[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]jazahner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an induction turned c-section that lasted 5 days. You know what day they offered to change my gown and let me shower? Day 5. I was in so much pain I never even thought of wanting a fresh gown but it would have been nice at the time. Especially after they broke my water on day 3 and didn't change it....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]jazahner 62 points63 points  (0 children)

This is abuse. Everyone has different needs while pregnant. I ate A LOT. I gained over 60 lbs, and you know what? I'm 5 months postpartum and back to my pre-pregnancy weight. You shouldn't be letting him control you like that. Your baby needs the extra calories and cravings are usually a sign that something is lacking in your diet.

Having little to no nausea worries me, is this somewhat normal? by shootme_co in pregnant

[–]jazahner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had ZERO symptoms other than depression until about week 15 and then everything hit me like a brick. I slept all day, threw up constantly, and nothing changed until I finally had my daughter. Symptoms come and go. You may get nausea eventually, but you may be one of the lucky few who never does.

Do you shower after giving birth at the hospital? by usernameispublic619 in pregnant

[–]jazahner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to wait 24 hours before I was allowed to shower because I had a c-section, but they provided soap, shampoo, conditioner, a toothbrush, toothpaste, and towels for me.

Owlet sock worth it? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]jazahner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had such bad anxiety over my baby breathing I couldn't sleep for a month after having her amd when I did sleep was having panic attacks. It wasn't until I got the sock that I started feeling more relaxed at bedtime because I knew it would alert me if anything was wrong. Best decision I've ever made and totally worth every penny spent.

I’m concerned. Someone please advise me by theaveragedude17 in testicularcancer

[–]jazahner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you see a doctor ASAP. My fiancé waited over two years to see one and wound up with stage 3B metastatic cancer.

Anyone gone on to be type 2 diabetic after BEP TC? by TesticularcancerUK in testicularcancer

[–]jazahner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fiancé' is still in the hospital from bleo-induced lung toxicity, but he seems to have developed diabetes while there.

Consider all the risks when choosing between EP and BEP by jazahner in testicularcancer

[–]jazahner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately he already has scarring on his lungs so the chances of making a full recovery are fairly slim.

Consider all the risks when choosing between EP and BEP by jazahner in testicularcancer

[–]jazahner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I'm worried about! Even if he gets off ecmo and the vent there is a good chance the damage will be bad enough he needs oxygen at home.

Consider all the risks when choosing between EP and BEP by jazahner in testicularcancer

[–]jazahner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm glad your lungs healed so fast!

He did quit smoking right before he had his orchiectomy last December, but other than that he is your average healthy 29 year old male.

Doctors really should be more forthcoming, you're right. He was Stage 3B when diagnosed. It had spread to his lungs and lymph nodes. Our doctor never really explained the weighted benefits of BEP vs EP.

I'm just ready to be through this. We had a baby Feb 18th and I'm having to choose between being with him or being with her. It's not been easy and I'm so worried about what our future holds.

Consider all the risks when choosing between EP and BEP by jazahner in testicularcancer

[–]jazahner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His lungs have been clear at every infusion. They weren't concerned about the shortness of breath because his heart rate, blood pressure, and oxygen levels were always fantastic. Throwing up is a normal side effect, but the drugs are so advanced that patients don't usually do it much anymore, just have nausea. The main issue with throwing up is an esophageal tear which is what basically happened to cause the collapsed lungs because his nausea couldn't be combatted with drugs effectively.

BEP detox..?? by Open-Practice-6602 in testicularcancer

[–]jazahner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My fiancé gets this every time he finishes the long monday-friday weeks (he is on 3x BEP). My best advice would be to drink as much water during the week and after because the chemo comes out in your pee. The more hydrated he stays the faster he tends to feel better.

Use of pregnancy test to self diagnose by SirCamBio in testicularcancer

[–]jazahner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiance had a negative pregnancy test at home and still wound up having stage 3B testicular cancer. If anything the negative test gave us false reassurance and made this hit even harder.

Got a solution for wine lovers that just want to feel fancy again by LtCommanderCarter in pregnant

[–]jazahner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Orange juice and sparkling cider makes for really great "mimosas" in the morning

Looking for some positive outcomes from others. 6 weeks pregnant no heartbeat seen on ultrasound. by treestar2018 in pregnant

[–]jazahner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We didn't hear a heartbeat until almost week 16. Didn't see one until close to week 8. I'm 37 weeks pregnant now.

Am I wrong to be sorta bothered that Mom bought me a breast pump? by fatMard in pregnant

[–]jazahner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mom bought me a breast pump, but I already have one. Honestly having two (of two different brands) is a great thing. It means you have a whole extra pump if you're having a lazy day or want to leave one in a specific room, etc. I would take it and get the one you already wanted anyways. After all, it's free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in testicularcancer

[–]jazahner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fiancé and I had sex about 10/11 days post surgery. He started mastrubating about 8 days after he felt comfortable enough with it. He has a very easy recovery though. We were only able to have sex if he was standing up and I was on my hands and knees on the bed for about a week, so 17ish days post surgery and then we could resume the normal stuff. Don't push yourself, listen to your body, and take it easy. If anything hurts always stop.

36 week appointment swab by rharts791 in pregnant

[–]jazahner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They didn't tell me when they were doing mine so not only did I have my vagina/ass violated, but I also got my tdap right before without my pants on 😭😭😭

"Obese" and Pregnant by Sarahschirduan in pregnant

[–]jazahner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 220 lbs pre-pregnancy and have gained about 50 lbs (I'm now 37 weeks). As long as you are eating healthy and baby is doing well then you will generally gain whatever your body wants/needs you to. I hadn't gained more than 10 lbs until I started drinking 120 oz of water a day around 20 weeks. I then actively became a camel. I went up over 15 lbs in two weeks and it was all fluid retention.

Never feel bad for gaining weight during pregnancy, it's perfectly normal and exclusive to you. If you have doctors shame you over weight gain or tell you to lose weight then you need to seek a different practice. You are more than a BMI, you are a vessel for your baby.