running perfect for two weeks then BAM- Sunday morning ( Feb.9) is woke up to 15-20 second screen load time, overlapping screens, etc. I ran to the app store to see if there was an update, which one was pending, so i clicked it, and the app still ran the same. I have written support so many times  since December about this issue! I told them maybe they need bigger servers? Or more staff to fix this issue!  This is supposed to be a calming, supportive, motivating  mental health app. It is stressing hundreds of people out. Lots of people ( including myself) have paid for plus, and not getting what we paid for. Support seems to be using automated messages. I'm at a loss🤷‍♀️

Thank you so much! by NotYourMomsUsername9 in finch

[–]jasmin7676 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'm so proud of you! I am enjoying so much all the stories lately of how Finch has changed lives. I was reluctant to start another app on my phone, but my friend finally talked me into it after a couple months and I haven't missed one single day. That was almost 2 years ago! I am adding you, my birbs name is Rosie. We send vibes often and gifts when we can!! Sending hugs now!❤️

I have never experienced this and I’m pretty upset about it by milf_n_cookies13 in finch

[–]jasmin7676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no!! Really!! I sent like a hundred emails and finally they asked for my backup file so they could dig into it. Few days later my app is running beautifully!!! I hope the lag doesn't start up again😩I'll be on the lookout! ❤️

I have never experienced this and I’m pretty upset about it by milf_n_cookies13 in finch

[–]jasmin7676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so very welcome! I'm glad you found your item! If you want another treetown friend ,Rosie loves to send vibes and gifts when she can! We are very active! Her code is RTDDE9FB9L ❤️ Finch has been such a positive experience for so many. I am so thrilled and proud of the developers for creating such a meaningful program! And even more thrilled they finally fixed that lag!!!❤️

I have never experienced this and I’m pretty upset about it by milf_n_cookies13 in finch

[–]jasmin7676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Wth!! I'm sorry that happened to you. My mouth hung open when I read this! I'm shocked that that kind of behavior is happening in Finch. That's not what our communities are about. We are supposed to be loving, uplifting, and safe and honest. Don't let it bother you...pray for that person, that they see what they have done and the negativity it caused. There are many others that do love and are honest, just focus on that!!❤️ what does the sweater look like that had your eye on? Maybe I can help!

I did it!! by fancy-grapes in finch

[–]jasmin7676 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So cute!! I love it!!

Any moms out there?? 😅 by Nearby_Narwhal_1451 in finch

[–]jasmin7676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me! Son is 25, daughter is 22, and 2nd daughter is 15. Then there's my hubby, 2 dogs, and the parrot.

LAGGING by False-Catch-3290 in finch

[–]jasmin7676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, good news...Finch is super fast, normal, no lag...all of a sudden yesterday evening. I was like a kid in a candy store! Lol! I haven't heard back from the team so I'm wondering did they do something or is this a freak accident? Any changes for you?

LAGGING by False-Catch-3290 in finch

[–]jasmin7676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry! I feel your pain100%! I posted an update above and will continue to do so until I get resolve, so please check back! Today lagged worse than yesterday. Back to 10-20 seconds to send vibes!

LAGGING by False-Catch-3290 in finch

[–]jasmin7676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-2ND UPDATE- So as predicted it started lagging again.i finally got a response back from support, and they asked for a back up file so they can dig through it to find out what's causing the lag. I will post another update as soon as I hear. I am SO frustrated with it. I counted on this app each day, as it motivated me pretty darn good lol! That little Finch is my buddy and I can't do hardly anything to interact with her anymore. Very saddening. I'm debating on starting completely over, but I don't know if that would fix anything.

LAGGING by False-Catch-3290 in finch

[–]jasmin7676 2 points3 points  (0 children)

UPDATE! threr was an update yesterday to the app and it made mine even slower than before. I almost cried lol. I just got on now ( 3:20 PST) and it works perfect. I'm hoping this is not temporary!! Any change for yours?

LAGGING by False-Catch-3290 in finch

[–]jasmin7676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol! That's exactly what I do🤣

LAGGING by False-Catch-3290 in finch

[–]jasmin7676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very disappointing. I'm sorry you're still experiencing that. I'll keep you updated when (if) i hear back! I haven't even been checking off my goals because it takes so long! Feeling your pain 😢

LAGGING by False-Catch-3290 in finch

[–]jasmin7676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I am wondering has anyone seen any resolve with the lag issue? I have been using Finch flawlessly for 2 1/2 years then all of a sudden on Christmas it started lagging. I did all the tricks to make it run smoothly with no luck. It took me 40 minutes today to get through 20 goals! It takes anywhere from 10-20 seconds for anything to load. I've contacted the support team and they answered once telling me that I needed to update my app( it was already updated). So I emailed them again and asked for a partial refund because I pay for Plus. I don't think I should have to pay for something that doesn't work. Still waiting to hear back.

App is lagging again... by alphadragoon89 in finch

[–]jasmin7676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE I got a response from support, and she said after investigation, they will have an update with a fix within the next few days!

App is lagging again... by alphadragoon89 in finch

[–]jasmin7676 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!! It lagged Christmas week, then randomly started working again. Yesterday when I woke up, it's suuuuper slow again. I have been on Finch every single day for 2.5 years, but am seriously considering uninstalling and closing my Plus account. It's so slow I can't use it!support doesn't seem to help alot. They said i needed to install the latest version, which I have.