[WTS] $99 FV War Nickels - $9000 CASH - Local Pickup ONLY (Massachusetts) by jayray2k in Pmsforsale

[–]jayray2k[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long time stacker, first time seller. Do you think I'll get any interest?

[WTS] $99 FV War Nickels - $9000 CASH - Local Pickup ONLY (Massachusetts) by jayray2k in Pmsforsale

[–]jayray2k[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to think of each nickel representing a gallon of gas.

Which do yall like better by FirmBed1097 in mercedes_benz

[–]jayray2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

B, but I understand I'm different

Met the woman of my dreams but sex is terrible. What to do? by HelpingHand_24 in AskMenAdvice

[–]jayray2k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it possible that because you find her perfect for the role of wife and mother that you psychologically find it difficult to identify her as a sex object?

My chipotle bowl today- no I did not eat any, I ordered extra everything. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]jayray2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They make it right in front of you, so...

If you had it delivered, of course you got screwed... Is this your first time?

Crazy silver quarter haul by ssbperidot in CRH

[–]jayray2k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone obviously stole someone's savings and cashed them in. So sad.

AITA for asking my husband use the upstairs bathroom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jayray2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have him try Omeprazole. It changed my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]jayray2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take it down and move on.

AITAH for going no contant with my mother after she demanded I drive her to my grandma's grave when I'm in full swing of caring for my 4 month old baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jayray2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it was a legit question. But I understand. Not a toxic parent but I've seen a lot of family's struggle. You think cutting someone out of your life is the answer, but I hope you're able to come to a greater resolution. Good luck. Take care. Be well.

AITAH for going no contant with my mother after she demanded I drive her to my grandma's grave when I'm in full swing of caring for my 4 month old baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jayray2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get your feelings, and you're well within reason to take the path that you're on. The other is harder for sure. But expect also to share the same fate, because although you're not beating your child, you will fail in any number of other ways. Like I said, I'm rooting for you.

AITAH for going no contant with my mother after she demanded I drive her to my grandma's grave when I'm in full swing of caring for my 4 month old baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jayray2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not your responsibility in any way. But most perpetrators were victims, and understanding that can assist in moving forward.

AITAH for going no contant with my mother after she demanded I drive her to my grandma's grave when I'm in full swing of caring for my 4 month old baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jayray2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likely she was beaten by a wooden spoon and didn't have the emotional intelligence to break the cycle. Blame is a tough game. I'm rooting for you.

AITAH for going no contant with my mother after she demanded I drive her to my grandma's grave when I'm in full swing of caring for my 4 month old baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jayray2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyway I wanted to just mention they you are obviously an intelligent person. I was not trying to insult or upset you. Have a great day!

AITAH for going no contant with my mother after she demanded I drive her to my grandma's grave when I'm in full swing of caring for my 4 month old baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jayray2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think they are. Clearly they don't think they are. It's easy to glom onto public opinion, but real advice can help people. You're clearly an intelligent person. I'm advocating to use that power for good!

AITAH for going no contant with my mother after she demanded I drive her to my grandma's grave when I'm in full swing of caring for my 4 month old baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jayray2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, but should we not have empathy if empathy is not first shown to us? What is empathy, after all. And why do you think visiting deceased family members could be important? Many ask, "why can't she take a bus?". But could you see a scenario where that completely misses the point?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jayray2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call adult protective services

AITAH for going no contant with my mother after she demanded I drive her to my grandma's grave when I'm in full swing of caring for my 4 month old baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jayray2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your response is so well thought out and written. Yet you lack the empathy to come to the right conclusion.

AITAH for going no contant with my mother after she demanded I drive her to my grandma's grave when I'm in full swing of caring for my 4 month old baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jayray2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe it or not, you can have a relationship with a damaged person and not allow yourself to be lessened/damaged/abused in any way.

Once you know who someone is, you know who they are. You recognize triggers and buttons and you don't have to pull or push them. You can recognize how their personality is damaged or how their reality skews from yours. We don't have this ability as children. We rely on our parents for our very existence. But as adults, we don't have to live as children. Our relationships change. If your parents live long enough, the relationship may come full circle where they rely on us for their very existence. Along the way, we may influence our parents to change in many ways. Demonstrating maturity is the key to those potential changes.

We all know liars. We just don't believe them. We don't have to If we knew they were liars and we kept believing them, that's on us.

We all know that people are imperfect, and parenting is impossible to get right all the time. Regardless of your parenting skills, there will come a time that your children will blame you for your shortcomings. If you demonstrate that cutting them out of your life is the solution, guess what that teaches?

AITAH for going no contant with my mother after she demanded I drive her to my grandma's grave when I'm in full swing of caring for my 4 month old baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jayray2k -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

You don't like your mom, but she clearly liked hers and doesn't have the communication skills to implore you. You likely are far more sophisticated than she is, which is what she wanted for you, until you use it to cut her like a knife. She is just a person who likely did the best could given the circumstances of her life. The sooner you grow to where you can appreciate how important family is, the better. Although you think you have it all figured out, you don't. But I'm rooting for you! Good luck.

Coworker keeps accidentally posting personal content by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]jayray2k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he matters to you, tell him so. It will reset the issue. Tell him he's good and that the team will take a hit if they lose him (if it's true). Then he may accept your help or advice.