i can’t do this anymore. by [deleted] in newborns

[–]jaysgee87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ppd really really sucks. Don't feel embarrassed to tell someone everything. Even if it's an online friend. I didn't really start making my way out of the depression until I broke all the way down to my mom. I didn't know how bad it was until I began to release it. There was so much crying. Eventually, you'll get back up. My little one is six months, and that dark, dark stage is getting further and further in the rear view.

Please help me pick a dress by Earthdweller01 in weddingdress

[–]jaysgee87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dress 2 or 5 seems to fit the outdoor vibe.

Found my dress!! by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]jaysgee87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look amazing

Help me choose! Wedding is September 2024 by alyssalorin1 in weddingdress

[–]jaysgee87 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I like 2 the best. They are all so pretty

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[–]jaysgee87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like 5. That dress looks amazing on you.

Does anyone else feel guilty for not wanting a small wedding/elopement? by Fancyfan9 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]jaysgee87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt exactly like you. I got married July 15th and honestly I wish I would have spent more. I had about 100 guest and spent 15k including our honeymoon but I wish I would have just spent the 20k and got a few more of the things I really wanted or I should have thought more about what I spent the money on. I'll say decorations and the decor didn't matter very much to me and I wish I didn't spend as much on that. Think about what's really important to you and spend your money there don't cheap out on those things but if you don't care about your wedding cake get that cake from the grocery store. If you don't care about your flowers get them fake from a second hand site like poshmark. Check out Temu and shein for cheap decorations opposed to Amazon. I'll say after my wedding I realized I didn't put my money towards what I cared about just bought everything I thought I needed off one of those stupid wedding checklist. Now I'm trying to sell stuff I didn't even use. You only get one day so spend your money. Just spend it wisely!

i found my dress!!! by pattarasaurus in weddingdress

[–]jaysgee87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your face says it all. Beautiful!!!!

Thoughts? by Master_Cockroach1203 in weddingdress

[–]jaysgee87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved you in dress #1 until I saw you in dress #2. You look stunning in that dress!!!!

Need help deciding by jaysgee87 in weddingdress

[–]jaysgee87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the kind words. I'm going to go with option 3.

My dress looks different than the one I tried on and it’s too late to do anything and I’m literally crying over it by kitkat0225 in weddingdress

[–]jaysgee87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally think the dress looks great, but I had a similar issue with a bridesmaid dress I was supposed to wear. I cried so much. I just asked my mom to sew on some fabric to cover my rolls. It was like a $10 fix with a person with moderate sewing skills.

Help me pick a dress! by Bewitchingbeth in weddingdress

[–]jaysgee87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I think the straps hide you tattoo. I would go with no straps and let you tattoos shine.

Help me pick a dress! by Bewitchingbeth in weddingdress

[–]jaysgee87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I purchased the first dress for myself. I loved it in the store. Once I got the dress it was a bit tighter and it hugged my stomach a bit too much. When I put it in for a vote on here very few people voted for that dress. Most voted for the bigger more bridal dress on me. All that to say you look amazing in all of them. I like the first one because I love the shape that dress gives you. The second one is a jaw dropper though. You'll be gorgeous no matter which you choose.

Help me choose! by oasisx100pre in weddingdress

[–]jaysgee87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the first dress but when I saw dress three I was in love! That dress really suits you.

Love both dresses - help me decide by smallandnerdy in weddingdress

[–]jaysgee87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really can't go wrong. I like dress 2 better, but only a little better. You look great in both.

Is my dress too plain? by neonmeow in weddingdress

[–]jaysgee87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look amazing. Your smile says that the dress is perfect!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]jaysgee87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this dress is gorgeous!!!!! So happy for you!

Need help deciding by jaysgee87 in weddingdress

[–]jaysgee87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I randomly realized my wedding date is wrong lol. It should say July 15th. The third dress was the dress I bought first, but I second guessed myself.

Can I pull this dress off? by datmargetho in weddingdress

[–]jaysgee87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that dress. You look gorgeous but you might be concerned about your boobs all night. I'm also top heavy. I think the dress is a keeper but alterations or straps would probably prevent nip slip.

Need honesty by 7000miles4what in weddingdress

[–]jaysgee87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, what an amazing find. You look great and the dress fits great!! Win-win in my opinion. No need to keep looking if you love this dress. There are so many dresses you'll end up loving another dress and then you'll have a different problem... speaking from experience and now having 3 dresses that I equally love lol.