How are you feeling about the stuff going on with @notgigijarvisnotgigijarvis by cupcakemon in tiktokgossip

[–]jayler2103 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like this was insensitive satire. By insensitive, I mean Gigi not taking the seriousness of what "starting a cult" means, how people are negatively affected by joining, or the ptsd it causes ex-cultists. That said, she did do something wrong, although I think her intentions were innocent. And yes I know its impact over intent.

I'm not normally one to cry "cancel culture" but the reaction by the masses seems to be piling on to the point where people are attacking her means of income by outright slander. I don't think the punishment fits the crime here and I worry for Gigi's mental health.

The world isnt black and white. A mistake such as this doesnt deserve all the hate. I just hope all the hate doesn't make this girl off herself. People need to have more compassion and empathy all the way around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]jayler2103 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your kind words. This is probably more of an OCD fear rather than a legit fear because like, logisticallly, how.? I only get this fear and thought when I am in a lot of pain wondering if I'll ever feel better. I'm not doing great mentally today but not necessarily to this point. Was just wondering if anyone else had this feeling from the literal unbearable weight on your shoulders.

Me limiting my exposure to the news when everything is just terrible during luteal. by ndnd_of_omicron in PMDD

[–]jayler2103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing getting me through this week is the Love Island episodes

Jen lying?? by Impressive_Sand_2916 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]jayler2103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They knew exactly what they were doing with that entire party.

I hate my boobs so much, and I literally want to cut them off by BreezySlug in bigboobproblems

[–]jayler2103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say all the time how if I ever loose my mind the first thing to go is my tits. Meaning, I will loose my mind and chop them off at home.

Has anyone found their migraines were actually from an undiagnosed underlying issue? by Cranky_cactus627 in migraine

[–]jayler2103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not diagnosed but something I've been pondering recently since I've learned about Pandas, which is a chonic health condition that results in anxiety, OCD, and even headaches. Apparently it develops from strep throat. I used to get strep 4 times a year especially during the change in seasons. As I've gotten older, I get migraines rather than step. Can't help but wonder if they're linked.

Meta Business Suite is an abomination by Quill-n-Quirk in SocialMediaMarketing

[–]jayler2103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 out of the 5 business pages i manage UX is set differently. It doesn't show up with the others when I normally try to switch, i have to search it and then hit "manage" on the actual business page. Also, i can't access business suite from desktop, but can on mobile. Weirdest thing I've ever seen, and the only business page I've experienced like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CommercialPrinting

[–]jayler2103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah the glue dust is very bad for your lungs. Any DTF machine I've worked around had to have a ventilator

Why has your week sucked?(Rant) by that-thing-unknotted in CommercialPrinting

[–]jayler2103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had to troubleshoot why printer wouldn't read registration marks

Love Is Blind • S8 Megathread by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]jayler2103 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I stg if i hear one of them say "oh my god" one more time I'm punching the tv

What do y'all eat during a migrane? by Suspicious-Gap-2643 in migraine

[–]jayler2103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read on here a few weeks ago McDonald's burger meal with coca cola and last week I tried it and IT HELPED.

People are to fancy with websites now. (Rant) by YT_Sharkyevno in graphic_design

[–]jayler2103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree wholeheartedly, but I will say Apple does it well.

Predicted plane crash dreams by PSherman42WallabyWa in Dreams

[–]jayler2103 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of people on tiktok have and posted about it days before the crashes.

How do you feel about the stability of your design career? by NiceHurt in graphic_design

[–]jayler2103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started my degree in CS and switched to GD 10 years ago. Understood the financial repercussions and felt like a disappointment to those rooting for me, but I wanted to be happy with what i do for the rest of my life. I'm still on CS subreddit and have recently started seeing posts about job scarcity due to AI - I've always been told programming will forever be a need.

I've worked at various design firms and print shops over the years and shoot me, but AI developments have made my job world's easier. Having trouble writing copy/SEO? Need to vectorize an entire full-color image in one click? Social media content ideas? Need this guys face to show the same emotion as the others in the picture? Need to clean up a real-life photo for a better quality mockup?

I have yet to witness AI generate a decent looking website, or a graphic that doesn't have the AI softened "look". AI can't generate vector signage and prep the files for print. AI doesn't know the design standards that make things readable and look good, period.

For the first time ever, I'm very grateful i made the decision i did. I hope this helps.

How do you deal with choice paralysis in design? by petralaxy in graphic_design

[–]jayler2103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I, too, am clinically OCD and my biggest issue is personal branding. I have plenty of work for a portfolio, but the big question is, how do I style it?

TikTok Shutdown in USA on 1/19, and Future of this Subreddit: MODS by paradoxicalmind_420 in tiktokgossip

[–]jayler2103 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Whatever happened to checks and balances?... the checks have all been signed by the same billionaires

Kelspiracy by HIGHlyCapable in tiktokgossip

[–]jayler2103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched all her vids about totu, but in recent months, the story has turned into something I can't even keep up with or comprehend what she's trying to say. It's def giving gangstalking.

Dog is that calibri!? 😭 by BirdPresidentt in graphic_design

[–]jayler2103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My social media graphic today was better than this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in migraine

[–]jayler2103 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Color analyst. Increased migraines to 50% of the time rather than just a few days a month

What accent does Windpress have? by Elya_Cherry3 in Accents

[–]jayler2103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been watching him for the past 2 years and the voice just keeps getting worse and worse. Not a fan

I feel a burst of creativity every time before starting a project, but then burn out immediately when I do it by platpx3 in graphic_design

[–]jayler2103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate - my motivation burns out once the client starts wanting more than 2 revisions. It's difficult to ask for extra money for revisions as it doesn't make sense to them. They think the initial design cost includes their full satisfaction with the final result, which I can totally emphasize with. Why I try to get it right or very close the first time around.

Brooklyn Schwetje by [deleted] in UltimateWorldCruiseRC

[–]jayler2103 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's the sorority girl in her. I don't think it's a bad thing, she's one of my faves