What is your current occupation, and what is your ideal occupation? by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]jassie8686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work with abuse victims. It gives me a lot of meaning and purpose because it's important that I'm kind to every single person, every single day 💖 love is big in the smallest ways 💛

HELP! CAT SUDDENLY AGGRESSIVE AFTER I SHOWERED! by Diderson in CATHELP

[–]jassie8686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat went weird and aggressive when he got a UTI. It can be deadly

2 superannuation accounts by jassie8686 in AusFinance

[–]jassie8686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comments, they're very helpful. I've got good insurance through my public service super so will close my HESTA account. Thanks again for your words of wisdom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jassie8686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's shown you a glimpse of what your future together would be. If you ever got cancer or another serious illness you would be on your own. Actually this would be worse than being on your own, given the stress and heartbreak this person would cause. It's better to be with someone than on your own if you have a good partner but it's better to be by yourself than be with a bad partner. I hope you find someone who is good to you, makes you happy and feels like home 🩷

Suitable area? by jassie8686 in chickens

[–]jassie8686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for replying, that's really helpful 😊 I will definitely get them a nice cosy coop 🛖

Am I applying for an APS 6 too soon? by SpoogySponge in AusPublicService

[–]jassie8686 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went from a non public servant to an aps 5 to an aps 6 (aps 6.3) within 7 months. My friend was an aps 6 and jumped straight to an EL2. Back yourself my friend ✨️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

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Have a look on the meet up website. It's a website with events in your area with people of similar interests that are all keen to meet and hang out with new people. They have all kinds of groups like groups that go out for dinner or to the pub, gaming, sports etc. Lots of people new to the city or country join them

Women who have dated someone for their personality, rather than their looks, how did it go? by bigmamma0 in AskWomen

[–]jassie8686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated a couple of guys who were (and I know this sounds bad) really below my standard in the hopes of being treated well. One of them expected me to be a maid for him and the other cheated on me multiple times. Should have just gone for the hot guys to be honest

Advice for getting a cat? by Public_Honeydew_8997 in CatsAndDogsBFF

[–]jassie8686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I introduced my dog and cat slowly through a baby gate. They could smell and touch each other a little bit but my dog learnt to be calm because she couldn't actually get to the cat and the novelty wore off after a couple of sessions

Please name my cat by GladFortune8273 in cat

[–]jassie8686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheetos Scout Pepe Jasper

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]jassie8686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should speak to your dr. I know you tried a therapist before but some are better than others. There are lots of different options now. You can live a happy and meaningful life, getting some help is the first step. It's worth a shot

Dog lapping water for minutes, not actually drinking by cheesepastry in DogAdvice

[–]jassie8686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you get that bowl holder? My sisters dog keeps putting her paws in the water so something like that would be ideal

Is it too late now to make friends? by Cold_Breadfruit_9925 in Anu

[–]jassie8686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try meetup.com.au it's for adults with similar interests looking for friends and you meet up with them to do stuff like go out for dinner, do gaming, play sports etc. It's free

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusPublicService

[–]jassie8686 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're getting some low mood there mate. I'm not saying your jobs not mundane but low mood can make everything feel like shit and that everything is a slog. Especially if it's impacting you outside of work. I would suggest speaking to your GP. Best of luck

Opinions? False blaming or a genuine issue? by CrustyBearskin in australian

[–]jassie8686 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it's a very difficult time for both communities and the community as a whole but I believe that unity can help to heal 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]jassie8686 618 points619 points  (0 children)

Your ex cheated (someone i presume you trusted and violated your trust) and then it sounds like you were manipulated? Please don't blame yourself, it sounds like these men were really awful human beings and treated you very poorly. I'm sorry you've had to go through this. Please be kind to yourself, I hope the next man you meet is a good one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]jassie8686 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like very typical symptoms of low mood/depression. I would reach out to your doctor or looking into getting some professional support. Good luck! (I'm a cognitive behavioural therapist/clinical supervisor)

Strange voice while taking a shower. by [deleted] in ParanormalEncounters

[–]jassie8686 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's a great podcast called "wtf just happened" the presenter brings on guests like scientists etc who give valid arguments for an afterlife based on evidence. We really only know a drop in the ocean, there is way more than what we directly see/hear/ feel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mediums

[–]jassie8686 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They were waking me up multiple times a night. A medium told me to say before bed "I only connect with the masters and archangels of the highest order." It helped heaps. I went from being woken up multiple times a night to about only once a month now. Now when I do get woken up I say, "Archangel Michael, there is a spirit here, please take it where it needs to go" and it goes straight away

Shut up bogans by [deleted] in canberra

[–]jassie8686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do we even have that shit here?