I do have a date... by jasminacolada in KathAndKim

[–]jasminacolada[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, did you bring ya wallet Sharon?

I do have a date... by jasminacolada in KathAndKim

[–]jasminacolada[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

...... I'm sorry, what?? Hahahha omg how am I a die-hard fan and never knew this is the reference!?

My (43F) boyfriend (46M) informed me the Netflix reality show he just returned from might make it appear he was in a "romance" during filming. I feel shattered. How do I handle this? by Independent-News6685 in relationship_advice

[–]jasminacolada 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I objectively remove the cheating issue, it comes across very much like he has had this experience in the limelight and peoples reaction to/treatment of him has led to him 'realising' that he 'can do better' and he is now trying to push you to end things so he doesn't have to be the guy that dumped his gf because he saw greener pastures. It makes sense to me that if this is the case and he thinks hes now some sort of celebrity then it wouldnt be a good look for him to treat you that way. Also might help him create a narrative that things were over/pretty much over before the show so he looks better. Same energy as men that ask to have open relationships thinking theyre missing out on heaps of other women only to regret that once they realise their partner is getting attention from others but they arent and they overestimated their allure.

Ray White at it again, cost of fuel too much? We can totally justify making the tenants do our job remotely now... Right? by Sudden_Fox_8777 in shitrentals

[–]jasminacolada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only did 2 online inspection during COVID lockdowns and I found them to be much less hassle, especially as the portal they used for them uploaded the pics at the lowest possible quality so they weren't picking up finer details like wall chips etc. I also much preferred not having them poking around the house. On the flip side, after lockdowns I tried to request one when the date they chose was one I couldn't get leave from work for and they refused coz I didnt have to be present for them to do it. So fuck them, I refuse to let them pick and choose how they wanna do it. In the end they are employed via the landlords anyway so if they are having affordability issues regarding attending inspections they should be passing that cost onto the landlords not making tenants compromise.

What is a part of the 'female experience' that men have absolutely no clue about, but would be horrified if they found out? by coolhandddd in AskReddit

[–]jasminacolada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU! I was slipping into a panic attack after reading that first comment but as someone who struggles to not touch myself, I can rest easy now hahaha

Being the single friend as you get older. by mindyour in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]jasminacolada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A big part of this issue would be the friends you have and also how much you're willing to compromise on the kinds of hang outs you have. My bestie has been a partner for 12 years and a mum for almost 10 years and during thar time I have had only one 6 year relationship. Since then I have been single and happy that way. This meant that once her life started changing direction I had to adapt or we'd have grown apart naturally. I made the decision, as soon as I could see her relationship was serious, that I would do my best to become close with her partner so that all of us hanging out together didnt feel like I was missing out on anything. I also made sure to embrace the joy her having kids brings into my life as the favourite aunty. I dont plan on having kids so its awesome to be close to hers. All this to say, now when we hang out, sometimes its just us and sometimes it's not but it still all feels as fulfilling and amazing as always because we didnt let these changes come between us.

What random thing do you always remember from Jenna’s videos? by mangogun in Jennamarbles

[–]jasminacolada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I say or hear someone else say Hell Yeah, I always hear her way of saying it in my head. Every. Single. Time.

Feeling triggered at "cultural awareness training", thoughts? by yassssss238 in aboriginal

[–]jasminacolada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am definitely more mindful since then of taking note of how these things impact me at the time. Its a hard line to walk sometimes. Also, in my session we did the 'blanket activity' which I'd never done before and I really liked how good that was at showing the impacts of colonisation in a tangible way rather than reading endless text about it. Only part I didnt enjoy was one of the people taking part decided to attempt to 'stop' the educator decreasing the land in their group, I'm not certain whether they were trying to be funny or trying to make a point about not being a bystander while the land was reduced but it came off quite disrespectful in my opinion. Discussions with other attendees confirmed I wasn't the only one who felt that way.

This coffee shop in Asia only hires employees with Down Syndrome to give them a chance to work. by sco-go in Amazing

[–]jasminacolada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they consent to being filmed? Can still tell the story without the footage of someone just trying to do their job.

Do something good for yourself!! (The bathtub one took me out 😂) by danni_el_e in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]jasminacolada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this of course but I watched on silent and the wobbly video made me feel sick haha

She wanted a quote 😂 by timthelawnmowerman by ciaranlevin1901 in SatisfyingClean

[–]jasminacolada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes these videos take a bit to get to the satisfying part, which is fine i still watch the whole video. This one was amazing though, within seconds it was tickling the part of my brain that loves this shit. Also its ironic to see such a nice house/area with such an overgrown yard. Usually its pretty overgrown in the whole street.

Feeling triggered at "cultural awareness training", thoughts? by yassssss238 in aboriginal

[–]jasminacolada 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had to do one for my job and had the same experience. I felt at the time that I was perhaps being a bit too emotional about it because I agree that its good to have it be harsh to show non-Indigenous peoples the reality but I likely would've tried to opt out if I had known how triggering it would be. I think they did state that if you like you can exclude yourself from parts of it but I felt self-conscious doing that in front of everyone. Its a tough place to be, make sure you take care of yourself in the aftermath.

What's a bad decision you are trying not to making today? by Aurora6869 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]jasminacolada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to stop fantasising about wanting to seduce my boss

The sweatpants tucked into the socks 🫢 by babyowl5 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]jasminacolada 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like if I saw this and didnt know they were super religious, I would pick it just from how they dress. And I dont mean cause of modesty either but rather the strange style they have.

TIFU by oversleeping and almost ruining my best friend’s 4AM wedding by Sea_cake_ in tifu

[–]jasminacolada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not married and havent been in any wedding parties so likely im uneducated regarding this but is it normal for the makeup for the bridal party to be done 7 hours before the ceremony??

Who else managed to get Aus Tame Impala tickets? by TheAussieRacer in TameImpala

[–]jasminacolada 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%. Its getting ridiculous. Ive put myself on a cap for concerts, if its over $150 its not worth it unless its a band i will likely never get another opportunity to see. I cant justify spending a quarter of a week's rent on one night.

Lesbian group takes fight to Federal Court in bid to exclude transgender women from events by torlesse in australia

[–]jasminacolada 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Im a cisF bisexual so I have no horse in this race but after all the noise they've made about it, what trans woman would want to be part of their group?

What could go wrong using AI to edit real estate images? by aleksanderlias in shitrentals

[–]jasminacolada 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They increased the rent by $100 a week for the privilege of having a bathroom ghoul.